Do you believe in destiny? Or have power to define our own?

@hunibani (720)
Philippines
March 25, 2013 12:51pm CST
I don't believe in destiny. For me I make my own destiny, my own path. If you are being lazy and just rely of the people who help you all the time, then your destiny will be you are left alone and miserable without future. If you are not going to do something with your life to make it better then maybe your destiny, you will be in same place as always. I don't like to think that even if you are doing your best to make your life better, then because it is written in your destiny that whatever you do your life would be miserable and you will end up being a bum lol. We make our own destiny - thats it. FOR ME. Do you beleieve in destiny? Why or why not? xx
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@biman_s (1060)
• India
26 Mar 13
What do mean by destiny? It is something that will happen no matter what you do? Meaning if your destined to do something great then nothing can stop you from doing so? Well I don't believe in destiny. I like to live life in my own way by my own rules and I know that what I choose now to do with my life will construct the basis for my future. In simply terms I will be able to create my own destiny.
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@hunibani (720)
• Philippines
26 Mar 13
I agree with you. i think same, CHEERSSS! :] xx
@grvdubey11 (1879)
• India
25 Mar 13
Even if destiny has effect , its 90 percent effort and 10 percent luck or destiny.To be fair though even if you are trying hard luck does not work, some other time small effort will give you unexpected success.However trying is the key ,rest should be left on destiny or luck.
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
25 Mar 13
No; i don't believe in destiny, i shape destiny.
@hunibani (720)
• Philippines
26 Mar 13
Same here ! Cheers :)
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
25 Mar 13
The destiny is the bigger thing, what we do in between, the roads we take, are a free choice. Which means you do have the power to define your own, to change. If we are born the handlines can tell how or what.. but in time you will notice (by the years) that the handlines (in one hand) are changing if you change. So you are able to change your destiny.
@hunibani (720)
• Philippines
25 Mar 13
I agree with you. We can always define it if we would, define it and make it bad or make it goood. xx
• India
26 Mar 13
well, that is my question, and i still did not get my answer. there are some thing in the life that is really out of our control but those we can control are really important to make our destiny better or worse. i think our thought and what we believe and follow is really helpful for success in our paths.
• India
25 Mar 13
hey hi,, destiny is a really confusing matter. but yeah i believe in destiny. i would not say that i completely rely on destiny..because there is a destiny which plays role in our life and also, with our deeds,work ( karma) we can change it. Destiny is the result of good and bad deeds of our previous life. also astrology has been proved true and right every time. let me give you example. according to astrology if a time period is bad for you,you will face unlucky times, but you can reduce these with the solutions provided by astrologer himself. and astrology is the study which tells us what has our destiny kept for us. so i believe in destiny and changing it too with hardwork or solutions. :) take care :)
@hunibani (720)
• Philippines
25 Mar 13
They say if your destiny is to marry that person then you cannot change it. As far as ive known destiny cannot be change. I do believe also that destiny play some role in life when its time or sometime needed. But I dont believe it plays all your life from the day you are born till the end. xx
• India
25 Mar 13
hahaha ohk right !! actually they do not tell us the person name that our destiny has fixed for us to marry with. but yeah when someone get married . then we can say that it was destiny which tied them together. well what i think we should do our best and good,even if destiny is truly a thing of matter or not.:)
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
25 Mar 13
I believe in the fact that we can share our fates... but not in a way that everyone can make every dream of their come true, I mean, luck always plays a chance. It's not like that if you plan being a millionaire, you're gonna achieve it. But you have to work for your dreams and lives. You're not going to be successful if you wait for magical things to make your way, thinking that your god is going to care about you anyways...
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
26 Mar 13
Hi, I am little bit confused about destiny. You are right. We can make our own destiny. Hard work and efforts can make our destiny. We should not be dependent on others. we have to chose our own path with confidence and having trust on ourselves. Determination is also important. But sometimes we are helpless. We put all our efforts for attaining some goal and at that time we think that it is the destiny. We should not lose our hope. But there is some luck factor also.
@cmania (207)
• Portugal
25 Mar 13
I od not believe destiny and if he does exist I would say I don´t care about it ? It´s me who choose to do what I do everyday not destiny ? Destiny does have a strong influence on people somehow but we just need to get over it. We can´t see anyone could say to you what owuld happen in 30 years and your destiny it´s to be happy but alone blah blah Okay than what if I want to marry? because of destiny I want marry and I´ll be alone because somehow if it´s on destiny it has to be that way. That´s kind of controlling lives ? It doens´t free us it make us fear future.