Break Up - Revange or Forgive?

You dont wannt hold a grudge all your life, its better to let go, forgive and forget than to live a life full of regret. :)

how do you accept a break-up? a break-up should not mean creating another enemy although it depends on the reason and situation. i guess, what one should be ready about is how to accept rejection. even if we say we can accept it, we are always caught in a dilemma of self-denial. what is there to do but to condition the mind that anything can happen to a relationship, even the worst.

Agree, I just forget an move on, i don,t have to insist things that is not meant for me, because it will only cause more pain to me, sometimes we thought that the person we love today is the person that we are going to marry tomorrow or sooner, but since we don't have idea what is future hold for us, our expectations fails, and hurt us too much. Love is difficult thing especially when it comes to break up, sometimes it hard to let go of someone you love. But we have no choice than to let go and move on.

i am currently going through a stage of wanting revenge on an ex but working towards the forgiving. i dont like to hold grudges ever. i have been able to forgive all the other breakups in my past except this most recent one (from November the breakup was). he broke up with me over 6 times throughout our 10 month relationship for the same girl everytime. i knew it want right but i went back to him anywas bc i could and wanted to if i am honest with myself. but after he broke up with me (bc he said he couldnt trust me, right, psht), two days after, he was seeing this girl again and seriously and publicly. it was embarrassing and it made me mad. now they are engaged and they are making the biggest deal about it possible! i already had plans to key his car bc it means so much to him and it felt right to get back at him but now it seems like bad timing. now it will not be my revenge but will seem jealous and even more childish than it started as. i guess i am being forced to forgive. i kind of hate that i always do that though bc i feel like i am pushed aside without me caring enough. so maybe i should still key his car...lol