they dont want to visit.

@pomwango (1353)
Kenya
March 24, 2013 2:23pm CST
i want you mylotters to advise me on this issue.our nephew recently got a baby and some of my sibblings dont want to go see his baby because they say he never came to visit some of them when they got their kids,he is family and i dont think if he never came to see their kids it means we should now all not go, help me in deciding if they should go or i let them be with playing tit for tat.
2 responses
@dagami (1158)
• Rome, Italy
24 Mar 13
hi, pomwango. i don't think that you can decide for your siblings. if you really want them to accompany you, then maybe you can try convincing them. if they really do not want to go, for whatever reason they may have, then it is their decision. they might also change their minds later on and go to visit this new baby.
• United States
24 Mar 13
hello they should get all together and see this new born it's not his fault,and he didnt ask to be born they shouldnt be that way but at the end of the day is going to be their decition so hope fully they change their mind about it,thank you for giving me the chance.
@pomwango (1353)
• Kenya
25 Mar 13
thanks dagami and theboss,i will try reasoning with them and if that fails then i think the best way out is to just let them be until they feel the need to go.
@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
25 Mar 13
You cannot actually force your siblings to do what you want because they have a mind of their own. But you can, however tell them, that it is their great/grand nephew that they will visit. Whatever the "sins" of the baby's father is is his alone, they should not let this issue with the nephew affect their relationship with the new born baby.
@pomwango (1353)
• Kenya
25 Mar 13
i agree force is not even an option and i will let them decide when they should go after all its their choice since they are all grown ups.