I'm sorry and I love you, mom.

sometimes i too get angry on my mom for not listening to me..then it ends up in a silent fight without words. We both stop talking, maybe just for hours..but i recall one day we stopped talking for 2-3 days. That was painful. Mothers are mothers, no one can just replace her.

It is not easy to control yourself when you are in bad mood or get annoyed. I am sure even you quarrel with your mother, she knows how much you love her. You can certainly express your love in another way like offer a massage. Besides, recently I find out that if someone talks a lot and keeps telling you what you should do or shouldn't, it means that he/she does pay close attention to you. He/She watches where you are and what you do, that's why he/she has so much to say. But it also means that she cares about you.

My mother is also like that. She's always complaining and saying bad things about the helper. Thus, sometimes when i visit them and see and hear her say things to our helper, i can't help defending the poor helper. Though , i love my mother so much too but can't help answering he back sometimes.

Yes, mother is everything for her children, but it is difficult to respect her, because she always talk much all the time, so sometimes we cannot control our emotion when she talk to much and never give us opportunity to make argument. Actually what she do in order to we are be perfect, but sometimes she never realize that it is make us hurt. I ever experience a bad thing with my mother. When I broke up with my boyfriend, my mother talked a lot to me and blames me. She think this case because of my mistake. My mother looks like hate to me. I was injured at that time. After all passed, I realized that my mother just want our relationship is fine. She does not hate me.

Mother is GOD on earth. She praise you and make you so much eligible that now you shout on her. Please be serious in your life and make mother happy by your work but not reply back in angryness. She has done much for you, now its your turn. Lets see how much you love her and care for her.

Hi~I am a new guy here!And I'm a chinese.I used quarrel with my mom too,but now I understand her well cause I'm going to be a father.All parents hope their children to be helpful.

I'm happy you decided to make a full discussion out of this topic, Your first one will definately be deleted since it really doesn't say anything. I lost my Mom 5 years ago and I tell everyone to make sure you love and cherish your Mom every day she is on this earth. You only get one Mom! Treat her with the respect she deserves...no matter how testy she gets!

I understand how you feel. I used to argue with my mom a lot when I was younger, I didn't really want to argue, but it's just that we always have different points of view, not only because of the generation gap, it's also because we are totally different types of people. My mom always felt sad or angry when I argued with her, she'd prefer I listen to her, but I always have my opinions and I always want to do what I like. Same as you, I always apologized too, simply because I don't want her to feel sad. Though I didn't agree with her opinions, I shouldn't argue with her or make her feel angry or sad. No matter how we argued, we still love each other, and my mom always said no matter how, she'll still love me too. As I grow older, and become a mother now, I argue with my mom much lesser. I learned to be more patient now, and also appreciate her more.

Thank you, IvChloe for such wonderful post. I am happy that you value your mom a lot and that is only what is important for all of us mothers--- to feel that we are loved.

that is good feeling and great to know your passion and commitment,way to go ,have a great time with your mom

Well the true saying is that blood is not thicker than water, that is why people who so much success when they adopt kids. If blood was thicker than water these adoptions wouldn't work. Family is really about how you treat each other and mutual respect.

I felt the same thing every time I get irritated with my mom. I always feel regretful and sorry that I did say things that have shown disrespect. I get easily irritated because she keeps on repeating the same thing she says. I know my mom is getting old now that's why their sense of hearing is not that clear anymore. I love my mom and she is the best mom in this world but even though she just always care for me, I still have this times when I get easily impatient. I'm sorry mom and I love you so much.

yeah not only you but , i also ever face this first i feel so annoy to my mom , but in the end i feel really sorry. even like that, i try to ask an apologized from her. because i'm embarasse, yes i am !! but I love My MOM

I lost my mom 12 years ago, there are many thinks in life that i did that i think i failed her, from my work to my relationships i think shes's not happy for what i did. I'am sorry mom , hope its not too late to change for the better, I love you and hope you would guide in my battle for change. Thank you for being my mom.

hi IvChloe Just remember that moms are also human beings and humans all can make mistakes but you are right she is still your mom so forgive her and start over fresh.She loves you I am sure even if she talks loudly.So she complains so thats just the way she is so work around it and give her some slack too.Also maybe she needs some help occasionally and offer to help her.She might quit complaining if you offer some help.

Thanks for sharing, i agree mother is the most considerate person in this world, she soon forgets who quarried with her, let me tell you a story, one a son beheaded her mother, hold the cut head by hair and moved to throw it in drain, his leg slipped; lol he heard a voice, hi son, did you got hurt? So this is heart of a mother. We should never dis regard her.

Hi friend, welcome to mylot, your topic clearly shows about your affection with your mum. Don't worry, your mum know about you very well and don't mistake you. Surely she will forget about your activity. Have a good talk with your mum and ask sorry for your activity