Sending "private" photos from your phone or online..
By craftybird
@craftybird (80)
United States
March 24, 2013 12:41am CST
I find it gross and kind of sad when a friend say's "i sexted this guy" and often my friend will talk about getting photo's of her boyfriend and she will send him very revealing pictures.Another friend was telling me "oh i send my internet bf sexts all the time" My friend's aren't teenagers either, one is 30 and the other is 28.I feel as if they don't value their bodies at all.If someone asked me to, i would never do that.I just feel if i wanted to see my boyfriend naked, or have him see me naked or in my bra and underwear, i would see him in person. I'm just not into it.
However if someone were in a serious long term relationship with a guy she/he could trust or married i would understand the need to have a spark in a relationship. otherwise wouldn't you be afraid your photos would end up all over the internet or be seen by the guy/girl's friends? Or do people simply not care? My friend doesn't seem to care and send's them to any guy who ask's for a picture of her even if she is in a relationship she will still send them to random guy's.It's gotten so bad that i can't even look at her without thinking she is gross.Why should i respect her if she doesn't respect herself?
4 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
25 Mar 13
That is so true. It is better to always be in the right state of mind when chatting, really. Coz you do not know where your conversation would sometime lead to.
That is somewhat similar to an incident I had about 3 years ago. I was trying to find a work online. I was excited to have one coz I know that doing homebased jobs would really be suitable for stay at home moms like me. So there is this one employer who accepted my application. Then he asked me to have a Skype interview which I gladly did. I applied as a Virtual Assistant. After a few minutes of talking, he then told me exactly what I was supposed to do. And then I found out that I need to do stuff to make his clients get h----y. He gave me a very good rate. Tempting, but no thanks! he wanted me to undress in front of the camera and do crazy things! I got so pissed off, I cursed him and blocked him!
@craftybird (80)
• United States
25 Mar 13
I'm sorry that happened to you, i'm glad you decided to block him.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
25 Mar 13
I maybe eager to earn something but I am not desperate enough to make myself a fool by exposing myself over the net. I feel sorry for those women who just couldn't afford to say NO in such situations.
@Dias14 (176)
• Indonesia
27 Mar 13
that action was too hasty. He would keep his own body, do not let someone else enjoy it until later that he got a couple. Maybe he did it to get kenenangannya moment, a time when there is bad news he might regret. I think as a friend you should be able to convince him that what was done was not good, and should be stopped before sorry. I think you do not hurt people who do not appreciate the esteem of his own, perhaps he would be ashamed of themselves.
@aabuda (1722)
• Philippines
26 Mar 13
I think we can't blame ladies who are doing it because they only do it in order to show how much they love their boyfriends. And if you love a person, you will trust him with all of your heart and that you will not be afraid that he will put those pictures online.
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
24 Mar 13
I am wonder of hearing that somebody says of respect of body and not share photos like that! I mean, I checked in the profile and you are from united state.
I usually have grow up with the idea of respecting ladies and ladies respect themselves and make respect of their own with the way they wear and talk and behave. I do not like free people like what your friends are. I mean those who never cares of their body and easily they get into arm of this man and that man.
but a question for me is that:
does in U.S people also think in the same way about those ladies who easily fall in arm of different men and they are free how to appear with under dress in front of them?
I mean, my husband said open mind people have free $ ex in U.S in the street in front of all... is that right? because if a U.S girl knows about the respect of body and not sharing that kind of photo and avoid such of friends then can you explain to me, is in U.S also, people do not respect those kind of ladies who are working for money in bad way????
I will be thankful to you to share the idea of people there then I will be able to close my husband's mouth at least.
