I See my Ex is 'in a relationship' on Facebook.

Hi, dream_ozn! I have also felt the way you are feeling now. Although it was not through a message in Facebook. But the fact that my ex chose his peace and went back to his wife just made it official.And although that I am sure that he does not love his wife any longer, he just had to stick with her, first of all, they were married and second of all, his wife will never allow him to be part of their children's life whom he really loves. I just need to convince myself that it was for the best for everyone.

Hey Jenny, THank you for your reply. Yes, you are spot on. That was my initially feeling when i saw his changed FBstatus. Although we have broken up about 7 months back. Somehow it still feels fragil and now that he really has a girlfriend, I feel like I'm really really alone and he has moved on. I'm no longer the one in his life. However, we have broken up and i have to accept this face. You are right, i will definitely find someone better and i will have a better future ahead of me. I'll wait and let everyone know about it:) thank you so much : ) you already made me feel better. Hey Arahmae14, You are right in the way that i'm jealous too. But do i still love him? i'm not too sure about that part thou. I know that i might have some lingering feelings becuase we have been together for 6 years so regardless i still feel something but I don't think i want to get back together with him. Yes, i really wnat to meet someone better and i hope it comes real soon :)

Maybe you only feel sad after seeing his relationship is because you haven't met someone or someone who can replace him. Unconsciously, you feel a bit jealous because you still love him. But don't worry! You'll find someone better one day...

Hey aja, thank you verymuch for your reply You are right. I kind of feel insecure about myself and i start to wonder if there's anythign wrong with me. He has found someone sooner than me. I know this is not about any competition because relationships are difficult to explain to begin wtih. it has definitely hurt my self-esteem and it is my self-esteem that is vulnerable. Thank you for your advice :)

Hey maximax, THank you for your comments, it really means alot to me. I'm so happy that you have told me that all these feeling i'm experiencing is natural because we have been together for 6 years and only broken just recently. I'm am definitely not in love with him any longer (i nod my head as i read this phrase). It's only curiosity and nothing else. I'll get used to it in no time :) thank you so much for your reply. You have definitely made me feel so much better about myself :)

Hey babyEj, Thank you very much for your reply, it really means alot to me. Thank you for letting me know that it will fade and making me even more sure that all these is just a matter of curiosity whcih will fade within a few days. It's true, it won't be easy to totally not care for a person whom i had once love and it was for 6 years. You are right, it's the indescribable feeling of attachments because of the times we once had together. Exactly, there nothing more that some weird feeling of attachment but no. I do not want to pursue anything more. I'm happy with my life now and i think we are really not suitable for each other. It's just the times in the past that i sometimes think of and will reminisce. That's it ;)

Hey extremefun4fun, Thank you very much for your reply, it really means alot to me. you are right, I still do think about him occassionally. Thinking about our past during certain parts of the day. However, graudally, i realise that i start thinking lesser about him already. You are right, since we have been together for 6 years, he has been a part of me in the past and this is a fact that i cannot change. So you are right, i should start thinking of him as a cousin. I do have some cousins where I'm not that close to and i don't talk to much but i only get updates of the on Fb. And this is a very good idea. I should try to think of him as a distant relative. And then I'll realise that this is just a person who had been in my past, but no longer in my future. I will just glimse through his status if he does have any. Whatever he posts from today onwards, it will just be another post by a 'cousin'. Thanks :)

Hey Dagami, Thank you very much for your reply, it really means alot to me. Thank you for letting me know that all these is just natural. You are right, we were together for 6 years and that really is not short. Although there were problems and issues between us whcih caused us to break up in the end, I still have some feeligns inside me, but that is definitely not the love that we once had. I can say that i'm kind of over him, but not over him completely yet. Thank you so much for reinforcing that the feelings that i have will fade and i will not feel like that forever. It really means alot to me. However, somtimes when i see his status update on FB, i really get affected. Especially the one where he changed his relationship status to attached, it has really affected me for about a day or two. It's really a good idea to block his updates. However, i'm not too sure if i want to do that because i'm kind of curious to see his new girlfriend. However, if this is what i choose, i will then have to bear the consequences. Because for sure, i will get affected again when i see the photos of him and his new girlfriend. Not quite sure what to do here.