Why Do the Grown-Ups Assume that They Know Everything?

@mythociate (21432)
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
March 22, 2013 10:49pm CST
That's why I don't like to admit that I'm a grown-up: because people then think I'm asking questions to 'swindle them out of something (on account of "I must already know" )' rather than 'just because I'm curious how they'll answer, because it might change my course a little.' I guess that's part of 'being a grown-up'---having your course all plotted-out, sticking to the course and knowing exactly where you're going & -exactly where you are. But why can't they keep they're minds open to the fact that they might ACTUALLY be dreaming that they're in a place totally opposite of where they REALLY are?
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@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
23 Mar 13
I do hate this kind of know-it-all attitude of some adults. They think, just because they experienced life longer and they have more candles on their cake, they know everything better than young people, so they don't even give a chance to younger people to form an opinion, because 2that's stupid anywayse". Gah, how I hate this kind of attitude...
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
17 Apr 13
The truth is, most adults know 'the priorities'---they know what's most-important for children to concentrate on (even though the children may not agree). I wonder if it would be a good parenting-strategy to preface 'an unwanted priority' with something like, "I know you're not gonna like doing this, but it's important to take care of first ..."
@violann (436)
• United States
23 Mar 13
Why do you think that all grown-ups think they know everything. I don't know who you know, however none of the people I know think they know everything, and I sure don't know everything nor do I want to. There is way to much information out there to even begin to want to know it all. Unless of course you're talking about people with the attitude of being a know it all and think they have to have an answer for everything even though they know nothing about it. I know some people like that and they just make me laugh.
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
17 Apr 13
I guess that 'way of phrasing it' comes from 'taking children's perspective'---in which their little understandings don't exactly fit with the more-global outlook adults 'have to have,' and so the children's little disagreements with "the way things really are" have to be swept under the rug to stay out of the way.
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
24 Mar 13
I like to discuss.. and I like the exchange of ideas. I don't think I'm suspicious of people's motives. But I think you're right that most of us, humans, do a lot of talking and not much listening! And also, there's a lot of strange ideas out there..
@anklesmash (1412)
23 Mar 13
You don't know anything just because you are a grown-up, nobody knows everything. I have found that the more that I have learned the more I realise how woefully ignorant I really am. The people who think they know everything tend not to know much and whats bad about this is because they don't realise it so don't do anything about it as they don't try and do something about it. A better person may know as little or less than them but they realise it and try to learn more.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
23 Mar 13
Hi, you are right. Grown ups always assume that they know everything. they think that they have more knowledge than the youngsters because they have more experience than the youngsters. But it is not always true. They also can make mistakes. So they should understand the feelings of the other people also.
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
17 Apr 13
Well, they DO have more experience than the youngsters ... maybe not in the isolated, new-fangled areas the youngsters create, but definitely in the larger field of 'life in general' (the field that COVERS & SURROUNDS all the new-fangled areas)!
@Nursefrai06 (2498)
• Penrith, Australia
24 Mar 13
Because when they were young they thought they knew a lot of things but ended up having unlike able results from their actions. Thinking hat they've already learned from their mistake, they dontwantvthe young people to undergo what happened to them, but then theydontvrealize the diversity of human experience. Each other's experiences are different, people might do the same thing but can end up with different results depending on circumstances and opportunities. My mom is like that too, she'll never admit that she's wrong in whatever topic. She'll always say, I've been there, I've done that, dont argue with me. Sometimes she's wrong but most of the time she hits the nail on the head its nice to trust them too. :)
@urbandekay (18278)
23 Mar 13
Have no fear, don't fret, I never once thought you knew everything all the best, urban
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
23 Mar 13
Because they think that wisdom comes with experience and age. Which, I learned earlier, is not necessarily the case. I know lots of grown ups who act like kids and who doesn't really have that much to show as far as life experience is concerned. And then there are also those who are still young in terms of age but they sure have the maturity of adults.
• Philippines
23 Mar 13
It is because of their experienced not really that they are expert for I am sure not but most the things is already part of their experienced.