Does Time really heals ?
By juniorance
@juniorance (250)
India
12 responses
@cmania (207)
• Portugal
5 Apr 13
i don´t htink times heal... times maybe make us forget or helps us to coffin the scar somewhere and distract us to other stuff until anythings pushs the button to make you remember that. Maybe it wont hurt more but that´s because in your head you alreayd knew it happen and you got stronger so it wont affect you as much as it did or sometimes it really hurts if anthing pushes that little button.
So I time helps and distract us but don´t heal us.
:P unless i´ts something physical htan you need ot wait to things get better
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@jeanneyvonne (5501)
• Philippines
6 Apr 13
I kinda agree with this statement. Either time helps you understand or helps your personality to mellow a bit. Things do change as people get older and acquire experiences. However, i think some 'wounds' or grudges are not easily let go d for some people who think it is very important to lives or it created some kind of change that they really don't like but have no control of.
@succeednow (1633)
• Singapore
5 Apr 13
Hi juniorance,
Yes, time does heal all wounds whether physical or emotional. How fast they heal will depend on your physical and emotional state. For example if you're fit and healthy your physical wound should heal quickly. Same for your emotional wounds. If you're a stable, balanced and upbeat person you should be able to get over your emotional wound rather quickly. It's all in the mind as they say. Have a wonderful day.
@Kementari (138)
• Canada
5 Apr 13
I believe it does. But it has a lot to do with your state of mind. You have to allow yourself to let your state of mind change with time. Letting go is a part of the healing process, and dealing with the emotions that come with pain. I have memories from 3 years ago that still sometimes bring me pain, but I often find that it is only on the days that I am feeling down that these arise, when I am upbeat and happy then I am usually okay and not hurt by these feelings.. I usually just wave them off.
So I must agree that it can heal all wounds, but it really depends on whether you have accepted the pain and moved on from it. It is all seen through your state of perception.
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
7 Apr 13
Some wounds never heal, especially those that caused severe damage. Maybe the wound will heal, but the scar is still there.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
8 Apr 13
I think it depends on the situation and it also depends on the way that you handle the situation. Based on my experience I would say that there are some wounds that don't really heal. You can learn to live with those things, but that doesn't mean that the pain disappears completely. In other situations I believe that time does heals the wounds. Right when it happens you think that the wounds are never going to heal but when some time has passed you sometimes discover that the strong and very painful feelings have disappeared and you are able to look at the situation from a different perspective.
@Pegasus72 (1898)
•
7 Apr 13
I think time only heals if you allow it too. Some stay scornful for life and never really start living.
@sakuralight (60)
• Egypt
6 Apr 13
depends on the situation some wounds never heal wounds that affects your life can be overcome but they will never be forgotten ,I think time helps you get stronger to overcome your wounds but wounds don`t heal just because time pass
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
5 Apr 13
I do believe that Time indeed heals all wounds.
As we grow mature and gets old- our views and thoughts changed with time.
And that is the reason why we get mellowed as time goes by- as to follow with our feelings.
As we get older we understand and realized so many things- our past, mistakes and wrong doings.
By then we get to know what is wrong and what is right.
And we will come to forgive those who offended us and wish to ask forgiveness to those whom we've done wrong if given the chance.
@mansoak (510)
• India
5 Apr 13
If a person has faced some problem. The problem may be because of family, friends, office who have played with his or her feelings. It is all god wishes. If god wish his or her wounds get healed slowly or fast. When proper time comes God will heal all the wounds of that person. The person should wait patiently.
@jeanneyvonne (5501)
• Philippines
6 Apr 13
It depends on what wounds you're pertaining to. Some wounds are easy to heal some are much more harder to forget. Some leave a scar that might trigger painful memories or a reminder of what already has been healed.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
5 Apr 13
I think that with time things get better in the sense that we are better able to cope with things. But there will always be pain there associated with certain things or events. Unfortunately somethings aren't gone with time.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
5 Apr 13
Hi,
Yes, time really heals the wounds. When someone hurt us our heart has some wounds some are deep ans some are small. Deep wounds takes more time to heal. But time is the medicine for the wounds. We try to neglect those wounds and forget about our past. thus those wounds start healing and we forget about everything. How it happens I don't know but it is true.
