I won't make an appointment with him anymore...

@ryanong (9665)
Vietnam
March 31, 2013 7:48am CST
I have a male friend who I had known him for more than 2 years but we didn't meet regularly. Tonight he canceled an appointment again because of changing his work schedule. I am not angry with him but I am not happy since he canceled our meeting many times, and I have no mood to make an appointment for meeting with him anymore. I told him about my decision because I really don't want to received a meeting canceled again. It sounds as if the friendship is end, but I didn't want to hide my feeling when he did canceled the meeting. Right now I feel upset...
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8 responses
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
30 Apr 13
i understand your feeling why we should hide our feeling only for making anybody happy but we are unhappy? right?
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
30 Apr 13
yes ryanong.. what do you think will happen if you tell the truth to him? iam happy iam coming back and respond your discussion
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
6 May 13
@adhyz82: When i told him that i won't meet him anymore, i don't want to get any canceled meeting anymore. He just accepted it.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
30 Apr 13
exactly!!! i think we need to speak out our feeling so that the others should understand how they did affects on us
@Frederick42 (2024)
• Canada
28 Apr 13
In this busy modern world, work schedules are very important; much more important than friendship. Friendships all over the world has grown weak because of the tightening work schedules. I can understand that you do not wish to make any more appointment with him. If I was in your place, I too would not make any more appointment with him, although he cannot be blamed.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
30 Apr 13
it`s simple but it`s enough for giving him that you dislike he always cancel your meeting
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
30 Apr 13
yeah, you are right...and right now i am not in the friendship with him anymore...
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
28 Apr 13
yeah, i didn't talk much, i just told him that i don't think i can make an appointment with him, i dont want to get canceled meeting anymore. that's all...
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
1 Apr 13
you go girl. maybe you will find a much better more reliable friend and surely hope you do.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
1 Apr 13
Thank you, for sure i will do...we don't like to waste time for waiting a meeting and then receiving it canceled...he should know about it also.
• Valdosta, Georgia
31 Mar 13
I understand your upset. I would be too. It is very frustrating when someone constantly cancels when we have been waiting on them. We can only take it so much until we say enough is enough...
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
1 Apr 13
yeah, i spoke my thinking about it to him already, i said i don't think i can have any appointment with him anymore.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
31 Mar 13
There are just people who are insensitive, they don't care how other people feel. What you have done is but proper to let him know that he should have taken into consideration your time too. Forget about it. This person is worth thinking about. Have a wonderful day!
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
1 Apr 13
Yeah, you are right, i don't mind to be in his friendship anymore... I wish you a nice day too!!!
• China
3 Apr 13
Hi, have you asked the reasons why he canceled your meeting many times. Friends are treasure in our life. It is really upset for a friendship end. But if he do not want to be your good friend. Ending friendship is also inevitable.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
5 Apr 13
well, he always gives me a right reason..i can't blame it...but i don't want to get more canceled meeting, it is very irritating. Right now i am not upset anymore, i am ok with me decision, i won't meet him, the friendship is ended.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
31 Mar 13
it is sad and unfortunate that it si going to end that way. probably you can talk again. it does not have to be an appointment. just a simple talk. and do not give too much importance in the outcome of the talk, just proceed with the conversation. i hope you are able to cope with your negative feeling.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
1 Apr 13
I don't know, currently i have no mood to talk with him. Thank you so much, I feel much better this morning..
@Kmz059 (652)
• Philippines
31 Mar 13
Your decision is right, I think he just waste your time. If he wnated to have a meeting with you be sure to attend.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
31 Mar 13
Yeah, it is irrititating when he canceled the meeting over again. I am upset since we know each other long enough. I will try don't think about this friendship. He destroyed it...