Home away from home
@allknowing (136446)
India
March 25, 2013 7:49pm CST
In our life we get to spend days or even may be months away from our home. Not every place that we stay could be called a home away from home. I have one such place.She is a friend of mine and we have been friends since our KG days. I like everything about that place. They get up early which suits me. They too like their morning cuppa just like me. They have a beautiful garden and I spend hours looking at the various flowers that bloom. We love to talk, watch the same episodes on tv and so on.
Have you ever stayed away from home? Any good or bad experiences? Do share.
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10 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
26 Mar 13
Years back, I went to meet the relatives of my boyfriend in the province. It was my first time to come to that place. But as soon as I went through the city, I just fell in love with it. I do not know why- is it because I just wanted a new place to be at? was it because I love my boyfriend so much that everything that is important to him, I value? (Crazy in love!)
But really, I really felt at home right away. I have met his relatives who were a bit "umwelcoming" (is that a word? hahah). But have surely gained their trust in a matter of days. ( I was just so sweet ). I miss the people I met, the places I have visited and well....let's just not get any further.
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@allknowing (136446)
• India
26 Mar 13
With hopes and aspirations, that surely must have been a great memory for you It is better to be not welcomed at the first instance and then being liked which happened in your case!
Did that boy friend finally become your husband now?
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
26 Mar 13
hello, allknowing! No, he was not my husband.
The memories would linger coz it was one part of my life that have actually made me who I am now. It's a complicated situation really.
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@allknowing (136446)
• India
26 Mar 13
This topic is about 'home away from home' and not about once love life. I will leave you alone with your memories!
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@kalav56 (11464)
• India
26 Mar 13
'East or west, home is the best".I have gone to many places and have left the place with tears in my eyes and sadness in my heart but it was rarely for the place I stayed in; it was for the sake of happy memories during vacation once at Calcutta where I spent nearly a month with siblings and cousins; but by and large I do not have any 'home away from home'.It is more a case of my loved ones being with me. Wherever they are, whatever place it is ,it is home for me.It can be any place.However, my ancestral home where I spent three fourths of my life holds a special place in my heart and of course it was complete because I stayed with my family there.Now we have shifted to Mumbai and if I am able to go to my small town once again with all my family that would be my 'home'.
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@kalav56 (11464)
• India
26 Mar 13
If mother is not alive, then it can never be the same allknowing!Sadly your brother is also not there. And I agree we do need a break but I can only feel a guest anywhere else though there are a few places where I get along very well, like in my sister-in-law's ,uncles' ,best childhood friend's homes etc.
And pergammano! I am in Mumbai for the past few years now where we have relocated to be with or son.I am quite happy here and that is why I said if my loved ones are there with me that is home for me; however, as you have rightly pointed out small town charm is always unique especially for people who have spent three fourths of their time there.
@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
26 Mar 13
gOOD MORNING...for me, kalav...on my second cuppa..and I am sure that you are OFF to "noddy land" now!
Correct me if I am wrong, but isn't Mumbai...one of the largest seaport cities in India...and that is why you have related in the past, the markets and the city humdrum?
@allknowing (136446)
• India
26 Mar 13
East or West home is the best decidedly so, but we all need a break. I have travelled a lot and have visited family and friends. I was never comfortable in any of these homes excepting this friends' place specially the morning session where in practically all homes they would be snoring away up to 9 and beyond
I too used to be completely at home when I visited my mother when she was alive. But now the atmosphere there is 'foreign' to me. My mother was the centre of attraction there.
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@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
27 Mar 13
My sister's house in Chennai, South India is my home away from home. Their entire family
pour affection on me so much and treat me as special. They cook good food and my favourite
food for me. My sister has a great taste. Whatever she buys, whether jewellery, dress or utensils, it will be unique and special. She shows all the items that she bought, to me and
I like to see them all. That will give me knowledge of the recent fashion. We talk about
our childhood, relatives and general topics and I do not know how the time flies. I will always
be waiting to go there to freshen my moods.
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
1 Apr 13
Thanks allknowing for the kind words. Yes I was sick for something or other since two years
and was not allowed to sit before computer for long. Now I am feeling better and want to
catch up with mylot, which is my most favourite site. I have good friends here, like you,
who genuinely show affection and concern on me and I see sisters and brothers in you all here.
Thanks to Mylot and to all of you my dear brothers and sisters.
@allknowing (136446)
• India
1 Apr 13
There is not much going on in the real world as everyone is busy with their hectic scehdules that they do not have time for others. But there is enough of warmth here.
@allknowing (136446)
• India
27 Mar 13
I can fully understand that environment there at your sister's. That culture is slowly dying.With the second generation the situation often is dictated by them which more often than not will not suit us. You are one lucky person.
I am seeing you here after a long time. Hope all is well with you.
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@rekhum (2420)
• India
26 Mar 13
Since I was in my middle school, I was sent to a boarding school. So basically, I have mostly been away from home. Having been grown up in boarding schools, I at times used to forget about how the life would be at home. The school was more or less my home and I still cherish every moment of the days I spent in the boarding with my friends, teachers, wardens and other staffs. We were all like one big family.
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@rekhum (2420)
• India
27 Mar 13
It was absolutely interesting. Ours boarding was on the hill top so evening time we used to enjoy the breeze and during the night time we used to sleep in pairs or groups especially during cold seasons because the cold wind blows hard on the hill top and as kids we used to get scared upon hearing the eerie noise outside. When I joined we were all strangers and i used to get home sick and cry at night (not loud though lol),but I was one the studious and the better kid. We used to be home for summer holidays and Christmas vacation, of course. Food was okay because when you are growing you can really eat like there is no tomorrow. I had had lots of cookies with friends at night after our study hours. So much so that I now don't enjoy eating cookies.
@allknowing (136446)
• India
27 Mar 13
I am glad this topic took you back to happy days. Many do not enjoy their stay in hostels but you were the adjusting kind and being studious had no time to be fussy I guess. So you hate cookies now! I can understand if all your friends had loads to share with each other
The location of your hostel could have attracted you more than anything else. Only holiday makers would have the opportunity to spend time on top of a mountain and for you it was your home away from home!
@allknowing (136446)
• India
26 Mar 13
That must have been an interesting experience. How did you cope during your first days there? Were you a total stranger or did you already have friends there that made you feel at home.How about the food. Did you make adjustments there too. Were you allowed to go home periodically or you spent even your holidays in the hostel.
Do share.
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
26 Mar 13
I love to travel to different countries in the world. My last trip was in March and April last year. I traveled with my two children and our trip lasted one month. We stayed in a ground floor apartment, a dear friend in Chile, a hotel, a chalet, a hotel and a hotel. In 2011 we traveled for two and a half weeks to Colombia. We stayed in a hotel and a cheap hotel. As you can see we tend to travel around a region staying in different places.
One of the most happy and memorable places I have stayed was a tree house in Belize. It was called Parrot Nest. I loved it there. The best youth hostel I have stayed at was one in Port Augustus in Western Australia. It had beds with crisp white sheets. In New Zealand I camped overlooking the seashore and that was a perfect experience. These days I like a triple room as we are three people traveling.
@allknowing (136446)
• India
27 Mar 13
Being an expert traveller you sure would have made the right choices about where to stay but at the same time I suppose everything cannot be in your hands. I do not think I need to tell you that you should write a blog on your travel experiences.
I would love to hear more about your tree house experience. May be you could post an image here if you have one?
I too have travelled a bit but not as much as you have, and of all the hotels I stayed in, the one hotel in Interlaken in Switzerland made me the most comfortable. It was on top of a hill overlooking the Alps.
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@allknowing (136446)
• India
27 Mar 13
Sorry kala I don't have any pictures to show you. It was a package holiday covering 7 countries and those days I did not have a digital camera.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
26 Mar 13
hi,
in my childhood I used to go to my grandparents(My mother's parents) place. That was very nice house. My uncle(My mother's brother) has three children. they are of my age. So we had so much fun in playing and climbing on trees, picking mangoes, running, jumping and so on. Those days were very happy days. After completing education I had to leave home for job. At that time I felt very sad.
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@allknowing (136446)
• India
26 Mar 13
Most of us have wonderful memories of days spent with our relatives during our childhood. A holiday is not complete without climbing trees and including outdoor games as part of the holiday package.
As for me I have spent days with family and friends on several occasions.
@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
26 Mar 13
In my meanderings thru this life...I have found NO other shangri-la's like the sanctity of my current home, and my ancestral home! Probably, because it wraps a security blanket around me...and what I appreciate and approve in my surroundings. Many a place, has been inviting...but the emotion was missing!
I am glad, that you have another shangri-la!
@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
26 Mar 13
I truly AM sorry....that is far too much of a blow, for any one individual to have to deal with! But then, having a friend like you can be the strong leaning post she/they need to help them past their extreme grieving!
@adnileb (5276)
• Philippines
26 Mar 13
Ever since I went to college, I really never stayed home. I studied in a place 6 hours away from our home and then after graduation, I stayed for months and worked to some place almost 6 hours away too. Now, on my present job and longest stay, it's only almost 2 hours and I'm home but I only go home every two weeks. Of all the places I've been through, there's really no place like home. But as you said, there's one place that you'd love to go to. Yes, there is one for me, the place where I studied college. The place is cold and seems like you can't feel the heat of the sun. I love that place and I went there last year to celebrate my birthday.
@allknowing (136446)
• India
27 Mar 13
Talking about home, it reminded me of a song that we sang while at school:
[i]Mid pleasures and palaces though we may roam,
Be it ever so humble there's no place like home!
A charm from the skies seems to hallow us there,
Which, seek through the world, is ne'er met with elsewhere:
Chorus:
Home! Home! sweet, sweet Home!
|: There's no place like Home! :[/i]
@allknowing (136446)
• India
27 Mar 13
A place can be a home away from home if one does not have to walk on egg shells with all kinds of rules. Normally elders have rules but your grandma was an exception. I was just imagining you romping around and your grandma appreciatively watching you, overfeeding and spoiling you I bet!