Loyalty in relationship
@extremefun4fun (2908)
India
9 responses
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
2 Apr 13
I have given 100% freedom and independence. Because, I know how I am and I think people who lives with me should have the same feeling as well. It is my principle that 'live the life the way how I like' and if I an in such a route, I think people who live with me or person who sharing my life also should have the same feelings.
I think I am so straight and so open and whatever I feel, think, do would share and if there is any issues, I am so willing to share and discuss it. However, it is life and we all are possessive in nature. But by understanding all the facts, I think we seldom tried to exploit each other. Also, I have informed that if any thing apart from such life patterns and have some kind of special attraction or self interset, it can be enjoyed, but on a confidential basis so that we never have any problem at any point of time.
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@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
3 Apr 13
it is good to have freedom with trust and respect, that is great... well I belive a lot in loyalty , by physical, by thoughts, by feelings...
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@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
3 Apr 13
Mutual understanding and free approach between make both of them more reliable and friendly. I think for me, it's morethan what I expect and it is a true fact that to be free is the best than tough and rough. What do you think?
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@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
3 Apr 13
of course it is not good to be tough and rough, when couples have understanding for each other they would never behave like that... nobody has right to make any slave in his or her life..
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@mohkanari (1957)
• India
3 Apr 13
Loyalty between partners is a human concept, animals can't have loyalty. Loyalty brings peace and pleasantness in relationships. It always brings positive affects in family as well as in society.
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@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
3 Apr 13
yes, there are things which make difference between human and animals. like honesty and loyalty...
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@Mintlin (322)
• China
3 Apr 13
I'm hypersensitive when talking about loyalty.It's a very important factor i would consider in the relationship.But loyalty is not that easy to find out.It's possible that before marriage he is very loyal but suddenly become cheating on you after married.
My father cheated on my mom a lot of times,even he brought woman to our house,living with us. i don't why my mom still bear it.Now since my father is already 63 yrs,he did not cheat on my mom any more,but whenever i think of this ,i feel so sad for my mom and i hate so much to those cheating person!
so if my man cheat on me,i will leave him without any hesitation.I think loyalty is very basic in the relationship.
@Mintlin (322)
• China
3 Apr 13
thank god that it's my father not my man, i would mad if my man does like my father.i can accept my man is poor,drinking,smoking,even gambling,but i will never ever accept he is cheating on me.I think it is the bottom line in marriage.
I'm sorry those unhappy things happened to you,have you ever considered get rid of this kind of life since it already destory you ?
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
3 Apr 13
yes, of course that is my wish to not be in this life, but I have a little kid and for her I have force to live cause he would never divorce me and I am out of my country and live in his country... of course every second of my life I wish him to not come back home again and God only God remove him forever from my life.. that I will find my happiness and a normal life again... that again I will get my respect and airs, fresh airs,,, clean air in my life.... I have kept my hope on God
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
3 Apr 13
I am so sorry to hear that about your father, my father was too loyal and even was not looking at other ladies as he was shy... but my husband is not like that, it is totally opposite, in the first day of my marriage he said to me that he is in relation with other ladies who pay for.... and even after that also did not let me to leave him and force me to face all of his guilty.. that is the reason that I do not like those who are not loyal and those who are not honest in their relationship...
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
13 Apr 13
for me loyalty in a relationship is very important so that the relationship will be more healthy and more stronger for longer,because once your partner is very loyalty to you meaning that he/she is really love you,and once you really love a person you can give the best loyalty to that person.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
2 Apr 13
Hi,
Loyalty is very much important in every relationship. We should be loyal to our partner. I always tell the truth and don't hide anything from my partner. I am open minded. I give space to my wife. and we trust each other.
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@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
3 Apr 13
in my idea husband and wife should be the best and the most close friend of each other... and that is really important for trust.
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
2 Apr 13
It is very important. It goes hand in hand with love and respect. In a relationship, all three must be there otherwise, there will be some problems.
I can say that I am lucky because both me and my husband are loyal to each other. We've gotten this far and if ever we have any problems, it usually is about some other mundane stuff, and never about loyalty or trust issues.
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@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
3 Apr 13
thanks and I am so happy for trust between you and your partner. God bless you both.
@liuhanliang666 (65)
• China
2 Apr 13
Loyalty is first principle on my making friends, if he/she can receive loyalty from you, then he/she will certainly show him/her good faith to you, so it goes, Treat everyone as you want to be treated. I hate betray in my life.
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
3 Apr 13
that is so kind of you to be like that. I wish if all men could think and believe in the same way of yours. thanks
@quieley (316)
• Philippines
2 Apr 13
Loyalty is really important, if you want your relationship to last. To be honest, there were times I destroyed my husband's trust. We're not yet married that time. I can say that forbidden relationship would not last. It will only bring heartaches. The guilt haunted me for a very long time. I hurt my husband when he learned about it. But despite what I did, he still accepted me. He never losses faith. He's always been loyal for the past four years. And every time I remember the past, I couldn't help but cried. And I will always thank God for giving me the best husband.
Of course, I will hope others to be faithful to their partner. Because there are some men and women who are not like my husband. I totally admit that what I did was very wrong. I'm just so blessed that he loves me unconditionally.
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
3 Apr 13
you are so lucky to have a husband like that and I am happy for you. make a lot value for him, my husband is not loyal and I have seen many guilty from him and after that I am loyal to him but for covering his sins, he used to put me bad stamp and make me cry while I am close in his home and have even no female friend... for what he has seen from his mother and sisters who are not loyal, he do revenge of them on me and I really do not like my husband for hurting me a lot in 4 years of marriage.. and after seeing all those guilt and hear a lot about him I can not trust him anymore, he lies too much and even has no faith to God... I wish if God show him his punishment one day...and then he will come to know..