My Brothers a cheater
By Imani46
@Imani46 (32)
April 5, 2013 9:54am CST
My brother and my best friend have been dating for the past two year now. I knew my brother was a player but I honestly thought he had changed all he ever talked about was how he was so in love with my friend, he even said he could see him self spending the rest of his life with her.Last night I walked in on my brother with a girl that was not my best friend. He was with my neighbor. When I asked him how long this has been going on he told me this was the only time and that they had be drinking and one thing lead to another . I talked to my neighbor this morning and she told that they had been sleeping together for the past six months. I know my bother is planning on proposing in a few weeks on my friends birthday but I don't know if I should tell her. I'm afraid if I do my brother will hate me and my friend would be heart broken .I need help.
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9 responses
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
5 Apr 13
OMG what a mess! If I were you I would have a talk with your brother and tell him you know the real truth. Ask him how could you be proposing to my friend if you have been with this neighbor for the last six month? See what he says and then depending on what he says you will know the direction to take it if you need to. If he says he is calling it quits with the neighbor then just keep it to yourself and let it go. I believe if he gets in engaged you will know if he is still cheating on your friend and then you tell her before they start planning the wedding. I feel so bad for you having to deal with your brothers mess.
@TLilly12 (1229)
• United States
5 Apr 13
Hi Imani Welcome to Mylot I hope you will, enjoy your stay here with us, and make lots of friends while you are here with us, Yes I think you should tell your brother's, girl friend he have been cheating on her because if your brother marries her, your brother is still going to cheat, on her with other women, and then she will be angry with you, for not telling her your brother cheated, don't let this marriage happen, it's not right some when some men cheat before they get married, they continue to cheat.
@ArielAhhhh (126)
• China
6 Apr 13
Wow, you brother is really bad to the ground and how come he could sleep with another girl for almost six months but still plans to propose to your friend, he has been cheating on both you and your best friend.
But, anyway , its hard for you and you love both of them so much, probably you can take a heartfelt talk with your brother and ask how does he really think of his love falling into your best friend and see his answer
@dagami (1158)
• Rome, Italy
5 Apr 13
i suggest that you talk to your brother about what your neighbor said. you have to give him the benefit of doubt too. tell him that if he doesn't stop seing this neighbor then you're going to tell your best friend. this is only fair. if it happens the other way around, you'd expect your best friend to tell you too, right?
@sheikahmay (56)
• Philippines
6 Apr 13
For me, you should talk to your brother first and tell him the wrong things that he had done. then next approach your friend and tell her that your brother is dating with your bestfriend . and lastly you talk with your bestfriend.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
5 Apr 13
I think he is trying to play with you,just take this things as part of life and love happens to anyone,so just get over it
@wowjen15 (183)
• Philippines
5 Apr 13
Talk to your brother first to clear things up. Maybe your neighbor is not telling the truth or maybe she is but what is important is you know what's the truth from your brother. If he is really cheating on your friend then tell your friend. It really is not fair for her.
@fliperis14 (18)
• Lithuania
5 Apr 13
Definately tell your brother about what the neighbour girl said. I wonder what his reaction will be. If he will deny everything then tell that girl next door about it and let them argue a bit. When you'll know who is lying then the right decision, whether to tell friend or not, should be obvious enough for you to handle :D
