Im so happy... ex and his new wife are separated already... serves him right....

I guess he was just feeling vulnerable after they've split. And I guess now he knows what it feels like to be alone too. You're right, karma is a bit&&^^%%%%!

I do not think your son will go back to him. I guess he is more comfortable and happy with you. Son is usually closer to the mother, haha!

People just need to learn that the grass isn't always greener on the other side! We should learn to be happy with what God has given us. As much as I disliked my former mother in law, I never wished for anything bad to happen to her. First, her mother developed Alzheimer's, passing after more than ten years. I think it was just a few years after that she and her brother learned they too had Alzheimer's. It steals your memories, but in her case, she became violent as her condition worsened. All of the anger and bitterness she had shown me has finally come out, but I cannot be happy about it-instead, I'll say a prayer that she doesn't suffer too much.

Hmmm.. there are always reason for everything. Maybe this incident will make him realize what he had done in the past are not good. Hopefully he can change for a better man someday in order for his son and you to forgive him. I know its not easy to forgive but just pray for him. Hopefully its not to late for him.

seems, you are still in love with yr ex. I wish all should go well.

Well, when he is lonely he wants back his son. That sounds unfair. And I believe your son is much better off with you here than being with him. He may have another one in the future, and your son may have to face the same consequence again. That is not good for your son...

Your ex sounds like he may continue to make the same mistake over and over. You are a solid rock for your son. Perhaps when he grows past the pain of this relationship your son will speak to his dad again. It is not like your ex chose to have her leave, he got dumped, just as he dumped his own son.

Wow, that was short lived. Any idea what happened?

Wooo! How old is your son? Haha, but seriously, I think sometimes stuff like this happens and it renforces that you weren't the problem there, he was. I like seeing an ex not be able to make it in life. Haha.

I read this after I answered your other post, Maria. It seems that your ex is the kind of person that you (and your son) want to stay away from. He is trying to manipulate him. Don`t let him. No wonder he wants a stepfather

He comes calling back his son now that he is free from the woman? Wow, such great dad! I hope he could build that broken bridge between him and your son.

I definitely believe in karma, but I'm not in favor of dancing on someone else's misery, even if they do deserve it. I can't speak for anyone else, but that just isn't my thing.

Your ex is a loser. He cheated, right? And now that he is lonely, he turns to your son, maybe to give him a clue to keep him company? He deserves to be alone. I think your ex doesn't deserve to be with your son the moment he chose to be with that new wife of his.

Hi maria. Well I am not aware of what happened between you and your ex husband but I think it is only good to forgive him. As you can see that karma is already taking revenge on him. I am not saying that you should move back to him or let your son go to him but at least not feel happy at someone else's pain. Isnt that a bad thing to do no matter what the person had did. Let god do the justice and let us do what god has asked us to..."To forgive and to love"

hi marika wow karma really does work so good for karma so it bit him where the sun doesn't shine, goood for karma.And you keep your son he is hap piest with you I can tell. His dad did not want him before and hurt him really You do want him and hw wll be happy

As I read the title of your post I said to myself it is karma. Please don't let your son go back to him as he was unhappy with him before wasn't he?

OMG I can't believe that happened. He definitely got his karma fast. How long were they married? You must be feeling so good because that just goes to show. What goes around comes around. I wonder now is he going to try to get you and his son to come back and be a family again. You know men are not good at being alone. They will do and say anything to get us back so they are not alone. I'm so proud of your son to tell him that. Especially after he treated him like he did by choosing the wife over him.

Wow, that's pretty sad. He put his new wife first and alienated his son, and now he doesn't have either of them. It sounds like he thought your son would jump for joy and come running back to the US or something... like her being gone would erase everything he did to your son. I'm so glad your son told him off like that. Isn't karma great?

Its a great feeling when someone who has done bad to you or your family suffers.Good that you and your son have pragmatic approach to that rather than having sympathy,keep smiling and best wishes.

See, thats how Karma works. What goes around comes around. There was a brief break up with my evil ex and her bozo boyfriend this weekend. My son was real happy but she took the @ss back. So my son is way disappointed. But her day will come, I am sure of it and waiting to see it play out.