Everything Men Know About Women

@leateagee (3667)
China
March 23, 2013 9:25am CST
. . . should I reveal it here? Let me see. I am a woman too. I'm having second thoughts. I'm not sure if my knowledge is enough to share to you. But being a woman is something. My husband discovers many things about me every day. We have been in a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship for 2 years and six months before we got married. Now we are married for one year and three months. I do not think he knows a lot about me as I know myself. Or should I tell him everything now? Hehehe. Well, I will zip my mouth for him to discover so I am a little mysterious to him. Is this healthy in our relationship? I believe it is. Well, friends I came across this link that showed a book entitled "Everything Men Know About Women" by Dr. Alan Francis. Please check it out to know more. http://bbs.chinadaily.com.cn/thread-825969-1-1.html Have a great day everyone!
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Jenny1015
@jenny1015 (13359)
• Philippines
24 Mar 13
I have been married for 19 years. And eventhough I think I know my husband well, still there are things that I need to discover. A couple need not sit down and tell each other: "SO, this is who I am...I am a ....blah blah blah...". It would really take years before you can really know a person well. Even a lifetime may not be enough, most especially if a person isn't willing enough to reveal himself at all. The mystery would probably get you excited along the way....you have a lot more years ahead. And you may never know the funniest and weirdest things about your husband. Enjoy the journey!
leateagee
@leateagee (3667)
• China
24 Mar 13
you are right. I have noticed that the little mysteries make the relationship and journey fun and worth it. It makes our relationship stronger.
leateagee
@leateagee (3667)
• China
24 Mar 13
. I wish and pray that it's not the negative one. I mean, what ever we discover, bad or good ... We will talk about it and accept us. Things happen for a reason so whatever he will discover is for us to deal with.
Jenny1015
@jenny1015 (13359)
• Philippines
24 Mar 13
I hope that for each new discovery, it would make you closer to each other and not the other way around.
mjhalz8
@mjhalz8 (255)
• Philippines
6 Apr 13
I think your husband must be the one to discover everything about you. Don't let him know that easily. So there is still adventure in your couple's life. Even I, as much as possible I don't want him to know all about me and see all of me. You know what I mean?so there's still that mystery about you for him to be curious of. Through that, everyday being together wouldn't be that boring. You too need to discover more about your husband. It's like egg hunting in an Easter Sunday event :)
leateagee
@leateagee (3667)
• China
6 Apr 13
You are right. I left the funny things about me for my husband to discover. We just had a good laugh earlier about cooking. hehehe. I don't know much about cooking.
kprofgames
@kprofgames (3089)
• United States
23 Mar 13
on the link!!! Keep'em guessing!!! I know what you're saying about letting everything about you out there for your partner. The air of mystery is a good thing. I'm open and honest but if he doesn't ask then why should volunteer the information There are certain aspects of being in a relationship what you 'have' to share. That is what finds you the common ground and continued interest in a person, but I'm with you, I don't tell everything about myself because that is still the discovery process!
leateagee
@leateagee (3667)
• China
23 Mar 13
. It's always fun to find the treasure in us. For the link again
toyota4k
@toyota4k (1208)
• Philippines
24 Mar 13
It's easy for a man to discover his woman's quality in just less than a year living together and vice versa. Unless of course if one is not observant or just simply a nincompoop.
leateagee
@leateagee (3667)
• China
24 Mar 13
. Well, we all have different personalities. A relationship that doesn't know his/her partner is just for friendly use, I think in my opinion.
nyssa102
@nyssa102 (748)
• United States
25 Mar 13
Oh, this is a tricky one. Hmmmm...I don't know because men love mysteries. They love to open things, they always have their hoods underneath cars and trying to figure out how things work. so perhaps thinking like that, it's good to have a little surprise somewhere. Sometimes what men think they know about us, they do not, and that is the surprise in and of itself ;)
leateagee
@leateagee (3667)
• China
26 Mar 13
. That is so true. They love to figure out something not just about things and situations but especially about women. I love them if they are showing eagerness to know you more. I feel so important and valued if the person wanted to know more than they already know about me. Kinda cool, I guess, but not the gossip style.
rosa880906
@rosa880906 (80)
• China
24 Mar 13
It's an interesting topic,HAHA.I don't think it'd quite good to let men know you too much.men like women when it's a secrect,but hates you when you're totally open to him as ugly and original size.
leateagee
@leateagee (3667)
• China
24 Mar 13
. You are right! The air of mysteriousness makes men / women become more interested in their subjects. If a man truly loves a woman ... Accept. If a woman truly loves a man ... Commit. Am I right?
Angelpink
@Angelpink (4031)
• Philippines
23 Mar 13
Hi ! You don't need to tell your husband about you ! Let him discover and know by himself the real you ! Being with him 24/7 is enough to see and feel the real you . He sees all your glows and flaws but still very in love to you , that is the real love ..unconditional love ! Loving you despite of your being 'you '.
leateagee
@leateagee (3667)
• China
23 Mar 13
. I could feel he enjoys my glows and flaws. Thanks for reminding me that real love is unconditional love!