I shouldn't feel this way
By arahmae14
@arahmae14 (63)
Philippines
April 4, 2013 10:37pm CST
Last night, my husband confessed about his past relationship. He confessed that the reason why he didn't finish college was because he gave his money (that supposed to be the payment for his tuition fee) to e his ex-girlfriend in order she continue studying. The sad part about his story, his ex-girlfriend didn't attend all her classes. She only spent money in playing online games
Honestly, I feel disappointed to him and a bit jealous because how lucky his ex-girlfriend that time. When I was studying college, I can't get all the materials that I needed because my dad prioritized other people (sad to say).
I'm so annoyed to those people who waste their time and energy just for the short period of happiness, and don't prioritize education. They don't even bother how other people sacrifice in order to help them finish their college.
4 responses
@hsllhl1985 (66)
• China
5 Apr 13
When your husband did such thing for his ex-girlfriend, were you his girlfriend? If not, maybe you could forgive him. Something happened in the past, just let it go. Your busband is a responsible man, if you come across some difficult thing, he will also help you. You feel disappointed to him because you love him,so do not let your bad mood influence your love.
@arahmae14 (63)
• Philippines
5 Apr 13
Not yet. It's kinda ironic that his ex was my manager before. I'm just so sad to what his ex did to him. She told me that the reason of their break-up is about the money. Imma bit confused about the details she told me before, but when my husband told me about what really happened, I was so really shocked.
Another weird feeling is, I've begun to worry about my future children. What if they love someone, they will be taken for granted. I think, that part would be so hard for me.
@arahmae14 (63)
• Philippines
6 Apr 13
Yes you are right. I just couldn't believe I encountered people who can bad mouth other people just to make them look good. Well, before I and husband become boyfriend/girlfriend, I knew all his downfall and all of his weaknesses. I just thank god that even though the stage of boyfriend/girlfriend is just so short, I knew him well and love him since we were friends. Or I can say he still my best friend...
@hsllhl1985 (66)
• China
6 Apr 13
His ex did not tell you the truth. She cheat you. So do not believe her next time.Do not worry about your future children, it is no effect for you to worry them now. Maybe you could tell them something when they grow up.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
5 Apr 13
I have the same feeling about this one person I know. She is married with kids and her husband is working in another country fro the past 8 years. She was really lucky to have met this man who has really sacrificed working away from them just to be able to send their kids to exclusive schools. But this man in unfortunate to the woman as his wide because she does not know how to save money.
Everytime her husband sends her money, she would be buying unnecessary things online and also has taught her kids to eat junk food. Just imagine how much she spends in a week just for junk food -1000 pesos!
I know that she receives about 40k pesos in a month. But sometimes I wonder how she could lose all that money when she never have bought any expensive things for the house nor have fixed broken furniture or repaired any part of the house.
@arahmae14 (63)
• Philippines
5 Apr 13
Holy crap! I hope their kids are not obese! Oh, well! That's reality! There people who really doesn't know things that need to be prioritized! As of now, they don't care about spending, but when the time comes that money will run out, they will realize the things that they should done before...
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
5 Apr 13
Aw, that was so weird of that girl who took undue advantage of your hubby and his innocence, so sweet of your husband that he sacrificed his studies for his ex but she did not pay any heed to his sacrifice and behaved this way. it was very disgusting of her and i must say she is definitely unlucky and u r the lucky one to have him in your life.
@arahmae14 (63)
• Philippines
5 Apr 13
I don't want to sound so bad, but for me, that girl is not even beautiful and she looks so manly. I don't know what my husband saw to her and why he loved her. Much even worse, she really has a bad attitude... She loves power tripping...
@mrotoledo (10)
• Philippines
26 Apr 13
I feel for you. However past is past, we cannot blame him for the things he did before he met you. Definitely, he learned lessons from it. Also, you should turn the situation 180 degrees. Just think that you are lucky to have a guy who can sacrifice that much, regardless if he did it to you or not because chances are, he can do more things- things that you couldn't imagine- to you, his wife. :)
