Who complains more /man or woman?

Hi kalav, If i start complaining, i, probably will not have time to live my life/ work/ take manage home/kids and so on. My experience - when you complaint to people, either they don't care or they spread to others that you are unhappy... so i only complain when i really have some 'attentive and concerning' ears.

Women attach a lot of importance to the relationship that exists between them and the rest of the world, whereas men I think would be more concerned with how they get along with their colleagues in the office. Most of their time is spent there and it is therefore important for them to work on relationships at the office or may be if they are in business, then with their clients and suppliers. Just a thought.

Sadly, kalav...I would have to say; "female species!" I think we are born with more sensitive receptors and develop them to the "nnth" degree..and it is excepted/conditioned de-sensitizing for MAN to progress in this world! It is the stigma of society! Soft and pliant..females. Strong, bold insensitive..males!

Men complain much. more and scientific studies have also proven that they interrupt more and they interrupt women more than they interrupt each other. When surveyed, however, most men AND most women wrongly believe that women interrupt more. However, I think it may be true that women are a bit more vicious verbally than men. I guess that language is our weapon of choice... which may be why so many men try to keep us from talking.

I really don’t have time to talk much, same way I don’t complaint much too. If I do it will be a very close person to me. But I must admit women do talks more and complaints. I had a neighbour earlier, they always talk on phone coming outside and I can overhear well. I am really tired up on their talk even though they are not talking to me. I don’t know why wasting time to talk on others. Now the new people came there they are also not different. I have to hear it from one ear and let it out through other.

I think women seek solution to the problem, whereas the men try to behave as if they are rulers so what we say holds good. Seeking a solution implies discussing the problem, which may also be understood as complaining. I feel women are more inclined to be peace seekers, and unwittingly become peace destroyers. There are unfortunately no books on ...if this is how it is, do this, else do this kind of human behavioral text books. This is also because it is hard to classify people according to their natures. I might react in one way and you might react in different way. So the solution I have to offer may not be valid for you, or what you have to offer may not be valid for me. All we can think of is, I tried this, it didnt work, have you any suggestions for me to try? As to complaining, I seem to be holding doctorate in complaining..lol. I gave a big list in thesids box in my discussion. lol

Giving all respects to women, i think women tends to complain more in life than men. Men do see lots of world and has experiences and sometimes go through different hardships and are more adapted in life and they tend to keep their feelings like sadness and depression inside them than revealing mostly to women.

most of the women depend on men but on other hand men, children and other family members are depend on women. therefore women get more chance to make complain more than men.

Well, when it comes to being sick I would say men, no doubt. It seems like when women get sick they just silently suck it up and get on with life. Especially if they are married or have kids. They know so much responsibility lies on them. There are of course exceptions. My sister complains like nobody's business. Just like my dad, although not as bad as my sister. However, when my mom and I are sick we don't say a thing. We don't want to whine or complain. But in day to day things, I don't know. Maybe women do. It's hard to tell. Seeing as women in general talk more than men, it's very possible women do.

I find that I complain a lot. I don't think men do that much. Men don't seem to talk about personal stuff that much. They internalize more. Women seem to be more emotional and seen to complain more to girlfriends where men don't. I am a woman so maybe my view is more biased because of that. But this seems to be the way of it.

Dear Kalav It is not that way for all. Men and women all have their own issues to handle. The society, the environment (in which we live- maybe family or other cultural values) they all have played their roles and will continue influencing who complains more. I know of a family - a conservative and kind of orthodox one - where daughters were never given a say. Now when one of their daughters got married, she would never complain because she has been taught from day 1 - daughters are aliens to their parents and will have to live and fulfil the wishes of the inlaws who is their actual home. This sounds ancient, maybe, but it is the scenario at a Puri Jagannath Temple Servitor family and I know this just because their son and me were classmates - though the son never accepted the above. In my case, mom always had the controls and say in major decisions when I was growing up. Again, between me and my wife, my wife has almost all the say and as such I think they dont have any reasons to complain. I dont consider the petty issues where we have disagreements as complains - instead I would prefer calling them as points of discussions to resolve the issues.

Women tends to complain more than men. But working women of course complain less than non working women. Complaining comes natural to girls but in some homes you can find women complain less than men.

man is from mars and women from venus. have you heard this book tittle? man is tend talk their oppinion rationally and women is like to talk what they feel. that why i think the women does have a lot to complain.

I am a woman and I think woman complains more than a man. well, women have soft feeling and just little things little wrong behave or speak can hurt their feeling and for that they would make complain on many things. I am not that kind of woman but as I have seen many of them I can say woman complains more. we used to use our right part of brain more and for that we say things maybe even without thinking and more eager to gossip but men used to use their left part of brain and for that they have more concentration on what they do and they say.

Women are usually more interested in personal relationships than men.

Sister kala It is the women who complain more even on minor issues; many houses break due to this too. In my opinion let's drop this 'in-law' from MIL, FIL, SIL, BIL etc; i am sure most of the problems will get solved.