Do you ever feel like telling someone to just shut up?

It's funny how it's ok for him to go and do what he wants four times a week, and when you want to go and visit a friend once a week, he gets upset about it. Maybe you need to let him know how you feel, and that it's not fair that he treats you like that.

you can and must give your own decisions of course, even he is your husband he is not your master, if you think that you are doing a good thing,just dont let him to make you angry and stressful and yes sometimes just saying shut up to the people is best solution peace..

If my boyfriend says something that I don't like, I confront him on it. If telling him to "shut up" seems warranted, I am not above saying exactly that. Your money should be getting saved back in a separate account anyways. You need to be getting out of that relationship. You aren't happy in it, and things don't sound as if they have been improving in the least.

Oh yes! Definitely! Not only to my husband but his sister as well. They just seem to have endless things to say that I feel I have had enough of their voices in my head!

If I feel like that I say so. The time I did not say it (but probably did think it out loud since my mother already said she could read on my face what I was thinking) is a long, long time ago. I was way younger as 15 years old (and already at that time I was not able to bite of my tongue).

Oh, my, how many times... I don't wanna sound rude, but your husband seems a bit silly to me. Holding grudges about things that didn't even hurt him is really immature in my opinion. I mean, I would understand if he didn't agree with your friend's behaviour, if she was careless in her life, but she has kids and lives in a marriage, which shows that she isn't immature... yet he would rather spend less time with you because of this. This is crazy. I think you should tell him a piece of your mind, because it could be weorse if he doesn't stop that.

Dominique you need to sit him down tell him to shut the hell up and listen to you for a change.You cannot be forced to stay home like an indoors house cat as you are an adult and have a right to friends of your own too. Has he ever hit you or pushed you or shoved you? He sounds like the beginning of an over controlling hubby who could get physical too. You need to stand up to him and talk this out with him.

I didnot have this kind of problem with my husband yet it happens a lot of time in my office.there are 7 women in my office,most of them are BMW( big mouth woman),they keep talking everything ,like their family,children in my office every day,it's really annoying,i can not focus on my work . a lot of time,i want to say " shut up"! however,i didnot myself look rude.i'm working to figure it out. in you case,i think you shoul talk to you husband directly,he seems selfish and self-centered person,my case is complicated than you,it involves in not just one person.^^

You know, if he can go and hang out whenever he wants to so can you. Besides, he is not your father he is supposed to be your husband. My husband has NO say in who I hang out with or where I go. If he gets upset when I want to go somewhere I go anyway and he will get over it eventually. I was controlled in the past by an ex b/f and I vowed to myself that would NEVER happen again! My husband can talk to me about something if he has a problem with it, and we can compromise on things but there is no way he will force me into anything...

Yeah i do, i just hate it when people just have to say these unnecessary comments that clearly aren't doing any good You can do the defensive snap and pout with them. Or snap your hands in a z formation and pout. That will shut them up, for a bit lol

A lot of times...the latest was while I and my husband were having lunch with at least nine friends after church. We were discussing events to hold the following week which included celebration for my birthday. I have always been anti-social and the last thing I would want to do is not even to celebrate my birthday with a bang! I was taken aback brcause it was my bestfriend who initiated it. Well, okay I was able to tolerate it and just shrugged my shoulder and did not comment. I told myself, okay, I understand you are all very happy for my birthday. But then again, my bestfriend, of all people, told everyone my age! That's my private life already! If I didn't want to tell my age to everyone I was having lunch with, people should respect that..and they all said..really, you're this age already?..etc..etc..as if they were thinking I was enjoying the moment..and my bestfriend felt like she was very familiar with me and very proud that she knew me well..but hello, why couldn't she wait for me to tell everyone this is me! That time, and everytime she does that, I wanted to tell her to shut her mouth up!

Yes I feel this way often, but not when someone mocks me or try to anoy me because I know how to shut them up. I feel this way when someone talks too much. I know many people who love to talk my grandmother included. I hat the poitless taking. When you have something to say just say it an shut up.