What would you do?
By jadoixa
@jadoixa (1166)
Philippines
March 20, 2013 10:54am CST
If you are in a long distance relationship and your boyfriend asks you to send a nude photo of you just for him and he promises to keep it just for himself or privately. would you consider it or not? would you trust this boyfriend and go ahead and send what he asks for? what is your view and opinion regarding this kind of situation?
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10 responses
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
21 Mar 13
I'm married but if I was back to dating time of my life. It would all come down to how comfortable I am with that guy at that time and if he would beindndoingnthe same back for me since he is getting pictures of me I would equally want pictures right back.
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@jadoixa (1166)
• Philippines
22 Mar 13
people have different thoughts and ways of considering and doing it..also we just have to think about the risks of doing it..but it is better to do or see it in person than capturing it on pic which has the risk of being exposed to everyone in the public,.no matter how we say we keep it a secret or private.
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@spicymary (558)
• Romania
21 Mar 13
I would send him a photo without face, just my body in an artistic exciting situation.
That way, he will be content and have some sexy material to remember you in that way, and you will not have to fear anything. He can't show the picture to anybody to say it is you there, because he can't prove it's you.
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@stary1 (6612)
• United States
20 Mar 13
jadoixa I think the fact you are hesitating says you don't think you should. Even if your boyfriend kept it private, there is always a chance someone else would accidentally see it.
I think it is rather questionable that your bf would put you in this awkward position of having to decide whether to send it to him.
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@jadoixa (1166)
• Philippines
22 Mar 13
yes, that is what i thought too..i told it too him..and good thing he respect it and didn't force it..that is really a very dangerous and awkward thing to do especially to send and upload it on the internet...even for myself and to keep it secret on my phone or computer, i would not do it because we can never tell what's going to happen..a lot of these incidents already happened with people and celebrity that even if they keep it private still it got exposed and scandalized..we must never do it..
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@coxjoseph5 (209)
• United States
25 Mar 13
No ont do it , tell him to vcome see you and he can have the real thing. within hours it will be all over the internet.
@XtremeGaming (742)
• South Africa
20 Mar 13
Don't do it. Your gut says no and you already no why not to, so don't do it. People lie and talk rubbish and once that pic is online that it, its not coming off. If he wants to see you nakes that badly tell him ti visit you and see you for real not on a picture. See how he replies to that !!
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
21 Mar 13
I wouldn't send the photo. I trust him but I do not trust the internet Or the postal service. He will just have to remember what I look like.
@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
22 Mar 13
No way No how. I don't trust the internet or phone pics and if you mailed it...what's to say you broke up and he's got a photo of you 
Nope, wouldn't do it.
Nope, wouldn't do it.
@grvdubey11 (1879)
• India
23 Mar 13
This happens in long distance relationships ,there are some strange demands and useless misunderstandings.However its better to make out for real rather than satisfying such demands.
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
23 Mar 13
nope, I would never do it even if my husband will ask me such of photo. there are kind of things we should never trust anybody in that even a close family memebers. so do not do that.
