My nephews cannot split with their mobile phone...
By srisahara
@srisahara (4508)
Indonesia
April 1, 2013 11:25pm CST
I live in my parent's house with two nephews. I am very annoyed with their habit. They cannot split with their mobile phone. They always bring their mobile phone in bathroom, toilet, kitchen and always keep it in their pocket. They are truly cannot leave this device, and maybe they cannot live without mobile phone. This view is so different when I was young. Hi mylotters, what do you think about my nephews, is it the same in your region? Please share...Thank...
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18 responses
@alpha9180 (301)
• Malaysia
2 Apr 13
It is the trend now. Kids nowadays are facing a lot of peer pressure. You can see many kids out there are having modern gadgets. These have a lot influence in their daily life.
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@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
3 Apr 13
Yes, cellphone has been influenced their activities. There are many types of cellphone that available in the market, so they can choose what they want, even some types of cellphone has been trend in their community.
@HumanRites1 (18)
• United States
2 Apr 13
Maybe it's just because we're older that it's hard to understand that constant need. I have had jobs where I had to be on the phone all the time, so I don't really enjoy being on the phone all the time. However, I do use the internet all day so maybe it's similar.
I do think most kids or young adults these days are constantly using their mobile devices. I'm not sure whether it's something to worry about if they get their work done. And if they're not prone to losing their mobile devices.
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@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
3 Apr 13
I think, it is okay if they can manage their time for study and work, but in fact the device has damage their management to study and work, that's why I feel concern with them.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
3 Apr 13
Kids are so addicted with gadgets today especially with their mobile phones.
My kids are using their mobile phone for online games and social sites like Facebook.
I think these modern technology is good- but sometimes making our kids too lazy to help and do other things.
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
3 Apr 13
Yes, you are right. The gadgets make kids too lazy to help their family and other things, even they ignore their duties for study. I cannot understand this.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
2 Apr 13
Kids nowadays are inseparable with their mobile phones. It is like they need to be updated with what is happening with their friends. My eldest son is just like that. He even sleeps with his mobile phone in his hand sometimes.
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@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
2 Apr 13
Hi jenny...mobile phone has been the most important thing for young people right now, even the device more important than their books from their school. How the technology has influenced their live everyday.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
2 Apr 13
Yes, indeed. Everyone is now hooked on their mobile devices that they could barely live without out. And to think that this has become an additional expense on our monthly budget, right?
@cuteganda (38)
• Philippines
2 Apr 13
Whow!same like my kid they can live becouse they can surf and watc there favorite cartoon on web. So i consider it its okey as long they do there's responsibilities.
@moneylots87 (521)
• Indonesia
2 Apr 13
I have nephew, that usually using his gadget carelessly too. It just so funny, to see kids nowdays, using advance gadgets, when i was that young, my only gadget was tamagochi. Hehe... But right now my nephew just 8 or something, but he using tablet pc.
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@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
2 Apr 13
Nowadays, all young people cannot live without gadgets, yes technology has influence their life, maybe in the future human really live with machine and meet with others on machine. I cannot imagine when my children do not come to my house when i was old...
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@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
2 Apr 13
Seems they are hooked on cell phones. I dont mind my son, having his all the time. But I dont allow it at the dinner table here.
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@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
3 Apr 13
I had to, as he would sit here an text to people rather than eat his dinner. he has to leave phone in his room till he is done with dinner, and table is clean.
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
3 Apr 13
I think they addicted on cellphone. I agree with you, it is a good idea if you limit your son to hold the device, especially in special session such as on the dinner table.
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
3 Apr 13
I think, you are right. They have addicted by cellphone and they cannot live without the device. They communicate with their community and play games. I think it can damage their concentration for study and work.
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
3 Apr 13
It is a famous quote that 'mobile phone are part of the limbs/hands'.
It is like glued to them wherever they are. The thing that make me really
felt annoyed is during family meal time together. These young ones are
busy checking their messages on these gadgets and there is no family
bonding time at the dining table. It seems these gadgets has taken all
these supposed to be quality time away.
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
3 Apr 13
I also afraid the symptom, which young people do not care with their family although they are on a special session such as meal time together or on the dinner table, I hate they busy with their gadget, I am so sad with the view, they ignore our quality time.
@Cutie18f (9546)
• Philippines
2 Apr 13
Can we call that cellphone addiction? That is why I do not want the kid in the house to own a cellphone because it will make these kids crazy. It is like a toy for them because they can have games there and they also communicate with other kids their age and God knows what they are texting to each other.
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
3 Apr 13
Yes, you are right. cellphone has addicted them, i think. Because they really cannot split the device for a while. It is a good idea if you limit your child to have own a cellphone, because the device really make them crazy.
@ano460 (649)
• United States
3 Apr 13
may be the have a relationship going on the phone, may be from facebook, twitter, BB pinging and many others...but just leave than to lay,coz it is normal but when the don't have any time for home works. then that shows that they are using the phone against themselves.
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
3 Apr 13
Yes, they have community on facebook, so they always talking and talking with their friend. I think all of their friends also have this attitude with their cellphone. I cannot imagine when all young people care with their community and do not care with their family. It is so sad, I think.
@FireflyN (22)
• United States
2 Apr 13
I live in a suburb in the USA, and the amount of kids around here that are attached to their phones and other devices is just ridiculous. Everywhere I go, be it a restaurant, the grocery store, college, or even a doctor's office, nearly everyone, even older adults, is on their phone. I find it almost tragic. People will be out at family dinners, but each person will be on their cell phone instead of talking and seeming like a family. I may only be twenty years old, and call me old-fashioned if you wish, but personally I feel that, unless it is important, you should be doing something more productive than texting all of your friends or playing dumb games on your phone all the time. Family, to me, is the most important thing in the world, and it seems that most people take it for granted, choosing instead to practically forget that their family exists. After family, I find education to be important. To me, it doesn't matter if it is required education, like homework for school, or just learning about something you have always been interested in, or picking up a new hobby. I feel as though you should be spending your time learning or doing something productive that you love than sitting around and remaining disconnected from the people around you.
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@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
3 Apr 13
Hi friend, I agree with you. I also concern that they will have attitude such as in your story, which a family but they do not talking each other. I think it is painful. I afraid lose my family because they more enjoy with their gadgets. This view very different when I was young, which is I and my brothers, sisters, and parents always talk about everything and laugh together.
@NapadKlonova (23)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
3 Apr 13
Well, if they are only carying mobile phone around that's not so bad, because they just want to be at contact with their freind at any time.
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@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
3 Apr 13
Maybe I can understand that it just for threw their lonely but if the activity make they forget with their duties at home, I hate that. They have been ignored what should they do in our family, even their duties for study and work.
@emily7339 (1337)
• Malaysia
2 Apr 13
I do not have young ones in my house. I live with my own family of three. My has grown up and in college now.
I believe most of the young ones are like that. It is hard for them to part with these modern gadgets. It has becomes a trend and the worst is they are playing games while walking on their way to else where. This is very dangerous. They may have been robbed or met with an accident!
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@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
2 Apr 13
Yes, you are right. Young people often use their gadgets in everywhere they want without consider the safety of others. I think it is bad attitude.
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
3 Apr 13
Hi friend, I cannot see this condition, because they do not do important thing except talking and laughing with their friend and never care about us as their family. How can I let the view?
@sizzle3000 (3036)
• United States
3 Apr 13
My daughter actually used to be like this and sometimes still is. It's not as bad since she moved but in others it's worse. Yes very confusing. She moved here with her husband and she left behind her very best friend. They have been friends for 20 years now and it was very emotional. But now that there is so much distance between them they are on the phone constantly. The only good part is that they mainly text and she does put the phone down. Now that they Skype it's gotten a bit better.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
2 Apr 13
Yes the younger generation are out of control when it comes to phones and gadgets. It is a big problem all over no matter where you live. From kids texting and driving to just not paying attention to anything else but the stupid phone. You don't say how young your nephews are but some kids get them way to young and have no business having them. I grew up without a phone at my fingertips. I went to school without a phone and survived. I don't understand the parents getting their kids phones when they are so young. It is a major distraction for these kids and it is defnitely not helping them at all.
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
2 Apr 13
When I was young, I also do not have mobile phone in my hand, but I can live safely, even I have some achievements in my school. Everything is okay. Now, they cannot live without the device.
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@eagletrek2 (5499)
• Kingston, New York
2 Apr 13
Hi when I was young
We only had a.black and
White tv.color tv with 13
Channel was.the new item.
Today I see babies in
The store holding
Phones.that is wrong.
I do not see a problem
Talking the phone in
Rest.room I need something
To read and im 51.