Help my brother to take a hard decisions .................
@santwana_veddika (2018)
India
March 29, 2013 12:34am CST
my brother has married with my sister-in-law . but from 13 year longer time they have not adjusted . they still don't want to stay together .
but problem is that he is unable to take a hard decision (means divorce ) because directly or indirectly it is effected to my life . i am helpless
so
1)what do u think .??
2) can u have any option he can take for his future life?
3 responses
@santwana_veddika (2018)
• India
30 Mar 13
thanks for u suggestion . i think psychologist is a good option . hope so it will work
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
29 Mar 13
Hi,
It is very sad that your brother don't have healthy relationship with his wife. But it is very difficult to take decision of divorce. May be because he is afraid of destroying his prestige i the society or he may have some love for his wife. you als become sad if he take the decision of divorce. You should try to convince them not to take divorce. Someone old in your family can convince them.
@santwana_veddika (2018)
• India
29 Mar 13
my parents are not alive and my in-laws always favour my sis-in-law . so it is difficult to convince them .that is why it is difficult to take a decision
@dagami (1158)
• Rome, Italy
29 Mar 13
hi, santwana. i am curious how the divorce of your brother can affect your life. will you have to take care of their children when they get a divorce? 13 years is a long time and if they haven't adjusted yet, that means they never will. it is really up to him to decide about this. if they have children, it would make the decision making harder.
@santwana_veddika (2018)
• India
29 Mar 13
yes they have 11 year daughter . my life is affected because my mother in law blame us for their life . that is the main problem . they always blame my husband .
