BEWARE of hater.how? its unbelievable and disappointing to me.give me some ideas

@mariaperalta (19073)

• Mexico

9 Apr 13

I thought the same thing. We have plenty of fun things to do here at My lot. We dont need to be worring about haters who seems to have nothing better to do.

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@scubapro (1051)

• Gifu, Japan

7 Apr 13

i also read that,thanks again to recommend i agree with you

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dagami

@dagami (1158)

• Rome, Italy

7 Apr 13

i have been here for less than a month and yes, i've been offended by some comments. we cannot please everybody, right? some people post rude comments and we just have to accept that there are lots of these in our society. my advise is not to mind them. anyway, they have nothing to do with our earnings here. i don't know exactly if others have rated my posts negative. do we get a notification on this?

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@scubapro (1051)

• Gifu, Japan

7 Apr 13

no ,there is no notifation about it,but i am sure who he is,after he gave me one annoying response i said,i dont wanna hear from you anymore to him then everything started,i know who he is, just it.

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quality co unts here on mylot

@Hatley (163776)

• Garden Grove, California

8 Apr 13

as an older mylotterr p;lease both of you you can report people who insult you as we are not supposed to insult and flame each other. there is no excuse for that even if you do not like someone you do not insult them here, mylot is supposed to be a place where we can make good friends and enjoy each others company not a place

to make war on one other.,

@mariaperalta (19073)

• Mexico

9 Apr 13

Im not sure they are haters. Just low lifes with nothing better to do. Real sad !!!

savypat

@savypat (20216)

• United States

7 Apr 13

It seems to me that you can worry about what others do or you can just do your thing. After all do you get paid less for a lower star color or number? I don't think so. When I first started I worried abut these things, but frankly I don't even know what color my star is, I don't know my number anywhere either. I guess I have two goals here, to make things interesting and to encourage newbies to use this site. I don't make much money, I get pay out about every three months and that is just a bonus for me. So chose what you want to do and go for it. Blessings.

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mylot

@Hatley (163776)

• Garden Grove, California

8 Apr 13

savypat yes you do get more money if you have a red or blue star look in the guidelines for the explanation that the reputations of all of us are figured into the earnings algorithm to determine our earnings so the higher your reputation the better you can earn,. just both of you do the same fine quality posting I have seen you do and you will earn nicely., quality here at my lot is what cou

nts.

hereandthere

@hereandthere (45645)

• Philippines

8 Apr 13

I guess I have two goals here, to make things interesting and to encourage newbies to use this site. I don't make much money, I get pay out about every three months and that is just a bonus for me. So chose what you want to do and go for it. Blessings. -- same here, savypat. sometimes, i'm here but just reading and rating (and reporting if i come across something and let mylot admin deal with it if it's valid.) what i've learned from mylot is that we all have something to learn from and share with each other.

@scubapro (1051)

• Gifu, Japan

7 Apr 13

you know really supportive and kind response , really appreciate actually about money i didnt worry,just i try to give good quality responses and of course try to start good quality discussions so if somebody attacts me like that,i just feel bad, thats it but after i hear you,i will not care it happy mylotting

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Jennifer

@LovingMyBabies (85288)

• Valdosta, Georgia

7 Apr 13

I have not had anyone rate me badly but I have been attacked a few years ago... I stopped coming here for a year over it and then I realized that I should not let that person get to me and keep me from a place I love to be. I realized that person was not worth me leaving or even being upset over. Don't let it get to you. There are plenty of good people here, more than the bad!

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@scubapro (1051)

• Gifu, Japan

7 Apr 13

yeah before i had same experience and stopped coming here too but this time i will not i will be here with my lovely friends thanks

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@Hatley (163776)

• Garden Grove, California

8 Apr 13

scuba pro make me youe friend and you can send me private messages if someoneis being hateful to you again as I will report them using that nice exclamation poiunt okay hatlehy here?/

@mariaperalta (19073)

• Mexico

9 Apr 13

I never look at any of my ratings. Ive been here 6 months now and have had a 9 all along. i ahve no idea when people rate me bad or good.

@mariaperalta (19073)

• Mexico

7 Apr 13

Im not sure how this happens. But to be honest with you, I never look at those things here at all. I just keep on trucking at my lot. have a great day there.

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@mariaperalta (19073)

• Mexico

7 Apr 13

I never look. I see the 9 I have had since day one. The other numbers Ive never even looked at them. Have a super Sunday there.

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@hereandthere (45645)

• Philippines

8 Apr 13

i smiled when i read "keep on trucking" because it's so you, maria.

when we just keep on interacting, stay sincere and help where we can, it's more enjoyable here.

by the way, do you reach payout every month? i don't and i don't mind at all.

hater

@scubapro (1051)

• Gifu, Japan

7 Apr 13

you never look at those things? maybe because you never had this experience,believe me if your star goes down from 91 to 81 one day,you would be surprise ;) its just sad but thanks for the response happy mylotting

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srisahara

@srisahara (4508)

• Indonesia

7 Apr 13

Hi friend, I surprised with this discussion. I never know how to find that someone gives negative rate to our discussion. So far, I never give negative rate to the discussion. If I feel it does not interesting for me, I just leave it without give negative rate. Even I always give + rate to the discussion that I interest to response. I really never know to check it. Can you give me explanation to check this problem? Thank you...

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mylot

rate

Shasta

@cupkitties (7421)

• United States

7 Apr 13

You can't know who rated you down. You can only assume. Can't find the original post, but someone had said that keeping track of you interest rankings might at least help you find out pinpoint where the negative rating took place.

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@scubapro (1051)

• Gifu, Japan

7 Apr 13

normally we have stars over our avatars,if people give us good ratings ,its getting better , from 1 to 10 10 is the best but if some bad person or hater give you (-) always,your stars rating is getting down, so yesterday i was 9 and the rating was (91) now 8 with (80) anyway i know who he is,but its not possible to find the person here just dont care it happy mylotting

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@scubapro (1051)

• Gifu, Japan

7 Apr 13

cupkitties thanks.cheers

@Hatley (163776)

• Garden Grove, California

8 Apr 13

hi scubapro yes it happened to me only it was taking my one hundred percent down to a fifty and I think a green star over night,So I contacted the admins and told them what happened, l got a privbte message from admins telling me that two men bragged to the admins that they took that old ladys blue star down to only fifty percent,. my lot banned these two me. So please if your star drops , more do contact the admins by hitting the contact and rolling down to other then tell them how your star keeps dropping and who you think is doing this, they can help you really. Here we are all supposed to be welcoming to each other no

t being mean,.

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@mariaperalta (19073)

• Mexico

9 Apr 13

Ha ha serves them right. If people are here to just give negative rating. Tell them to hit the road Jack.

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@scubapro (1051)

• Gifu, Japan

8 Apr 13

hey how great message this is, sorry for late response i appreciate,i am exactly sure that i was under attack,next time i will report it, they have been banned? how great mylot adming is/ great story and lovely advice thanksa lot

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grvdubey11

@grvdubey11 (1879)

• India

7 Apr 13

Well there are a few people like that here ,who provoke and when they get a reply ,they just use these unfair means.But since you are a nice guy and participate in discussions here honestly,i am sure you will get back to your original rating again very soon.I promise full backing and help from my side, best wishes.

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@mariaperalta (19073)

• Mexico

9 Apr 13

I see 5 or 6 like that. Seems like they are always negative. I just keep at my lot and dont worry about them at all.

@scubapro (1051)

• Gifu, Japan

7 Apr 13

thanks my friend,i am feeling same.i promise you too peace

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Nursefrai06

@Nursefrai06 (2498)

• Penrith, Australia

12 Apr 13

Its a very good thing that god said "love each other" and not necessarily "like" each other. Its much easier to love than to like something under any circumstance, i think. Anyway, when my star goes down, i try to see my interest ratings and see which one from them did i get low, and then, under that interest rating, its easier to see which discussion i answered and predict which ones of tose discussions must have caused me to get a lower rating, and then when i get a speculation, i try o avoid interacting with those people who i believe rated me low. Its not worth our time and energy to spend it on people who dont matter to us.

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@scubapro (1051)

• Gifu, Japan

12 Apr 13

lovely response thanks

TLilly12

@TLilly12 (1229)

• United States

7 Apr 13

I am so sorry you have got a minus rating, and this is very upsetting to you, no you should not stop, being here in Mylot just because someone, had bad ways about them, keep Mylotting and be strong, I hope everything works out for you, here in Mylot.

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@mariaperalta (19073)

• Mexico

9 Apr 13

Im sure the adm. is real busy these days. With the new site. I bet after they will look into this problem here.

@scubapro (1051)

• Gifu, Japan

7 Apr 13

it made me upset ,i agree but i will be stronger ;) today i got another gift from mylot too this time they cant make me sad thanks my friend

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blackrusty

@blackrusty (3519)

• Mexico

7 Apr 13

i would not put to much worry into the numbers at all they go up they go down all they are in my book is nothing but a number they as far as I know not bring extra money

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my lot

@Hatley (163776)

• Garden Grove, California

8 Apr 13

wrong mydear read the guidelines as it stated the admins uses our reputations to figure in the earnings into their algorithm. so the higher your reputation the better you will earn.