the forbidden one

Each relations is preaching about love, loving someone else. There is no religion or holy book that says you are NOT allowed to love someone with an other religion. Also there is no holy book, religion or law that forbids to love someone who is from a different cultural group as yourself. These are all rules made up by people. Yes I would go on with this, since if this is no problem to you, I would not let others make a problem out of it. I think the two of you are the best prove of what love really means and what it means that you should love everybody/your neighbours an all people are equal! Those who think different still have a lot to learn and should be ashamed about themselves. BTW there are plenty of people who love eachother, are married and do not have the same religion or do come from the same social or cultural group. In many countries this is not even an issue.

The more you stop the heart from beating, the harder and faster it gets. It is not my parents nor my religion that would sleep with me on the same bed. I need someone I liked in all angles to be able to entrust all of me that close, that intimate. No one could understand this but myself alone. No matter what culture another person is coming from. As long as you got this common understanding of things, this real human connection that you could be yourself at any time then nothing could shun you from having this relationship with him. You only listen to suggestions but if you feel deep inside you that this is the right person then just follow it.

It is hard to hold back your feeling towards a person tat you have learned to love. So that leaves you on choosing whom do you think id the most important person for you. I know for a fact that a relationship without the blessing of parents do not often succeed.

i understand how you feel,since you are both student so let your selves focus on study and you are both too young to handle struggle of love. If you love her or him respect her/his religion/culture and also respect especially their parents. If you really love your girlfriend/boyfriend then go! fight for it if he/she is worth to fight for..

Differences in religion and parent's disapproval won't stop me from loving that person. You'd only regret tearing yourselves apart for such reasons. My boyfriend is of a different religion too and my parents don't exactly approve of him. I don't let it bother me. And I don't bother keeping my boyfriend a secret. Why should I keep my love hidden when there's nothing wrong with it? Why should they decide who I am going to be with? We are free to make our own decisions. Just make sure that your boyfriend is someone worth all this.

hi. there is nothing wrong with being in love with a person that has another religious belief. love overcomes all obstacles. however, you must take into consideration one very important aspect. when you get married, how are you going to bring up your children? are you going to baptize them in the two faiths? this should be discussed between the two of you beforehand as this will create a real problem later. your parents' consent is important in order to have harmony in your family but this isn't necessary. you can get married by yourselves when you reach the right age. just make sure that you keep an open mind and you do not impose your religious beliefs on him and vice versa.

Well, especially when we are younger there will be people who will never see eye to eye with us when it comes to a relationship and often try to prevent us from being with them, and want us to be with someone else, or do something different with our time and our life. But if you are in LOVE, it is up to you no matter what others are saying to continue to want to pursue your love no matter what. Just remember if this is really what you're wanting nothing can Stop it, and you will be best off following your heart and in time hope they will see it was what you really needed to do.

I think most probably you can talk to your parents and tell them how you two are feeling. I think it is good that both of you wait for some more time and try to get a good job and talk to your parent and then get married.

I think if you truly love him, you will go for him and ignoring your religious differences...

I understand your feeling. I have been there once. Me and my husband belong to a different religion and my parents are against him (thu his parents don't mind it at all) I was caught between love and my family- and I followed my heart. It's not easy, but for true love- I know love conquers all. Since you are still studying it is better to focus on your studies first and when the time comes that both of you are old enough to decide for yourself- maybe then your parents will understand.

I think you are right in putting your studies first. Relationships can follow once you have done something really good for yourself, like your studies, and once you are mature enough and know for sure what you really want for yourself. If by then you and your boyfriend still want to be together, and after showing everyone that what you have isn't some just childish or teenage fling but the feelings of two consenting, responsible adults, I think both your families will trust you two to live your own life. Religion should not be the only deciding factor when it comes to getting into relationships. No religion is perfect, only God is.

If you love and care for each other, fight till the end. Its all worth it.. Good luck to you both.

Hi there ! If i am in your shoe , i will never honor whatever is their tradition . I am so sorry but it looks like i would be the very first to break a tradition. I will fight for our love ! I don't care about religion preferences , as long as the person is having good deeds and respecting humanity then that is more than enough for me to love him. Religion , tradition should never be a hindrance to a good relationship. I will prove to my family and to whole tribe that love is only thing that we need to have a beautiful family and not by being in same religion , tribe ,color or beliefs. Whatever is your plan go for it , so long as your both intent is pure and sincere , God will bless it !

Hi, iamsittie. This year, my boyfriend become my husband. I love him very much. You can not live without each other, maybe you can persuade your parents to accept your boyfriend, tell them without him you will always unhappy and your boyfriend is a responsable man