How Should I Say to Her that I love her
@anujkumarkumar1 (721)
April 5, 2013 7:45pm CST
I love a girl. She work on my work place but i never talk to her, I do not know she know or not that i love her. She is in my friend list on facebook.I try to talk to her on facebook but she never reply, I think she do not know that i am her frind on facebook. How should i say to her that i love her, i never purpose to a girl but i want to purpose to her but do not know how to say, so she can not say no to me.How should i tell to her that how much i love her...
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@alpha9180 (301)
• Malaysia
8 Apr 13
May be you could invite her out for lunch, casually interact with her about some topics. When you find a suitable environment, you may make known to her that she is your Facebook friend. If you find there is a positive reaction from her, then you could carry on the friendship with her and find a good environment to confess your love to her [em]wub[/.em][em]lol[/.em]
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@anujkumarkumar1 (721)
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9 Apr 13
yes thanks alpha for a valuable information i am trying to do that and i am just waiting for right occassion to do that as well as i would get the righ occassion i would do that...
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
8 Apr 13
only the words which will come from deep of heart, will sit in the heart... so just be straightforward about your feeling and say to her exactly what you want is in your heart and talk to her...
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
10 Apr 13
I would suggest you to make friendship with her and try to get close and then slowly reveal it. Most girls like men who care and loves them and they say yes to men whom they know rather than they did not know.
It only happens in films where love happens at first sight, etc. In life love happens at many sights.
@anujkumarkumar1 (721)
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9 Apr 13
Thanks extremefun4fun, Yes i am trying to do that but do not know why i feel that if i would do it then her answer would be no, even i am thinking about that, but your advice is really nice...
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@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
13 Apr 13
ajithlal advice was great.. you can go through this advice and see the great result.... all girls what they want is a man who really love them and care about them..
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
7 Apr 13
I think you are making a big mistake. Think about this.
Imagine you are having lunch one day and a girl comes up to you and says: I love you.
How would you feel? I think you would be embarrassed. This foolish girl who has never met you, whom you do not even know is making a big fool of herself then you would start to feel like a fool too.
Is that what you want? To make a fool of her and of yourself. No-one walks up to a stranger and says I love you with the thought of anything good to follow.
The other thing...you don't know this girl so how can you love her? I think you are very young and immature and you are feeling puppy love. A person cannot love someone they do not know. It's as simple as that.
@anujkumarkumar1 (721)
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7 Apr 13
Hi Ms Tickle!I think you never love to somebody and you do not know the meaning of love.It feels after reading your message that you never love to anybody and you are the person without love on the earth.
First thing who said you that i do not know the girl. I know her for last 6 months, she work in my office i use to see her on daily basis, I have the infomation about her then who said you that i do not know the girl
Second thing as i thought love is blind and love can be to anybody.
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@leon3000502000 (1564)
• Philippines
10 Apr 13
i understand you, If you really like a girl and you think that you really loved her. It is really difficult to have an eye to eye contact with that girl and one more thing, it is hard to say to her that you love her.
well, I tried that one and there's nothing happened with me because I did not make move even though a girl shows likeness because I was afraid that she may say no to me. So what happened is that someone courted her and they are now in a relationship. I wanted to make a move but I chose not to so I reap nothing.
My advice is to make friends with her first and know what she likes and doesn't like and once you are already comfortable being with her you can now make a move or start courting her.
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@leon3000502000 (1564)
• Philippines
13 Apr 13
I feel how you have been feeling. There is a possibility that she would say no if you would say to her directly that you liked her or you loved her. I would suggest that you wouldn't rely a hundred percent to what you are feeling because our heart is deceitful.
@anujkumarkumar1 (721)
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11 Apr 13
Yes this is exactly what i feel, i am really worry to think that if i would say her directly then their is the possiblity that she would say no and i do not want this thing, I am trying to cathch the things and trying to contact to her...
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@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
6 Apr 13
just tell her... do you love me... just tell me.. hhahahaha just kidding tell her how you feel. that's it.
@anujkumarkumar1 (721)
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6 Apr 13
Hmmmmm thanks for advice, I would really try to tell her about that but it is really difficult for me.............
@LeRainbowDash (13)
• United States
7 Apr 13
Buddy, I've been in this situation before. I used to really like this one girl in my class and one day, as if by a miracle, she said something about my favourite show and we got talking. We were friends for a long time after that and after a year of the latter, we started actually going out. We've been together a rough 5 years or so now, and I'm engaged to her.
My point is, you shouldn't be so upfront, but don't be a wussy.
You need to try and talk to her, and tell her she looks nice, and that you think she's a nice person. Indirectly ask her out. Take her to dinner or to a movie. And if you plan on doing both, take her to the movie first and you'll have conversation for the rest of the night.
Take it slow, and when you feel the time is right, you need to use all your best confidence and tell her you want to live the rest of your life with her, side by side. And if you play your cards right, bro, you may juts be standing at the alter before you know it!
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@anujkumarkumar1 (721)
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9 Apr 13
Hi LeRainbowDash, Nice to hear about Your love and lot of congratulations to you.
Yes Bro actually i am trying to talk to her but till now i did not find the right occassion to talk to her actually i am not able to understand how to talk to her first so that i can invite her for dinner or movie or anything else i am trying to talk to her everyday but i am unable to do that but now i would do something...
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
10 Apr 13
I think if you are really serious try to get her phone number and try to call her and talk casually. After couple of casual talks most probably you will know if she is interested or not. If she is interested most probably she will return calls and will try to talk for more time and you can proceed after that.
@anujkumarkumar1 (721)
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11 Apr 13
Hello ajithlal, Thanks for a nice advice, Yes i have her contact no. and once i sent a message to her but whats the actual problem is that she never reply to a message or on facebook , now i am also thinking to contact her through phone calls...
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
6 Apr 13
I think that the best way should be for you to let her know who you are. Do not tell her right away that you love her. Just give more time to know each other well better then assess after sometime on how you truly feel for her. That way she will also realize your intention and if you are lucky enough, she might even say YES.
@anujkumarkumar1 (721)
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6 Apr 13
Thanx a lot jenny,your advice is really valuable butt the problem is that how would i tell her that who am i, it is really difficult here in india to talk a girl directly like that, but i am trying to let her know that i like her and i want to be her my friends....
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
6 Apr 13
Don't you know any of her friends or don't you have a friend who knows her? That could be a big help if anyone could help you to introduce yourself to her.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
6 Apr 13
You should first be friend her. She is your workmate so that would be easy.
Then, develop a friendship. From there, you can gauge how & when you can tell her that you love her.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
Maybe you should try to smile at her everytime you meet her at the cafeteria. That will be a starter for you to one day introduce yourself to her.
@anujkumarkumar1 (721)
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6 Apr 13
Hi simplyd thanks for advice, Yes really she is my office mate but our office area is not short there are thousands of employee in my company and we use to sit on different floors i do not have any work related thing from her only the place where i use to see her is our common cafeteria area, so i am not able to find a way how to talk to her, how to start a conversation with her because i do not want that she should ignore me, i want to find a way that she can not ignore me...
@somupriti (353)
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10 Apr 13
Just have little dare
hold her hand
sit on your knee
and speak out body
I LOVE YOU! WILL YOU LOVE ME?
@anujkumarkumar1 (721)
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11 Apr 13
Really a nice advice but it is true that it is really so difficult for me to do like that..
@neelia27 (896)
• Philippines
6 Apr 13
maybe you can start by giving her flowers or anything with a note saying simple quotes about love.. i think its romantic.. and then ask her out for a date but make sure that she is not with someone else already so you can have a chance with her... don't be in hurry saying directly to her that you love her might shock her so its better to be slowly but surely.. that is just my opinion.. good luck..
@anujkumarkumar1 (721)
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6 Apr 13
Wow i would like to do that, Thanx neelia really a nice advice, but how should i give her that i mean directly to her trough mine, the problem in it that she do not even know me and if in this condition i would give her directly something that it is the possibility that she would not accept it, so should i give anything like that through some other person or not, please give advice...
@teotimoponcerosacena (1552)
• Philippines
6 Apr 13
You know what just be frank tell her how you love here and cared for her, that's it. Don't be shy for if I am your Office mate and I will notice that you love that girl then I will be the one to propose for myself just for fun and if she like me then goodbye to you.
@anujkumarkumar1 (721)
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6 Apr 13
Thanks a lot for a good and valuable advice, but my problem is that i really shy about girl and never able to say her but i want to say her and i would say her now.Everyday i see her and want to say her that i love her but whenever i am near about her then i am not able to tell her that how much i love her, I Always see her to sit on a ladder with her another friend(girl) on dinner time and i always see her, she also see me sometimes, sometimes i think that see notice me but i am not sure but now i would be brave and i would tell her that i really love her...
@AngelEyez5151 (25)
• United States
6 Apr 13
I'm sorry to say this. But there really is no easy way to tell someone that you love them. Not unless your in a relationship with them and know that they love you. By the sounds of it, you really don't associate with this person much, if ever. So, you just have to decide whether or not you really want to tell them and just do it. It's the only way for you to know what will happen. Good luck, anujkumarkumar1
@anujkumarkumar1 (721)
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6 Apr 13
Thanks AngelEyez! God Bless You! I am little afraid to say you because whenever i want to say her only one idea came to my mind and that is that if she said no then. I do not want that she does not accept mine purposal but what can i do i have to say one day so i would tell to her...
@AngelEyez5151 (25)
• United States
8 Apr 13
just tell her. then you will know how things are. the sooner you tell her, the sooner you will know if she loves you. If she don't, you will have to be sad for a while, but then you can move on to something positive.
@happyhappylife (95)
• Singapore
6 Apr 13
Hahaa you remind me of my old days when I was young as 19 years old back then. To me, as a girl, I did not like to take the first move. I expect the guy to ask me out first. I am the kind of person who know whether the guy is sincere or just want to play me out. If the guy is sincere and I know that he loves me, I can see from his eyes. I would be very happy if the guy says "I love you" even though I do not love that guy. But if he is a nice guy, buys me roses or chocolate, does not pester me , help me out when I am in trouble, I think I will fall for him one day.
Just keep trying. Be sincere. Tell her that you love her. Don't be afraid if she rejects you. At least you try.
@anujkumarkumar1 (721)
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6 Apr 13
Hello happyhappylife, Really nice to read, it gives me an inspiration,it gives me a way , thanks a lot. You give me a courage and i would do it now, even i do not want to lose her because i love her but i must try and i hope that she would not say no to me. i hope I would be successful because i am true and i love her. Thanks a lot again.
@happyhappylife (95)
• Singapore
7 Apr 13
Hello anujkumarkumar1 , you are welcome. It is just my experience. Wish you success !
@anujkumarkumar1 (721)
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7 Apr 13
Really right, Thanks for a good advice if i would not say to her then how she would know that i love her, i would say to her that i love her.....
@imaging_1 (64)
• United Kingdom
8 Apr 13
I don't think express your feeling to the girl directly is a good idea. It would be a happy ending if the girl also loves you, but if she doesn't have any fondness of you, then you both would be awkward, maybe you can't even be friends. Maybe you can ask one of her friends to tell her, and hint to her your feelings.
@anujkumarkumar1 (721)
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9 Apr 13
Yes Really it may be a good idea, thanks for a valuable advice and i would try to talk to her friend first and then i would try to contact to her through that...
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
7 Apr 13
Hi friend, you must be bold enough to express your love. As you mentioned you both are friends in fb. Just introduce you are her officemate in fb and express your real love with guts. Wish you to get success in your love
@anujkumarkumar1 (721)
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7 Apr 13
Thanks a lot bro for valuable and nice advice! i want to do the same and i would do that, I have guts to say to her but only fear that i have is if she said no then...
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
6 Apr 13
Hi ! Why not send her some Roses . All girls love a Rose , any girl will be able to smile if she receives a Rose. Actually girls' happiness is very shallow , you need not to do any extraordinary actions or spare for expensive things. A smile , a Rose and a poetry lines are more than enough for a pure hearted lady.
@anujkumarkumar1 (721)
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6 Apr 13
Hi Angelpink, Really a great idea, really it would be good and i hope she would accept it and would be happy, thanx for a great idea
@vgpyogakrishna (168)
• India
6 Apr 13
hey come on man. even i am a shy guy like you so i can understand your feelings. what i feel is that if u are so shy to propose to her directly, i shall give you one idea. first collect all information about her like her age, family details,etc. then tell your family members that you like this girl very much and ask your dad or mom to go and talk to the girls family to fix your marriage.....i think this is a practical decision what do you say......
@anujkumarkumar1 (721)
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6 Apr 13
Hey vgpyogakrishna, your idea is good, it is valuable and thanx for it but i can not do it because first i want to talk to her my self, I want to about her feelings i want to know she like me or not. I can not go directly to her family, I know i would not be success if i do that.
@yuukenn21 (17)
• Japan
7 Apr 13
If you truly love someone, you should have more confidence in your feelings :D Go on, You can do it bro .. Yay