missing your boyfriend

we are almost at the same situation were we misses someone.. i miss my husband too because he was assigned in another place due to some of his responsibilities at work.. i know there are lots of way to communicate with them thanks to technologies but its different to see them everyday.. anyways to divert my mind on missing them i go shopping or doing house chores so my mind will be occupied and i will stop thinking of my husband..

Hi friend...I know it is hard for you, but try to keep rational. He goes for your future...he does want to leave you. It is a good idea if you have enough time accompany him in his trip, so you can reduce your missing. if you cannot accompany him try to enjoy and trust him that he goes for your love and your future. You have to try to spending your time your family and other people who love you. Have a nice day.

I miss my boyfriend too and I understand that it is tough without him since he is the most comfortable person to be around with. Though it is unhealthy to be fully dependent on his existence. You need be strong and you need to spend your time with other people as well. Be a strong girlfriend and do your best. use your time productively instead of sighing and missing him.

my boyfriend and I always misses each other too since our work has to be seperated. we only see each other once a week and we make sure that our date has to be something :) by the time that were seperated I make myself busy so I would feel the frustration of being with him. we often talk on the phone so that we wont miss each other too bad. Maybe you can call your boyfriend too if you miss him.

You seem to love your lover? hhe: D I think this is a risk you should receive when you choose to become a sportsman lover. Ever occur to you? I think though how, even though he did not participate in any of the tours, although at that time you feel lonely but you should still support it, because with your support he will always remember you.

I want look for anyone again..

Hey ladies. I know how you feel. I had to work outside my country too, thus leaving my x-partner behind. I would come home at least twice a year but it just didn't work. She would always cry at the airport whenever I leave. I had to do my best not to have my tears running down my cheeks as well. I would just do it in the airport bathroom. We broke up when I was on my way to Italy from Russia. I think that is the worst thing to happen, breaking up from afar. I kept going back to the toilet to cry and shout silently. To be away from your partner for a while is good. Great to have space for the relationship to breath a little bit but to be in a long distance relationship for a long time is just crazy.

I know what you feel. My boyfriend had to take more shifts in his work to earn enough, and I barely see him. It's so sad and annoying. I usually try to do something I enjoy alone, or call a friend.

I can totally understand how you feel, because my husband also goes away for work sometimes. You need to have a group of friends who you can spend a lot of time hanging out so you wouldn't miss him so much. Or just to prevent you from being depressed while he's away. I know it is really difficult to find people who share the same interests with you or even those who you can trust enough. But you will never find them unless you try.

I tottaly understand you My boyfriend is away most of the time he comes home once in every two or three weeks. We talk everyday but it's not the same. I miss his touch and I want to hug him all the time.

Have fun is probably needed by you. If you feel that everyone is going to hate you. Make better your Life. Thank's

Even though he is not beside you, the feeling of missing is part of the love. It's wonderful to have some one to miss and it's more wonderful that someone misses you back! Though you couple get apart sometimes, it makes you cherish more when you are together, isn't it?

I totally understand what you mean. My ex-boyfriend is in the Army, and is stationed on the west coast of the USA, whereas I am on the east coast. He managed to visit pretty much every 4-day weekend he had, which was about once every other month. It wasn't much time, but we made of it what we could. He actually bought me an xbox so that we had something to do together once in a while for "date nights", wen we were both free! For a while, I would sit around on my xbox just waiting for him in case he would show up. We had been friends for 8 years before we started dating, and had called each other all the time, so we continued that while we dated. Every night that he had free, he would call me on the phone and we would talk until one of us fell asleep. It was a nice way to still feel connected and keep up-to-date. I know what you mean by everyone else just feeling irritating, like you don't want to be around them. I would get like that for about a week or two after he would leave, every single time. When I was like that, I would usually write stories or random letters to him that I never actually gave him, or play games. Basically, I would just find things to do on my own until I felt more like being social. Maybe take up a hobby or something, like drawing or knitting. That way, when he is gone, you are staying busy and focused on something instead of feeling frustrated and missing him. Also, when he returns, you will have cool things to show him!

I feel lonely too when my husband go out with his friends, I find something to do such as watching tv, cooking , shopping, do something which will make you happy, just do not stay at home without doing anything, or call your friends, you will feel better.

ya i certainly do when he goes for a world tour and the feeling hurts us a lot ideally,so we have to be careful about those feelings mutually also

Haha i can relate with that feeling ! Let us just hope and pray that he too misses us ! We really don't know what is in their mind and in their hearts ! Anyways that doesn't matter , the thing is we really loved them purely ! They missed us or not fine but we are just true to ourself , we felt that so why be a hypocrite. They are just so lucky and blessed that we loved them that much. Love is beautiful and painful !