Eating habits in the past and now
By Porcospino
@Porcospino (31366)
Denmark
April 6, 2013 3:45pm CST
Were you a picky eater as a child? Or did you eat most things? How are your eating habits as an adult?
I was extremely picky as a child. There were certain kinds of food that I liked and many other kinds of food that I didn't like. It was easier to mention the things that I liked than the things I didn't like The list of things that I didn't like was very long.
Today I am the complete opposite type of person. I love to experiment and love to eat food that I don't know for instance food from other countries. I usually say that I would try almost anything once. There are some exceptions, I wouldn't eat dog meat and there are certain types of insects etc that I don't want to eat, but generally I am very open to new kinds of food and I find it interesting to try new dishes.
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@CaptAlbertWhisker (32748)
• Calgary, Alberta
7 Apr 13
The only vegetable that i cant eat as a kid are okra and bittermelon, I learned to finally eat Bittermelon when I turned 12, while Okra I learned to eat just recently.
There is a dish in y country though that i cant eat.Its called Paksiw, its basically fish simmered in Vinegar. I love eating fish but this is a fish dish I cant eat.
I dont really think am a picky eater as I eat almost every vegetables in existence and I also eat offal meats. (I know most Americans and maybe some Europeans are grossed out of them)
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
7 Apr 13
You are the second person in this discussion who mentioned Okra. I have never tasted it, so I am not sure if I would like it or not. I had to look up bittermelon to find out what it looked like. I don't think that we can buy it in my country, I have never seen it in the shops. I have never really eaten offal except a Danish spread called "leverpostej" which consists of pork liver and a couple of other things. It is not because I find the idea repulsive, but I never had offal dishes in my childhood home. My mother doesn't like offal dishes so she never cooked that kinds of dishes in my childhood.
@CaptAlbertWhisker (32748)
• Calgary, Alberta
7 Apr 13
I am a huge fan of livers, My fridge have 1 pound of liver on it. Its my fave offals of them all. I think the Europeans who eats the most Offals are the French and Italians. I do know the Finnish eats blood sausage. I know Asians are stereotyped to eat offals but I know many Asians who will never touch them.
Okra is very slimy in texture, that's why I struggled as a kid eating it. Its Elvis Presley's favorite vegetable though. if American Kids hated Brussell Sprouts, Asian kids hates Bitter Melon (also called Bitter gourd) Its a wrinkly green or sometimes white gourd, that is bitter. It is good for the health though, its proven to be anti-cancer, and anti-diabetes, Its also said one of the reasons why people in Okinawa Japan lives a long lifespan.
There is now Bitter Melon capsules for people who wants its health benifits without enduring the bitterness. I learned to appreciate eating it as a kid. While it took me 2 decades to learn how to eat okra.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
7 Apr 13
You should try the Danish "leverpostej" if you ever visit my country. It contains liver, onions and different kinds of spices. It is an extremely popular spread in Denmark. You can buy it in every grocery store or you can make your own. The homemade "leverpostej" is the best
Brussels sprouts are a common type of food in my country, but there are many people who don't like them. It is interesting to hear to hear that Bitter Melon is good for our health, and it is nice that people can take capsules if they don't like the taste. I wonder if I have tasted Bitter Melon without knowing it. I remember one dish that I had at an Asian restaurant. It was very bitter, and I didn't like the taste. It could have something else instead, but it was definately a taste that we don't have in own country.
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@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
6 Apr 13
I didn't really like most vegetables and beans.
I used to hate eggplants, now I think they are as tasty as meat!
Now I eat everything, except of some kinds of beans. Still hate them.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
6 Apr 13
I still haven't learned to appreciate eggplants I can eat them, and I do eat them if I visit someone's home they have cooked a dish that includes eggplants, but it is not something that I would buy and eat at home. You and my husband have something in common. He also tries to avoid some kinds of beans because he doesn't like them. I know how he feels about it so I wouldn't cook a dish with beans for him. Aside from that he is not very picky and he eats most things.
@KOSTAS499 (1624)
• Greece
7 Apr 13
You should come to my house and try my mother's spetzofai. You will love eggplants.
Or her beef with potatoes and eggplants. We just had it today.
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@Kashmeresmycat (6369)
• United States
6 Apr 13
Hi Hon....um, yeh, no dogs for me either. And I don't really relish the thought of eating a bug...I kind of like the little guys, lol!
I was not a picky eater when I was a kid. There were only a few things I really didn't like but I ate them because that's what you did when you were little in my time. At present, I do not like Okra..blaaahhh or minestrone soup at all..ugh.
I'm pretty good at eating and I'm not picky. I'm sure there are foods out there I haven't tried that I doubt I would like but not sure. I do like trying new things so I'm game like you.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
6 Apr 13
When my husband and I visited Cambodia we joked about the fried spiders that they sell. We challenged eachother to try them, but neither of us actually tasted them. They are considered a delicacy in Cambodia, but it wasn't something that I felt tempted to try
You mentioned Okra. I don't think I have eaten that so I don't know the taste. Minestrone soup is quite popular in my country. I don't eat much soup, but I know that many people from my country like minestrone soup. There is another popular soup in my country. Most people like it, but I really don't like the taste. I think that soup is a local dish from my country, I have never seen it in other countries.
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@Kashmeresmycat (6369)
• United States
6 Apr 13
Ewwww, fried spiders, ack! I mean, come on, why in the world fry such a tiny little thing? It's like frying a flea to me, haha.
I think, but I'm not quite sure, that Okra is IN Minestrone soup. It's a green mushy vegetable which gives me the shivers, lol! The reason I mention Okra and Minestrone soup is many, many years ago I had the Flu and it was the really bad flu that made me sick for 2-3 weeks. It was awful. Before I even knew I had the Flu I ate a nice big bowl of Minestone soup....puked my guts out. I can't even think of eating that soup today still after all that time. That's how bad I had the flu.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
7 Apr 13
The spiders in Cambodia are much bigger than the normal spiders from Europe. Some of the Cambodian spiders are about the size of the human palm I read that they taste like chicken, but I didn't taste them so I am not sure if it is true.
Sometimes a bad experience can influence the way that we feel about a certain type of food like you experienced when you had the flu. My husband experienced a similar thing some time ago. We had bought durums the same day my husband started puking and feeling really bad. He had the flu and it didn't really have anything to do with the durum he had eaten, but today he always avoids durums.
@allknowing (137961)
• India
7 Apr 13
In Archie Comics, Jughead was once asked what his favourite food was and he said it was 'food'. Similarly as a child whatever that was defined as food was my favourite.
Now as an adult I am more into deserts and sweets and chocolates to be precise. I am more on the conservative side and dog meat would be unthinkable. By brother once brought home some frogs' legs which tasted like chicken. I ate them only once.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
9 Apr 13
I love deserts and sweets but I am trying to cut back on those things at the moment because I would like to lose weight. I love to eat different types of food and I love eat food that I have never eaten before, but there are some exceptions and dog meat is one of them. I have visited a country where dog meat is eaten and as a joke we took a picture of a random dog and another picture of a meat dish and told people that it was the dog that we had eaten for lunch. It was funny to see people's reactions. It was just a joke, because dog meat is one of the types of food that I would never eat. I have eaten frog legs at a Thai restaurant once. I also think that they tasted like chicken.
@allknowing (137961)
• India
9 Apr 13
I too need to do that but I keep getting gifts from those who visit us and I just cannot resist eating them. Today itself I looked at myself and found that I have really put on weight and I have every intention to do something about it. May be increase my walking but not eating chocolates? - no way!
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@Torunn (8607)
• Norway
7 Apr 13
I used to eat everything as a child, I tried everything new and usually liked all of it. As long as it was food I'd eat it :-)
I'm not very picky now but there are some things I don't eat. Avocado, 'cause it makes me sick. Shrimps, because they are small and pink and weird. I tried one at some point and it wasn't very good so I can't see any point in trying another one :-) Also sushi, I tried it in Japan, didn't like it there. I can't imagine it tasting much better in Europe.
I've never tried insects, I had marinated jelly fish in Singapore. That was just weird. And I've tried both the Icelandic and the Swedish rotten fish and I'll never try it again. That is, I've only smelled the surströmming. That's enough, the smell is bad. Really bad.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
11 Apr 13
I have heard abour the rotten fish, but I have never tasted it, and I think that is one of the things that I don't have to taste I like shrimps and I had some of the best shrimps in Vietnam during a cruise on the Halong Bay. There was a seafood buffet, and the shrimps tasted really good. There was a huge difference between those shrimps and the shrimps you can buy in my country. I agree with you about sushi, it is not one of my favourite types of food. Some time I visited an Asian restaurant where there were sushi and dishes from China. The Chinese dishes were very nice, but I didn't like the sushi.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
7 Apr 13
When I was a child I was a picky eater. Now as an adult still picky but I'm more willing to try things them when I was la child. The only reason I'm more open to try new things is because of my children which they are not picky eaters. I do have trouble getting my daughter to eat different meats but her doctor says as long as she is getting which meat and not like hot dogs that she is fine, I want them to try things to make sure they do not like it of sure because you will not know till you try even if it doesn't look good.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
7 Apr 13
That is true. If you never try things you won't discover if you like them or not. That was also my parents' attitude when I was a child. They wanted me try things at least once, but sometimes I didn't want to do that because I didn't think that I would enjoy the food. I was afraid of trying new kinds of food at that time. Today I am completely different and I like to eat new kinds of food.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
8 Apr 13
Yep. What my mom does know that she is a grandparent is every Saturday she tries to cook a new dish. Most of the times all of the little kids will eat. My daughter and myself don't like curry. We both tired it and we both suited out. I love it when my mom does different pork chops.
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@marguicha (223874)
• Chile
7 Apr 13
When I was a girl, in my country we had a very different way of eating than what it is used now. There were not so many dishes, but everything was made from scratch. At lunch and diner we ate at least a soup and a main dish. Desert was usually fruit. We ate breakfast and tea and they consisted of tea or coffee with milk and bread and butter or jam.
I hated dishes with vegetables, but I discovered later on that they overcooked veggies everywhere then. So they were all bland and with a greyish tint. I was very picky then and started to like everything when I was 12 years old.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
7 Apr 13
In my country we also use to make things from scratch but that changed when many women started working outside the homes. When the women had to cook and work at the same time, they stopped making things from scratch because they didn't have enough time to do that anymore. In my family we had very healthy food because father is a diabetic and my mother cooked the same food for all of us instead of cooking a different kind of food for my father. Like you I was picky when I was a child and I got less picky when I got older. Today I wouldn't call myself picky because I like to try many different types of food.
@luisadannointed (6308)
• Philippines
7 Apr 13
I Don't eat also exotic food... I just don't lol!
I am not a picker... but I love eating healthy and delicious food. I love sweets, sometimes sour a little spicy but not too much spicy... I ate fish but I don't eat fish with bad smell... hehehe... I love milk fish... I love beef... I love noodles and fruit shakes, I love cakes, I love fries, burger... I love new recipes with lots of vegetables, I love pizza... hehehe I love seafoods! hehehe I love fruits... I love everything with a great taste... i kinda like a little bitter... but not too much too... lol!
Have a great day... I am craving now for food because of this post... hehehe I think I am going to prepare coffee after this hehehe... I ate pasta for dinner... a good friend gave us because its her birthday! I feel so full! pasta is a heavy meal!
God bless you!
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
11 Apr 13
It is probably best to read this discussion when we have already eaten! Otherwise it is easy to get hungry. I had a very nice meal tonight (Indian take-away) so I don't really feel hungry now I can see that we like many of the same things. I love sweet things, pizza, burgers, fries, fruits, vegetable dishes etc. I am not a vegetarian but I like vegetable dishes very much, and sometimes I only eat vegetables and fruits. I also love sweet food like candy or cakes. I could eat candy and cakes almost daily, but I would gain too much weight if I did that, so I try to cut back on those things.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
7 Apr 13
Actually i'm a picky eater as well when i was young but i found things changed after i become an adult.So i feel good that at least try different kind of things and know more about cultures.So this is good for us.lol,anyway,can be better to fit the health,isn't it?Have a great day,friend.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
11 Apr 13
I think that it is a great thing to eat different types of food and get to know more about the different cultures that way. I was very picky when I was a child and it was really hard for my parents to convince me to try different types of food, but today I am totally different and I love to experiment with new kinds of food especially food from other cultures.
There are many international restaurants in the city where I was born. I don't live in that city anymore, but when I visit the city I love to have dinner at one of the international restaurants. There are many Chinese restaurants, but there are also restaurants with Italian food, Turkish food, Indian food, Mexican food etc, and sometimes it is so hard to choose a restaurant because they all sound interesting to me
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
6 Apr 13
Ive never been a picky eater. My mom and dad taught me to eat was was put on my plate so I did...
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
6 Apr 13
Many of my friends also had parents who taught them to eat the food that was put on their plate, but own parents let me make a sandwich if I didn't like the food that the rest of family was eating. I was picky as a child, but today I love to eat food that I don't know.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
6 Apr 13
My mom would not let us in her kitchen. Im about the same with my son. I let him make a sandwhich last night.. he put 5 pieces of ham on it...
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@spicymary (558)
• Romania
7 Apr 13
My attitude towards food followed the same direction like yours. I disliked a lot of types of food when I was a kid. Now, I have favorites and less favorites, but I think every aliment can be good if it is well cooked.
I heard that a lot of people were the same. I wonder why and if there are objective reasons or just a different psychology in childs.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
9 Apr 13
I can see from the responses in this discussion that other people have experienced the same thing as you and me. They were picky eaters in their childhood and today they eat many different types of food. I also wonder why this development seems to be quite common. Many parents are worried if their child is very picky, but that doesn't always mean that the child will remain the same way as adult. The child can actually become the complete opposite type of person like it happened in my case. My parents are surpriced that I love to eat new kinds of food today. They would never have guessed that based on my eating habits as a child, but today I am even more adventurous than my parents and I have eaten exotic food that my parents who never eat.
@Deepak2J (1178)
• India
7 Apr 13
I was always a picky eater from childhood. i don't eat many things, and still I don't eat them. The only change in me is that my favourite food in childhood was non-veg and now my favourite is veg. I still eat non-veg foods like fish and eggs. I already quit meat.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
8 Apr 13
I have experienced a similar thing. When I was a child liked certain kinds of vegetables, but there was a very large group of vegetables that I didn't like. Today I eat a lot of vegetables. I have been a vegetarian in the past and that time I didn't eat meat at all. Today I eat meat sometimes but more than 75% of my food is vegetarian food, because I usually prefer vegetarian food.
@scubapro (1051)
• Gifu, Japan
7 Apr 13
lovely discussion,when i was a kid i was always selecting the foods,i didnt eat everything and my mother was feeling so sad about me
i would never eat vegetables and also i didnt like some fruits
but not i am totally changed,i love challanging about foods,i live in japan,and when i first came here it was so hard for me to eat,but now i love japanese food more than anything,like sushi,udon,soba,natto.
i think some foods takes time for our body to accept them
happy mylotting
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
9 Apr 13
I was the same way in my childhood. There was a lot of food that I didn't like for instance many different types of vegetables. My mother tried to introduce me to new kinds of food, and I think that must have been a challenge for her, because I was reluctant to try new kinds of food and I usually prefered to stick the types of food that I already knew.
It is great that you love the Japanese food today. I have never been Japen, but I spent some time at a Danish/Japanese school in my country and sometimes the Japanese students cooked Japanese food for us. I didn't like all of the food in the beginning, but it was very interesting to taste food that was different from the traditional food in my country, and there are many differences between the Danish food and the Japanese food.
@joizee (502)
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
I'm sharing the same sentiment. I was picky as princess when I was beginning to eat on my own. Five to ten years old I guess? But now, a lot of new trends in cooking and presentation made me more interested in food and taste. But naturally, medical studies say our senses (taste, smell, hearing, sight, touch) degrades as we age. But why are most food critics have gray hair already? Perhaps, once you've been an expert on something (like food tasting), you hone the talent better.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
13 Apr 13
It is true that the senses decrease when we get older. In my previous job I met many senior citizens and many of them experienced problems with their sense of taste and they felt that the food had become boring because of the lack of taste. I think that must be an annoying problem. I love to eat new types of food especially food from other countries and I think that I would be sad if I couldn't taste that food anymore... My parents are surpriced to see me now because I used to be so picky when I was a child, but today I actually eat food that my parents don't want to taste
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
6 Apr 13
As a child I was also very picky eater. There were many dishes I didn't like that my mom would force me to eat. Such as, liver and onions, hotdogs, mash potatoes, cheese, cereal with milk. Now at 56 I'm more open to trying new foods. In fact I have this way since turning 45. I'm actually eating fish which my parents never made when I was a child. I also love all types of cheeses. I eat puerto ricans dishes and Italian dishes and love them both the same. When growing up I ate food to survive and I was like that till I was 45 years old. Now I can say I really enjoy eating.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
7 Apr 13
I was the same way when I was a child. There were many kinds of dishes that I didn't like at that time. My parents were not so strict at home. If I didn't like the food I was allowed to make myself a sandwich instead, but when we visited other family members or my parents' friends I had to eat the food that they had cooked and I forced myself to eat it even if I didn't like it. I love Italian dishes. I have lived in Italy and I learned to cook many Italian dishes at that time. I don't know the Puerto Rican dishes at all, but it could be interesting to taste some of them.
@moneylots87 (521)
• Indonesia
6 Apr 13
I think when I was little, I am kind of picky for food, if it not taste good I will not eat it, but if its taste good, then i eat it. But as for now, I eat delicious or not, as long its healthy and good for my body.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
7 Apr 13
I think that is a good choice to eat food that is healthy. I try to do the same thing. I generally eat a lot of vegetarian food and I try to avoid unhealthy food as much as possible. I want to remain healthy and I would also like to lose some weight. When I was a child I was picky like you. There were cetain kinds of food that I liked, but there were also many other kinds of food that I didn't like for instance many of the vegetables. Today there are still some kinds of food that I don't like to eat, but today I love to try new things and I love eat the local food from other countries. That is always interesting and I have discovered some really delicious food that way.
@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
14 Apr 13
Yes i have been a choosy eater since i was a child so i cannot blame my children to be like me as well. I do not know why but there are really certain foods I do not enjoy eating. I am not even a fan of vegetables. I only eat moderately. I love eating but just lie i said there are only few that i love to eat. Even in fruits, I do not eat all of them. i am not also comfortable eating foods which I am not familiar with.
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@dagami (1158)
• Rome, Italy
6 Apr 13
i was never picky as a child and nor am i now. i just draw the line when it comes to insects, horse, rabbit, and dog meat. europeans eat horse and rabbit meat. they are sold regularly in meat shops but i won't ever be able to swallow these if i knew it.
my son was very picky. aside from the blended meat that i used to give him before he turned 1, he didn't eat meat until the age of 3. he would spit everything out whenever i tried. it must have something to do with the texture of the meat. unlike most children, he ate vegetables without complaint. now that he's grown, he eats anything that his wife puts on the table.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
6 Apr 13
I had friends in Italy who loved rabbit meat. In own country pork, beef or chicken are more popular than rabbit meat. I don't eat rabbits. I keep them as pets, and they are not food to me. I have eaten horse meat in the past, but I didn't know what it was when I ate it. When I had eaten it I was told that it was horse meat. I was at a school at that time and they probably knew that most of the students wouldn't have eaten the dish if they had known what it was. I have never tasted dog meat, but it is one of the things that I don't want to taste.
@maxfashioned (188)
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6 Apr 13
I was raised to clean my plate, like it or not. Grew up on farm and there was no telling what we would have. I loved blood sausage until I saw it being made. Most everything was fresh. I also loved chicken hearts. Now days I stick to easy to prepare foods. I rarely eat fresh foods anymore. Still like rabbit and squirrel but haven't had them in years.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
6 Apr 13
My parents weren't very strict about cleaning my plate and I was usually allowed to make myself a sandwich if I didn't like the food that the rest of the family had. I tasted blood sausage when I was living in Estonia, but I was not involved the process where they made it, and I am happy about that. I have never tasted hearts, my mother doesn't like hearts herself so she didn't prepare that kind of dish for our family. I don't eat rabbit meat, because I keep them as pets. What does squirrels taste like? I am curious, because I have never eaten squirrels.
@yuukenn21 (17)
• Japan
7 Apr 13
I have tried dog meat before,, my friend decided to prank me coz he knows i dont eat dog meats ,, he did not tell me that what i was eating was the meat thats top of my not-to-eat-foods ... LOL it is surprisingly good tho. a once in a lifetime experience.. Haha.. weird me.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
7 Apr 13
The same thing happened to me when I had horse meat. I didn't know what it is was when I ate it. When I had eaten the meat it was revealed that we had eaten horse meat. Horse meat is not very common in my country and most people prefer to eat pork, beef or chicken, and most of the people in the room probably wouldn't have eaten the meat if they had known what it was