why people are so mean and not respectfull to the others about being referral?
By scubapro
@scubapro (1051)
Gifu, Japan
April 3, 2013 8:55am CST
i see many people who are so kind,so thoughtfull and try to help others
like bloggers ,site owners and internet gurus.
they prepare lovely internet sites,blogs and shows the other people how to earn extra online and they just want us to be their referral,but why people dont accept,they read the informations and then they go to that site and be member theirselves,
isnt that so mean? i mean even they will be siteowner's or bloggers 's referral ,they will earn same.
why we dont support them,they search and find out great sites,they give their time and some people just behave.
i cant understand it
why can it be? we dont trust people? some of us are really mean?
or we forgot sharing?
where we are going? dont you think we have to say thank you by being referral to them?
cant we trust anymore internet sites because of many scams online?
give me your opinions please..
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8 responses
@mammots (3209)
• Philippines
3 Apr 13
its very difficult to put our trust on "friends " found on the internet scubapro. most often they want us to be their friends just to be their referrals to whatever site they want us to sign in 
its very selfish and its very unfair. the best thing to do to avoid being " EXPLOITED" on the net is to learn to say no to friends who very obviously just wants us to be a source of income for them.
its very selfish and its very unfair. the best thing to do to avoid being " EXPLOITED" on the net is to learn to say no to friends who very obviously just wants us to be a source of income for them.2 people like this
@scubapro (1051)
• Gifu, Japan
3 Apr 13
yeah some people really want to use us,i can accept and agree,but some people who are doing this job for many years,i think we can trust them,we should trust people who are pros.
but especially in these days many people wants income by using us..
you are also right
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
4 Apr 13
I think that some people don't understand what a referral is and they think that they and their upline will have to share the money that they earn so that they get less money when they join under someone. I have heard that a couple of times when I was looking for referrals and people have told me things like: "No, I don't want to be your referral, because I don't want to share the money that I earn" and I try to explain that they don't earn less if they become someone's referral. Other people understand the system, but they choose not to join as someone's referral. I don't know why they do that, maybe they are just selfish. Maybe they want to benefit from the information that they get from bloggers etc without giving something back in return.
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@scubapro (1051)
• Gifu, Japan
5 Apr 13
the thing that i cant understand is ,even they are referral,their money never change
for example in mylot;
1.person earns 10 dollars ,so if he-she is a referral of 2.person
so 2.persons earns 2.5 dollars more but1.person still earns same,
so why selfish,i cant understand,why 1.one doesnt support 2.one,
thats what i really cant understand,,
peace
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
3 Apr 13
Some people are very ignorant about referral links. A few of my friends have ignored it and did exactly as you mentioned. Their excuse was "Sorry, but It might have a virus" another hurled accusations of "greed" for trying to get people to sign as my down line in order to earn more.
If there is a referral link, It'll definitely get used, but only after complete research of the site. Unfortunately there were a couple times that I forgot and registered without one.
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@ReViewMeMedia (3785)
• United States
3 Apr 13
And the problem is that you can't really believe a lot of the so-called online gurus who say their system works and show you a PayPal screenshot or a supposed check they've received, you can fake a lot of that stuff if you know how, and they make money from you buying their guides and what if it doesn't work out for you? You paid for something and it didn't work out, that's why I never pay for anything involving online work.
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@Adval2013 (436)
•
4 Apr 13
I don't have referrals yet, I mean I haven't sent the link to my friends yet for them to become my referral. Maybe because I am basically a neophyte when it comes to earning online, although I have always wanted, for the longest time, to earn good online through real writing jobs. At this point in my "mylot" career, I'd say I still need a lot of precious learning time so I could earn also.
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@XtremeGaming (742)
• South Africa
3 Apr 13
People like that will never have money because networking is the most important thing in making money so being nasty will keep you poor. If you need help or refferals it are sick of nasty people just talk to me I'm here to network and make friends. I help u and u help me them we both make money. So if you actually want to make money please add me. I can assist you with anything.
