How to teach my daughter to studying?

i think you need to make sure she knows how important school and studies are for her.

teach here with acting for example reading a story using different voices... to express the story very well. dont tell her to study instead encourage her to like reward system... Or example: can you tell me the story about Cinderella.. or something that interest her. have her see some educational videos. forcing her study only pressure her.

Almost all children are like that.They don't like studying.Playing games is what they are interested in.In fact,it's a great opportunity for you.If you can understand her subjects,then teach her instead of forcing her to study by herself.Try to make study as interesting as a game.If you can do it,she would automatically start taking interest in her studies.Good teachers make study interesting.

I think you could start out with little reward per week if she studies well. Nothing too crazy but something little... an extra chocolate or a new shiny hairclip. That could actually help, because in this age, they don't really listen to when we want to explain something with arguments.

Im not yet a mother but still all i can suggest my friend,still allow her to pursue what she want or what she interested for, cause not all children out their gifted to have that talent, but you have to set a limit,In her study you have to take it slow don't force her,but still teach her in interesting way,or challenging one,or in a condition,for example tell her to study in her lesson,then if she study give her a rewards, like materials in her drawing,My friend time come she will be having interest in her study..Just pray and kept on telling her how important study is..Good day and God Bless to both of you

Make flashcards and make up little songs and rhymes to help her memorize whatever it is she studying. Then reward her with something.

You can't force your child away from what she loves but you can use what she loves to do to help keep her motivated about her school work. Perhaps you can offer to enroll her in music or acting or dancing class for doing well in her school work. I found that the hardest problem for me to keep focused on my work when I was younger was the lack of motivation. You just have to find ways to motivate your daughter and rewarding her with helping her pursue what she loves like acting, dancing, and singing can really help her to stay motivated in her work. Also remind her that to get into schools for performing arts she will still need to take all of the regular classes as well as prerequisites. Hopefully this will help your daughter focus.

hello mylotter, your daughter must be between 8 to. 9 years old? children usually at that age had a short span of attention especially in studying. we as mother should be more patience in dealing with them.

Why not tell her that she will be given a special gift of her choice if she studies well. What I mean is, you should have an authority over her. Tell her that she can only do what she wants if she learns to give more time and focus on her studies. Everything needs to undergo a learning process. She can be the best she can if she prioritizes her studies over anything else.

hi... you are right school age are difficult to force them to study they just need what their wants. why don't you give consequences and if she will study give her some hugs and kisses.

Hi, If your child is so interested in media then you can download educational videos. There are innumerable videos pertaining to history, geography, science and maths. So, choose the topics that are listed in her school syllabus and download the videos from internet. Believe me it will be more engrossing and interesting than the lectures given in school. Moreover, visual stuffs have more impact than the audible ones. Also, there are some paid channels that offer mathematics in a fun and enjoyable manner. You child will be more than eager to learn this way. Hope you try it to see the difference. All the best :)

I am not yet a mother but I'm a teacher.. I think your daughter is talented.. she must be a special...she definitely find studying boring because she is enjoying in doing another thing. She needs strict guidance from you, you should explain to her that what she is doing ( dancing, drawing, playing,singing...) is good but studying is more important for her to materialize her dreams..try to motivate her, try to give her a reward everytime she got a high score during exams, or after she completed her assignment, that is to inspire her to do good in school.

now a days all students are like this not interested in studing.This is not your daugther fault every children has this problem.they only like to play,sing,dance,etc this age is very crazy to study

Don't pressure her so much , it may lead to some problem but just encourage her ,motivate her what one gets if one study a lesson , later slowly she will be able to digest it. Don't force anything to a child wherein she is not ready , there is a law of readiness. If a child is ready then so easy to introduce anything.

Really hard to teach a kid in her age. Well what i can do is just to give an advice how to tell her to study and i came also from your problem too when my children are in grade school. First try to play with her in a short while then tell her the reward if you win the game and what is her reward if she win also. Be at her age too when it comes to convince her to study. Try to show some interesting things along the lessons and make her the situations friendly to her. She become bored when she look to her study materials like notebooks and books. Ask what she like most and tell some stories about the lessons you want to let her do. Draw some good places or tell her some good place where she wanted to go right after she finished her studies. Do not over studying or stay in one lesson too long that make her bored. If she love to sing and act like an artist let her do it while studying. If she like to sing then let her memorization sings into a happy song with the lyrics of her lessons. SO really hard to teach a child if she got bore always and to bring her back to active in participation. We as a parents has a big role or part on their study program. And most especially have lots of patients with her. Good luck my friend and i wish you win her study habit again...

I have two daughters, who are sometimes lazy. As parents, we have to force them to study. Tell them that if they are lazy, they will not be somebody in the future. I often tell them that if we are diligent, the future is there so bright and beautiful awaiting..... Don't give up telling them over and over again.

Perhaps you can improvise by making the subjects more interesting. For example for subject like History, you can add it like story telling, with imagination by including elements like drawing of the scene, play it out etc. Even in Maths, you can include in some pictures, game like way of teaching. Rewards her with job well done when she completes her school task with something of her hobbies. All the best, I believe you put in some creativity the school subjects will become fun to learn.

Hi, Your daughter is interested in dancing, singing, and acting. She has the skill in these fields. It is very good. So you should encourage her in imroving in these fields. But you should tell her that if you want to dance and play then you should study for some time. You should not force her to study but try to convince her for studying by soft and cool words.

It might be helpful if you give her some incentive to learn other subjects. For instance, you can reward her efforts in her difficult subjects with something she wants. If not that, you can try to motivate her to learn the difficult subjects by making a connection between learning the difficult subjects and her dream goal. For instance, people who become stars still need to be well-rounded. You can explain to her it will give her a competitive edge to know how to study the difficult subjects. In addition, while she learns the difficult subjects, she might even learn something about pursuing a backup career relating to her difficult subjects. I am not saying to discourage her dream of becoming a star. But it's always best to have a backup plan because things do not always work out the way you want.

If Iwere you Iwould try to use her favourite things like dacing and singing like reward.Tell her that she can do whatever she likes for an hour If she does her studies first.It sounds like you have a very artistic child so maybe that s her path don't expect her to be great student most rtistic personalities are not nerds they are outgoing and don't like quiet activities like reading.