sharing the bedroom
By pomwango
@pomwango (1353)
Kenya
April 8, 2013 1:26am CST
i remember a few years back i visited my aunt and she had some relations from her husband side staying over about four males and it was for a while because some where schooling and others job seeking so she decided she didnt want her own kids sharing bedrooms and their stuff with visitors so she put her daughter of about twelve years and her nineteen year old son in one room that they shared.i found this weird a recipe to incest.i never heard of any wrong they did but whats your opinion on this,would you mind putting your kids to share a room of opposite gender and of this age,have you come across such cases?
3 responses
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
I remember me and my siblings use to share one room during our childhood days.
Being siblings I don't think there is wrong with it - or at least I shall say that depends on how parents raised their children.
I have 3 kids of my own- 1 girl and 2 boys and all three have their own rooms (they're lucky enough)
But we know that not every household can afford to give their children a separate rooms.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
8 Apr 13
Since they are siblings, there is nothing wrong in sharing the room. I think it is far better than sharing bed room with unknown visitors. I neve heard about this kind of stories previously most of the parents will allocate separate rooms for their kids of opposite gender.
@pomwango (1353)
• Kenya
8 Apr 13
if its an emergency or a die situation but i would not encourage it because its better to avoid temptation than to regret later when you hear your kids are intimate with each other.