Do you prefer to be single or married?

Would you elaborate on your response? I don't understand it. Are you saying that one cannot have their own life if they are married?

I agree.... to be single is too good... but marriage is good just if you marry with true one in your life otherwise to be single is much better.

Being Married is one of the biggest responsibility that you're going to handle,

its being control by culture and tradition just move on this is life its not perfect learn values that's make you happy

I loved being married, I hope someday i can find the right person to try it again..

thank you for that. I wish you to find your true life partner.

then, will you give that freedom to your partner too to enjoy her or his life?

well, means you have a good husband. so wish you the best.

That is a beaustiful dream. I wish you to find a true and perfect partner. my husband used to care of me so much before jsut to make me stupid to feel that he really loves me but after marriage suddenly he show me tht he is in affair with some.... and said it is me now say what you want to say....

I guess it depends on your personal experiences and who you are married to. It sounds as though you are very unhappy in your current situation. Life is for everyone and everyone, both men and women, are equal (but that's a whole other discussion isn't it?). Life does not just belong to the human male...

they can have their own life after marriage but it is common for men, men here think that ladies is what they say and order... and life is just belong to men. of course if a lady have such of understandin man, to know that lady also is human and have right of life, then nobody will wish to be single.

that is what I know but somebody else does not know that.

I don't know. They should air in May.

Hope you are happy there. Are the wedding belles in the air soon??

best of luck and happy life for you and your partner.

wow, 58 years marriage life! that is so interesting and great, God bless you for you and your family. I wish you the best in your life with your family. I am so glad of your sharing here and really thanks to you. have a good day.

Those same thoughts used to cross my mind also, but I don't want to give up. There must be someone for me if there is for others.

well, if you could see kind of people that they prefer their wife to die and live with force but not divorce you could run from all marriage...but I wish you to find your true life partner.

for the experience that I have and even I can not experience divorce is if one day my dream come true and I come out of my marriage, I would never never marry agian..

Yeppp ,, when you wanna to marriage, you should already mature, in body and soul ,, you should accept whatever he/she you gonna marriage, you already accept his/her family .. Well, being marriage in mature age is better than young adult, right? :D

so then it is good to enjoy while we are young and then marry when we are mature enough and have a mature partner...

well, I wonder that how they used you? mostly man they misuse ladies and for that ladies wish to become widow like what i wish....

wish my husband could meet your ex wife, then maybe he could understand the valuable person in his life.... some men they get good thing but never make value for it.. some good men get cheater wife... bad men get good wife.....

well my ex wife cheated on me so dont blame it all on men

well, I hope you to find your perfect one, but in my idea, single one lives happier than married one.... just we should be so careful in our marriage to make a perfect and happy life, otherwise better to be single but not having a failed marriage life.

well, if to have that kind of good partner then of course it is good to be married one.... but my experience is not good as my man is not perfect man for me...

I'm sorry to hear about that. And if may ask, what made you say that your man is not the perfect man for you?

each of us, have some ideol life. my ideal man was a man who is kind, respectful. caring, responsibile, and not having habit on drink or smoke. He played with me more than a year, and show himself really good one. according to what I saw , and that love which he show me, i choose him between many other ones... but after marriage, suddenly he show me his real face, first time in my life I saw bottle of alhocol and I saw he beat me up and said I am this now say.... I hate him too much as he did not have right to lie about what I did not like... i told him before that i hate those who drink like that and he said i lied to you becuase i know if you could know thta you would never marry me.... now he forced me with a baby and force me to be with him and live in those hell and hate. for htat I can not love him and hate increasing in myheart day by day that i see even he is in affair with many .....ladies. and he is not what he show me those time.. he changed my destiny on a lie and forced me to live in what i do not like.

maybe if you are man then you can have your life of choice after marriage but lady can not.

Ummm thats so sexist... A lady can as well. If your husband respects you then you can and will have freedom and choice .

my husband was too close to me and caring before marriage but after he took me as a wife, he suddenly show me his reality and for that i still feel that the earth and the sky fell on my head and feel so heavy and bad in my heart. i feel that i live in darkness with an evil and for that i really wish that only God make me single by giving punishment to him on all wrong things that he does daily in his life. I really wish the earth get clean from him..

I miss the time that i was single and happy. because my husbnad has taken all right of life from me but those who have understanding and mature I mean a good human partner are really happy.

good man make good life, so find a really good partner if you want to live happily after marriage.

I am really wonder about that, how much do you love him that you can not live without him.

how cute thooughts. wish you to find a true partner if you want happy life you should be so careful of honesty of your partner and his responsibility.

sigh comes from my heart when I see those who are still single and they have life of their own and they are happy. I really wish I could be single.