What kind of friends can we make?

Australia
April 3, 2013 9:51am CST
I think nowadays people mix friends with those people who just hangout with you. What is the meaning of friends? I think the friends should be the one who care about you, who try their best to help you if people get into troubles,who tolerate your drawbacks,who may not ger tired of you forever,and who may influence you a looot.People always need to be surrounded by a bunch of "friends". Are those your real friends? Maybe yes, maybe not. Some may just want to kill the time togerther, but the real friends are those people you needn't spend a lot time with them, but still keep a close relationship with you. So I think do not care about the quantity of friends,but the qulity of friends.
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4 responses
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
5 Apr 13
Welcome to Mylot, I truly believe that you know who your real friends are when you need them the most they stick around for you, which means during the bad times in your life when you really need a friend, ones that take the time to listen, to care, to be with you when life goes wrong. You can count the amount of true, loyal, honest friends on one hand, these are real friends, not acquaintances who, when the going gets tough for you vanish into thin air!
• Australia
8 Apr 13
I like your comment.I do agree with you, actually, sometimes I just lower my standards to find a real friends, because it is too difficult to match my own standards. Anyway, I enjoy it.
@nikushaa (49)
• Slovak Republic
4 Apr 13
There is always only few real friends in our lives. And I hate people, who pretends to be friend and than talks about you behind your back - I think everyone has friends like that. But I am really grateful for 3 people in my life, who I can call a friends. They always stand by me, they accept who I am and they are honest with me. And I think it´s best to have one real friend like 10 "so called friends".
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
4 Apr 13
I have some friends in my life, yes, some of them are my best friends and some of them are bad friends. I know my best friend will accompany me when I am in happy and sad, but bad friends just accompany me when they can take advantages from me.
• Australia
4 Apr 13
yep,abousluty true.At least we've got some best friends, and we should feel luck about that.
@aconno (20)
• Canada
4 Apr 13
I agree with you 100 percent, you may think that you have a whole lot of friends, but really if all you do with them is hang out and "chill" they are not exactly real friends they aren't there to comfort you in times of need but are really just there to laugh and entertain each other. so many people these days don't understand this concept. I personally think that they are not friends if they don't really have a deep connection with but, it doesn't matter I believe that you should have both types of people around you.
• Australia
4 Apr 13
Yes,I agree with you,sometimes it is really hard to find those real friends.We may get tierd to find them, so we need to remind ourselves to take easy and just have fun and enjoy your life. Do not give us a hard time.:)