my heart is brocking,any help plz!!

the pain hurts for right now. i know that you can't see any way out of it for right now. in a year or so, you probably won't even remember what you saw in him. this is especially true if you meet someone else. yoo will meet someone else one day. just take your time and let your self heal. hope you feel better soon.

Hi Saraaaaaaaa01 I am going trough almost the same thing and it is pritty scary so maybe my point of view will seem a bit harsh but I hope it will help you. I realised that the man I loved wasn't who I thought he was, but I accept the fact that I was too blame too because although when someone wants to trick you it is difficult to see trough his lies but in the same time there were signs I refused to see. Now I am sad but I know that I made the right decision when I left him because I loved the perfect picture of him he helped me create. My advice to you is to stop connecting your love to other people. His voice wasn't melody to you because his voice is so beautiful but because within yourself you have this great gift of loving someone. There's nothing wrong with you, you are an amazing person who is able to give and love with all of your heart and that beautiful love you felt is your creation, you are capable of loving that way, he doesn't have anything to do with that. He didn't take away the love you had, you are still able to love that way and he is just a person you decided to give that love too. Now, you must understand that this great gift of yours you decided to give to him maybe wasn't something he deserved but you will find that someone who'll deserve it because the most important thing I realized and I hope you will too is that each person who is in your life as a friend, lover, relative or whatever has to understand that it is an honour and privilige they have a place in your heart, in your life. If somebody doesn't appriciate the place we give them they don't deserve it. Don't worry about not meeting anyone after him, first of all you have to start working on yourself, be good with yourself and then it will be much easier to find someone. understand that your love is a great gift and the one you give it to should know how to appriciate it. He is not the reason you loved him, you are the reason you loved him, because you are that wonderful person capable of such a great love.

Let your hear heal. Grieve for now. But remember to get out of the hole and become a whole new person. We experience this in our lifetime, and you should remember that there is always life after a broken relationship.

Wrong with you is that you see a facebook/internet relationship for a real relationship. Wrong with you is that you see kindly written words as spoken words. That you felt lonesome and lost and you clung to some stranger without asking questions. I don't think after you ended the horrible story with your ex, you did scedule and plan a life of your own. You did set goals for yourself, you did pamper and love yourself. You just felt lost, wanted someone to love you, to take care of you and make you feel happy. And yes if you are that way you do attract the liars and cheaters. The ones who just want to have some fun and pretend they love you but dump you as soon as someone elses passes by. Facebook is NOT real life. The change you will find the love of your life is close to zero. Keep that in mind. Start making/building your own life. Pamper and love yourself. Invest in yourself so you are a positive, strong person with self esteem. If you do that for you, you will see you will attract a complete different kind of people. BTW there is nothing wrong with flirting as long as you don't see it as a relationship!

Hi friend, i think you are in deep love with him and don't have the ability to live without him. Hope he is the correct person for you. If he is also in the same sort, then there is nothing wrong in your love, just find out whether he reciprocate the same love to you and be loyal to you. Wish you to have a great love life

Hi Sara ! To love someone usually means to have a pain. Love gives two things happiness and sadness . When you are going to love , don't give your heart 100% , spare a portion to yourself because we can never tell what will happen in the future . Nothing is certain in this life ! We can never tell person who promised of his world for us will leave us in the future . We must be ready for this for when it would happened , we can still have our world . We can survived having a broken heart and sail on. Don't trust someone that much , we never knows what is the real thing in his mind and heart. His words may not justify his actions . If he is liar then forever he is and will be ...leave him and move on ..Life is beautiful , you deserved better than him am so sure of that . Cheers !

You loved this person and that is why you are hurt. You trust this person and yet he betrayed you. The feeling of hurt is never going to leave you until you open up yourself and just let all the feelings of hurt go away. It's not easy but you have to face this and get through with it. You can do this by reading all that reminds you of this person. Get out and enjoy life with friends. Go out with friends and be with your company of people you know and they bwill be v the ones that would help you recover. Open your heart to people who are with b you now and I know finding someone online is a 50/50 chance. Sadly it wasn't the best that b you b found but this hurt you got will teach you to know better soon.

hi saraaaa welcome to mylot forget the loser on the net as most men are liars ando cheats on line and strive to meet some young men yourown age and face to face.that is the right and normal way to find someone who will love you and care for you and whom you will ]thumbup[/em]love and care for too

Crazy lady move on, you made yourself suffer on nothing, enjoy life move on, go out and see the world. You are not born to be a slave you want to be free, Right? god for you not to experience a lover like me, for if you do, with your attitude you will end up hanging yourself if not jumping o a fifty floor of a building. Life is short don't make it more shorter.

Hi~ Sara, In my opinion, love is just like a contract between the 2 person,when one of them want to break it , the modest behavior for another is just letting it be,because the situation can't be reversed at all.So Just Step out and divert your attention to the hobbies ,forget him and keep your patience for the true man of your life.

I as well have been hurt in the past. It will hurt for a little while but the pain will decrease and go away. If you are able to distract yourself with other things or friends and family that might help. I think when you are in a relationship just online that you never really know what you are getting yourself into cause you do not really know what that other person does when he is online or not online. He could have been talking to you online as well as others as well. I hope you will be able to do some soul searching and see what actually happened with that relationship. Also, see what possible mistakes have been made and try to learn from them so that you do not repeat them. I know that is something I did with my ex. He cheated on me and left me for the person he cheated on me with.

I have been thru dis stage myself.. First of all, if u have really known the truth..break all contacts with that person and make time for urself.. Just enjoyy being single.. Trust me its a wonderful feeling to be all by urself..Go for shopping, travel a lott, hang out wid frens, play with ur pets..in short..just EAt, PRAY and LOVE(urself). You don't always need someone to take care of u all the time. May be after sometime.. u ll be on a track to fall in love all over again and u ll be mature enuf to decide what's best for u..Good luck..!!..