What when children grow up?

I agree with you friend, when our child growing up to adolescent, we should act like her friend, so she can share everything in her mind, and this time is the best way to direct her to choose the best way for her future. We also need to understand about her and her surrounding to give the best advice for her.

That is exactly how I deal with my three kids. I do give them some freedom but they have to always remember that with those freedom comes responsibility. It is hard to be a mom to these 3 growing up boys, but I am just here to guide them all the time.

when children enter adolescence, things have to be very careful. should vnimiva what they speak and how we treat them. Also another important thing to explain what is wrong. because then the kids love unloved and then make big mistakes. but perhaps the most important thing is to do as well but decide to never stop children.

Yes you are absolutely right whenever children grow their behavior and attitude tends to change and it is at this moment that they feel like living an independent life free from any interference. Hence parents have to be watchful of every move they take while dealing with their children so that they never feel pressurized while being with their parents.

I do agree with you that we will allow them to have certain extend of freedom but at the same time keep a close watch over them. It is good if parents can be their friend while carrying out the duty as parents. I notice the more we stop them from doing certain things, the more they will go for it. Even with certain restriction imposed on them, yet they could still find ways to do what they want. Any how they have ways and means to do it. They are facing a lot of peer pressure nowadays!