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I'm sorry you're having such a difficult time. Since you have a child to support, have you considered applying for work outside of singing or acting or modeling? Do you already have experience in those fields? Those are very difficult careers to get into, to succeed at and to pursue to make a viable living. Since you say you don't have child care, in order to get a vocal coach and take lessons, maybe it would benefit you to do some other kind of work until you can set aside a bit of savings for child care and then get a vocal coach at that time? I wish you luck. I was a single parent of two at one point in my life and I know how hard it can be.

Hi friend, I am so sorry to hear that. It is hard for you to go away without money and job. I cannot help you, friend. But, I pray for you, i hope God blessing you and give you a help. I believe, that the God will help you, no one can hold it.

WOW!!! You do have issues with your mother! It seems that the first thing you need is to find a job. You don`t specify in your profile whether you are a man or a woman. But you say you are 19 and that`s a small age to have a daughter, to job and no licence (what sort of licence do you need?).

Wow queengreen0 I truly hope you can find a job, and another place to stay you sound like you really got it bad, with your mother and she is putting, you down like this, I don't think no one want to be, around a person like this, and she probably don't have a man in her life either, that wouldn't be surprising.

wow I do wish you the best of luck and well it may have been the wrong time to say the thing that you said but your right we do from time to time have to stand up for our rights good luck

i think this problem is not small problem and we maybe cant solve it easily,but believe me in our life there are many ups and downs. but especially(inulting)stuff,i hate if somebody try to insult me,its not good, so if you can find a job just leave there and try to start a new life with your child. sorry that i cant give more advices happy mylotting

Sounds like there's a lot of troubled water under the bridge here, and it's been that way for some time. Like you, I wish you could have dealt with this sooner, long before you had your child. Have you ever tried asking your mom why she seems to "hate" you so much? It doesn't help that you're now 19, with a child, and living under her own roof, with what appears no job prospects on the horizon. If your relationship is salvageable, could you try & make nice with her? If not, then you'll need to get some backbone & move out, for your child's sake, at least. Do you have any government-funded or non-profit housing in/near your area that you could access? Do your BEST to get ANY job for now - it doesn't have to be a singing/modelling career right away, which are very competitive. If your skills need honing, that'll take time to develop. Look into retail stores, restaurants, etc. - you might need to make face-to-face visits, not just send resumes out (if this is all you've done so far). Try & apply again for government assistance - will be praying about it. (Helps too if you could do the same, or go to a church there & ask for help) If you wish, you could tell me where you're at exactly (Columbia, SC or MO?) in the US, and I'll help you look for opportunities.

What has made your mom to behave like this? Maybe she has other problems which she is bothering her that she let it out on you. I know that she should not do that, but have you tried talking to her calmly? It is hard to be on your own most especially that you have a kid that still needs supervision. I hope that both of you could patch things up and start all over again.

Talk to 'Human Resources' (I forget the name of the government employment-agency), and tell them your situation--need work to afford a home, work to which you can bring your daughter (at which point the councilor will ask you questions like 'how old is your daughter?' 'you don't think that's old enough to be home alone?' etc.)--and work it out. My city (Oklahoma City, and so I guess a lotta other cities are the same way) puts out a lot of 'employment'-newsletters, and I'm sure there are a lot of employment-websites. Do some searching. (I didn't mention that first, because it's been a long time since I was 'a brick in the wall'---slavin` for a paycheck.) In fact--especially if you have any Degrees (Bachelor's, Master's, Doctorates)--you might even work out a deal with a apartment-complex owner or management-company to work in management & live on the property. Singing & modeling etc. are really jobs you should only try if you're "set" for money (e.g. married to someone who provides that, resting comfortably in family-employment or -money, etc.)

Pray to the God that made you. He will give you what you need.

that's really hard.. first things first you should look first for a job even not in line of your interest of singing just to have an income to start with, probably need to eat up your pride then get back to that pride when things will get better thinking about everything the only matter as of now is to have an income easy to destroy that to compose, free yourself from worries even it's hard to think smart on what to do and everything will follow, maybe u can find your opportunity in singing or modelling when in somehow you have provide your expenses esp. that u have a child with u, I hope I was able to help u from my advice

I think maybe U R really tired about life,is it right?My mom blamed me everyday too,she always can't see my advantages. You said you've been sending audtions in for singing competition?So you must love singing,you must have a sweet voice,it's quite a rich gift from god.Maybe you can make full use of this. Webcam modeling?NoNoNo,never do this,now you have to do is to hold on and try again,again,even you've try a hundred times.I believe you can make it!(BS) God bless you and your lovely daughter!