talking without thinking

I'm one of them actually. Because I felt this anger in me, I just explode and words just comes out to my mouth, in the end, you hurt that person and regret but the damage has been done already. But I'm controlling myself now, I'm finding ways to overcome this weakness of me. ANGER KILLS.

I hear you loud and clear and it is so annoying. My mom has no filter on her conversations at all. It kills me sometimes the things that come out of her mouth. Even though she is 77 years old I believe she has been doing this for a long time. Such as, when she finds out her grandson and girlfriend are excepting a baby. She tells me I forgot to ask weren't you using protection? Can you imagine saying that to someone. I just said "mom I'm glad you didn't ask that its none of your business. She says "yes, I'm entitled to ask because I'm the grandmother and I can ask anything I want," can you believe it. I know if she had remembered she would have asked that question, because she has asked other questions like this that she has no right asking. She is embrassassing.

Hello Job? Are you fine? Are you feeling alright? It seems that somebody has hurted you recently. Everything is fine? Blessings Job... dainy

I know that some people are just flat out rude and in-your-face and say things they know willhurt someone but say it anyways. but on the flip-side of the coin, some people are just too sensitive to blatant honesty. I, myself, consider me as a diplomatic person but also a very blunt person. if your being stupid im not going to entertain you bc your sensitive little feelings might be hurt. that being said, you dont always have to point out things to people. its not your job to be everyones critic or to be a bully. people should think before they talk but others should think before they act. its comes from both sides here. Im sorry for whoever obviously hurt your feelings but I think you need to take things with a grain of salt and not care so much about other people. your life is your own movie and you can simply choose tot take that character out of the script if they are actually that mean and rude to you. your right, once something is said you can never take it back. but sometimes people need to hear that little piece of mind that might never have been spoken any other way. I have had people be mean to me or say something that really cut me deep for some time...but I ended up learning and betteringmyself. let alone learning how to brush off the bad and move forward with the good.

People sometimes say things without thinking about whether it will hurt someone or not. I have an aunt where things come out of her mouth and I really just want to tape her mouth shut sometimes. She says things that are so hurtful. I try very hard to always think before I open my mouth, that is why most times I am the quiet one around other people. If I have nothing of importance to say than I don't say anything...

I agree that words can definitely hurt and people should be more careful in what they say. A kind or unkind spoken word is never forgotten. Hurt people hurt other people so the hurtful words, though spoken against you aren't necessarily for you. On another note, I also dislike people who talk just to be talking. Rambling on for no reason about nothing. I've come to realize that some people just love to hear the sound of their own voice but it can sure be annoying to others.

Our words are powerful. It could hurt. It could make or break relationships. It is wise to choose the way we do with our words. We should show love in what we tell others.

I feel that there are a lot of people out there that never think what they say before saying it, also seem to not care what they say. I think that there are also people out there that tend to do things as well that hurt others, thinking that they will never get caught out by the things that they have done.

I totally agree with you. It's true. I meet many people who are like that. Hope before they open their mouth they would think first, like evaluate or weigh the words they will say especially on a more complicated situation.

I agree, i always trying to control what i say to other people, since our words are can hurt people so much if we not careful, and every person to another person are different too, about what condidered as hurtful to them. Like for example, girls are are tend to be really sensitive about how they looks and apperance (even not all), but there are some guys too can be senstitive too about they looks (even not so many), and some people can be so sensitive if we say they are stupid or fool. Some are don't care being called like that. But i think we just need to control our words to other people, and just say a nice thing, not offencing.

Hi Job Yes I agree with you a hundred percent. I think for most people they truly do not mean to hurt us intentionally of course there are those who do, but it is annoying when people really do not take the time to choose their words carefully and how correct you are it can make or break our day. I have found that from the past not to let them get to me this does take practice, the way I look at it is they own their own hurtful words (not me).

Unfortunately yes I belong to those who need to think a little more and talk a little less which is something I am working on. Now I try to follow the maxim, "If I have nothing to say then say nothing", though of course I am unable to fully do so yet.

actuall talking without thinking is the thing which i hate most about people. they never care how we can be hurt,how it gives us pain,they just say and never care what they said, i personally quit friendship with that kind of people in my life. because if that person is your friend,even sometimes lie,they should give you good ideas,suport you and try to cheer. if a person who always talk negatively or without talking ,that person musnt be in our life this is just how i think happy mylotting

The ideal is to not say anything that will hurt others. However, I believe most of us shoot our mouths off unnecessarily once in a great while. When we found we have done this, we should just apologize to smooth it over, or clarify what we meant. Nobody is perfect. I guess if we took the time we should people would be continually waiting for a response.

some people are really like that i have experienced it a lot of times, it can truly ruin our mood and day., but it seems these negative people are not fully aware that their attitude and behavior can hurt or break a person. they just do it. i hate these kind of people.

I remember what my mom used to tell us when we were young, "If you don't have anything good to say, keep your mouth shut." Following her advice really makes sense. Taking into consideration what other people may feel if ever we utter a word or words is one good practice that everybody must do. Have a wonderful day!

Tell me about it. I have got a few of them in my surrounding that I have got to deal with every single day. Much more, they are always saying things that makes you feel as if you are the odd one out in several aspect of your life. They are so selfish and self-centered.

I have to agree to that. I would rather be hurt physically than be hurt emotionally because of harsh words. Although at times, I just try and understand because sometimes people said those words out of surprise too because they may have had a bad day or a big problem or something. What is important is that they know how to say sorry.

i think talking without thinking is a bad behaviour. at least it shows that we are dumb, stupid. never do it. always thinking before talking

I have to admit that I act that way sometimes. and later will realized its not good anymore,then regrets will follow...Its just that the words can slip in my mouth.That is why, now I just want to keep my mouth shut.