What Should I Tell Myself (for Others to Hear) to Attract a Wife?

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The other day, an episode of Kenneth Copeland's Believers' Voice of Victory revealed/reminded-me part of the reason why I'm not married yet (see the date this is posted, remembering I might've gotten married anytime after that): because I've EXPECTED 'YOU' (proper-aged female population of the world) to forsake me! This principle--discussed by Brothers-Bill Winston & -Kenneth Copeland--was the tongue's power-outlined by Jesus's brother James and -exemplified by Cain's curse (when G*d told Cain that the ground he planted in would no longer yield blessing to him, Cain lamented and added-on the threat that 'everyone would try to kill him.' G*d hadn't said that, but could not then deny it ... the best G*d could do was to then curse any who DID kill him). I've done something similar to Cain---no sins, but I HAVE 'made "prophetic" statements based on observations of human-nature' ... something like 'humans are lazy, therefore no human will be my proper wife (because being my wife promises to be a lot of work with no promise of payback).' So what should I do? My thinking is to begin to fill my mind/mouth/web-pages/profiles-etc. with hints to what the 'payback' will be (something far more-valuable than I can even describe "I'm good enough, I'm smart enough; & ... doggone it! etc.") What do you think? Anything different I should do?