How To Fall in Love?
@valorieesquilona (442)
Philippines
March 30, 2013 9:45am CST
Can you teach me how to fall in love? Can love be learned? Or am I asking stupid questions? I'm afraid that I do not know how to fall in love because I find it hard falling for someone. I don't know..maybe it's not the right time for me to find love.
Cheers to those who are in love and out of love out there!
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15 responses
@tomford (135)
• Richmond, Virginia
9 Apr 16
you don't need lesson to fall in love it will just happen sometimes on purpose and sometimes by accident. you will know you are in love because first you become infatuated with someone and they are on your mind a lot. you feel a certain way when you think about them and they make you feel good about yourself and spending time with them.
@amundy8 (58)
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17 Apr 13
The first lesson is not to "fall" in love, because there is nothing good about falling. Just love. It doesn't have to be learned, it just happens. Unconditional love is what is needed, and that is hard but acheiveable. Since many people love for the wrong reasons, it is not true love because they can be easily deceived that way. It is better just to love and eventually it will be returned by the right person. It also starts by loving yourself.
@khhhaaaat (112)
• Philippines
31 Mar 13
Love can't be taught. It comes when it comes and you fall in love when it comes. Also, even if we want to fall in love, that LOVE might go down the wrong way if it is pushed and the time is not right. Timing is also a key factor.
But whatever happens, you'll fall in love naturally. Don't push yourself to fall in love. God will lead you the way to the right one. We just have to patiently wait. This might sound dreamy and all, but I've met people that has gone down the wrong way just because they are ardent about it.
@ihopper (97)
• Philippines
14 Apr 13
I don't think you have to learn how to fall in love. I think that it's something that comes naturally. Once you've found the right person, I think everything will just make sense and you'll find yourself falling in love before even knowing about it.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
30 Mar 13
in philosophy and psychology, there are subjects on love. definitely, we will learn so much about love in these subjects. there are conditions that we need to be able to feel love and be loved. some of which are one's disposition to fall in love, the favorable characteristics of the person, and the willingness to take risks. but these conditions are only facilitating, and not requisites of love.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
30 Mar 13
Falling in love cannot be learned,it just comes out naturally by instict.im sure you will find that out without you knowing it.
Its very hard to explain the feeling.its like you are in the heaven when you are with the one you are in love with.
@grvdubey11 (1879)
• India
31 Mar 13
When you will meet the right person you will automatically fall in love, we are designed for that ,so we don't need to learn how to fall in love.What we need to learn though is that when you meet someone and like him , you need to make out the difference that its real love or just infatuation.Most people who fall in love always confess that they didn't make any effort it just happened,best wishes.
@axlrate7 (1398)
• Philippines
30 Mar 13
This is a strange question but I like this kind of question. By the way, as for me being fall in love is not like a subject in school that needs to be learn, I believe that you already knew it but I don't know how you excatly find in your heart that kind of question. I think when the right times come you'll find someone you can love, I don't know exactly your situation but I think maybe you're just confuse today about that but for sure it will be clear someday.
@girl_thinking (1959)
• Philippines
31 Mar 13
Interesting thought.. Love is a topic that never goes out season. I guess I would be rephrasing your question (somehow) when I ask how do you know if you are just infatuated or if you are really inlove. Have you been infatuated before? I would guess you have.... ![](/Content/images/emotes/happy.gif)
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@jricky1 (6800)
• China
30 Mar 13
I think you really need to find the right person and the moment you feel here is the right person coming and then you are falling in love. It's like an ability and hope you feel it with your heart and so beautiful to experience that. Good for you and have gtreat day.
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