What do you prefer? a Single or a Committed one? or I am on an Identity Crisis
By febrose
@febrose (103)
April 5, 2013 6:25pm CST
At the age of 25, i'm still single and never looking for a partner and LOVE..actually it never crossed my mind neverthless
i never future myself of having and being in that situation..
I never had a boyfriend ever since. All i mind to do is play, and do stuffs that interest me.Now that im older, i stay focus in my job and earning money.
When i was still deciding what course to take..my first choice is being a NUN, but my mom decided another which i do and graduated..now im practicing my learnings in a community..anyways
But some are always asking me if why is that im still single?
argh! i dont see a problem with that, but its very irritating if they always ask me that question..is having a boyfriend a must?
Is it a BAD thing being a Single?
Or is it i have an identity crisis?
i think not the latter..because i still like guys, well i also like girl as crushes
but not the other way..
NEED your opinion on this please..
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7 responses
@maxfashioned (188)
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6 Apr 13
Stay single forever! Why stop having fun just because you are a certain age? People have fun, marry, divorce, then have fun again. Don't waste years of your life like that.
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@Claudine4 (18)
• France
27 Apr 13
Personally, I don't like being alone, I couldn't be happy if I wasn't loved, hugged and kissed all the time - and I'm madly in love with my boyfriend. But it's just me.
If you are happy being single, then everything is okay:) You shouldn't care what some people say, your happiness is more important:)
@vgpyogakrishna (168)
• India
6 Apr 13
being single is not a bad thing. but as far as i am concerned we as humans need partner in our life to share everything. if you have a boy friend, children then you might have some purpose in your life and it will make your life lively and cheerful. i prefer to be committed in life. for me being single is a boredom...
@yuukenn21 (17)
• Japan
7 Apr 13
You dont need to force yourself to be in a relationship just because of your age :)
@lady1993 (27224)
• Philippines
6 Apr 13
Well, since that is the common thing to d. That is what society thinks every person should do after going to school.. in the animal world, find a mate- it's like instinct.. unless you become a nun or a priest. 
But then some people choose the single life- the Church call it Single Blessedness, which is totally fine too. So you should net get pressured and just continue what you are doing. 
But then some people choose the single life- the Church call it Single Blessedness, which is totally fine too. So you should net get pressured and just continue what you are doing. 