Yesterday Happy, Today Sad
By asdomencil
@asdomencil (4265)
Philippines
April 7, 2013 7:43pm CST
Yesterday we are happy spending the weekend with my family. Suddenly in the evening,, my wife received some messages from her brother and they got an argument via text which resulted into some conflict.
This morning I received text message from my mother that she had minor problem with her health.
My wife told me, why our life looks like this, when we are happy, suddenly bad things come...
Is this part of the balance in life? Something will counteract the other one?
What are your thoughts on this mylotters? Have you experienced the same situation? Good day!
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7 responses
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
8 Apr 13
Sorry to hear that. As you know thats what life is all about. the good, then the bad. Hope everything turns out ok.
@asdomencil (4265)
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
I just hope that everything really turns out okay. I know that these are just some trials that we can still manage to handle.
@asdomencil (4265)
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
Yes and all I have to do is to let HIM help me to go on and pass all the trials.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
8 Apr 13
Sometimes I feel God tests us with these type of things. Good luck to you there. :)
@inopiratum_a_medio12 (877)
•
8 Apr 13
uncertain things comes in unexpected time to test relationship, faith and other things, maybe that's life goes to learn and to yearn
@asdomencil (4265)
• Philippines
11 Apr 13
Yes. we should stick t our faith. We should believe that everything will be alright. Staying positive is a good act in such situations.
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
8 Apr 13
i guess we have all experienced times like this. with the good comes the bad. it's part of the life cycle, i guess. i really sucks, though. i wish things could just stay good all the time.
@asdomencil (4265)
• Philippines
11 Apr 13
Yes. I agree that in life there are ups and down. Just like in our situation. The downs usually goes right after ups. i think all I have to do is to stay on the positive side. Don't stick and keep on thinking on the negatives. The more we thought of the negatives, the more it will come to us.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
I think that's just how life goes, you can't be fully sad nor can you be fully be happy all the time. That's why it's called "the circle of life". I guess we should just be thankful that we still are able to enjoy those happy moments. Life would be really be miserable if it's all bad all the time.
If I were in your shoes, I would have told her "perhaps this is why we should cherish these happy moments and never let chances of happiness and love pass us by."
Have a great mylot experience ahead!
@asdomencil (4265)
• Philippines
10 Apr 13
I agree with you. Sometimes, such negatives or sad things must not stay on out life for long. This should not be consider to ruin your day. Instead just pray for it.
@jalucia (1431)
• United States
8 Apr 13
Life is full of good and bad. The good thing is that you and your wife have each other. Believe it or not, it's also good that you have family which you are close to. I wouldn't look for something bad to happen just because something good happened. That's being pessimistic and like wishing for something negative to happen. But just know that it's not all rainbows in life. Sometimes it's just rain.
@asdomencil (4265)
• Philippines
11 Apr 13
Agree. The more we thought of the negatives, the more that kind will come to us. I think it is better to stay focus and think of the positive ones.
@yengnimcdo (217)
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
You know it happens most of the time. We just need to be strong everytime. Also ask God for guidance with your everyday life.
@asdomencil (4265)
• Philippines
11 Apr 13
Agree. He will be the first one we should call and lean to in case of situations like this.
@qianlizhifeng (468)
• China
8 Apr 13
Well,I think we can't predict when we will be happy and when we will get unhappy.When we meet with some unpleasant affairs,what should we do?How can we try to get rid of something that may bring us unhappiness?
There are always all kinds of problem in our life.To some extent,life means we should deal with problems.For example,when you get up,you may have to think of what to wear today.When you decide to go outside,you may have to consider if you need drive your car.We can not avoid problems and unpleasant affairs sometimes.So we have to face them,and try to resolve them.
I think when your wife felt unhappy,you can try to comfort her, and reduce her unhappiness.It is normal that we feel sad after some bad things come into our life continously.However,if we let the bad feelings affect our life,we will feel worse and worse.So I suggest you adjust yourself and enjoy yourself,because the sunshine never leaves you.
@asdomencil (4265)
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
Thanks for the advice. One thing I really know to make the day enjoyable is to stay positive and get rid of the negative vibes. Because if you keep on thinking of the problems, the more it will come. I know that all of us have problems and still there are many to come. It really depends on how you will handle it.
