My mother kindness
@extremefun4fun (2908)
India
April 8, 2013 4:36am CST
My mother is too kind, I do not remember if anytime I have seen her anger on anybody, now I am so far from her and more remember her words.
I hurt with rude and unkind people and for that I suffer in my life. once my mother came to me and said: why do you get angry so easily like that? we can not change people but change ourselves!
she taught me that in this world we suffer from only and only one disease and that is Ignorance! which smell so badly everywhere nowadays... when I was younger and she tried to make me understand she gave me an example: think about a boxor in the ring, he punch to others face in the ring but when he is out of ring, imagine a child who is eager for boxing, comes to the boxor and punch many times to his legs and stomache as he is a kid and shorter than the boxor.
what do you think? Boxor will get angry and punch to face of that kid and though him? no, he will just smile and touch his hair with kindness and will across....
you have to learn to smile and across from those who hurt you because you should know they are ill, do you come to fight and shout on an ill one? no, you should be caring about them and love them, give them smile and then across, let them say what they say! if you have knowledge about what life is, then it should not hurt you at all... across and just wish them to come over their disease: Ignorance! wish them to find a right way in their life and leave them for God :)
these days most of the time I think about my parents and i really miss them a lot..
How my mother can be that much kind to all who hurt her alot? i still could not be like her... when somebody hurt me, then i hate that one and i will not accept him or her anymore, even not like to hear their names in my life...
I think it is really gifted by God to have that great-kind heart!!!
what do you think about that?
How do you forgive people?
How do you come over unkind and rude people in your life?
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@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
8 Apr 13
Mothers are great. Mine was. She never got mad at anyone that I can remember. Never yelled. I miss mine. She passed about a year ago now. She was my best friend.
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@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
8 Apr 13
She was my best friend. If it was for her I wouldnt be the great mom I am today......
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@cuteganda (38)
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
Graete story. I feel you how did you love you're mother very much? I know she know how much did you miss her.
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@cuteganda (38)
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
Greate story. I feel you how did you love you're mother very much? I know she know how much did you miss her.
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@tinayu (214)
• China
9 Apr 13
mum is an angel that comes to the earth to protect her children.when you are crying,she will erase your tears;when you are hurt,she will be ready to embrace you; when you are happy,she won't be stingy with her commends.isn't she like an angel? so treasure every moment you spend with your mum,and say "i love you, mama!"
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@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
9 Apr 13
yes mothers are like angels... thank you for sharing.. I wish I could spend time with my mom but I am so far and miss her a lot.
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
9 Apr 13
Your mother was very wise. My mother was a very patient person, also. I don't think she was quite as forgiving as your mother. When she was hurt, it took her a long time to get over it. She never said anything to anyone, except to me, her only daughter. She was still kind to the person who hurt her, but would cry when by herself. I miss my mother, also. She has been gone for 10 years, but I still think of her daily.
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@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
10 Apr 13
Thank you. I'm sure she is at peace.
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@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
9 Apr 13
I am sorry about your mother, may she is in peace of heaven...
@IntrovertShy (2780)
• Marikina, Philippines
9 Apr 13
Lucky you have mother that is too kind although not all mothers are like that. She has a good spirit and I would say that its high enough to make herself perfect. I remember the word perfect in spirit. You see comparing a too much religious person and high in spirt person like your mom, I would prefer a person that has high in spirit.
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
9 Apr 13
I also like those who are high in spirit , but sometimes I think kindness also should have limit...
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
Moms are great but some exception are there ! They are the source of good values at home. Sometimes they have a favorite child but that doesn't make us love them less. They are our mother and for life we are indebted to them.
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@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
9 Apr 13
my mother is symbol of overlimited kindness in all family and relatives.. I wish if my mom could get angry sometimes..
@ignatha (45)
• Indonesia
9 Apr 13
I also feel, my mother is too good. often times when she scolded me, it is not uncommon, even asked me jokingly. he always makes me smile. may be difficult for me to lose him. even though he is old, I have never forgotten our events as long as I was a kid. if I think back, I often sad. and want to go back to my childhood
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
8 Apr 13
I really like your mother's attitude and I think that she is an inspiration for others 
It is true that we can't change other people, but we can change ourselves and we can change the way that we interpret other people's actions. My own mother is also a very kind person and she usually sees the best in everyone even people who treat her in bad way. I try to do the same thing, but it can be a challenge sometimes. One of my favourite sentences that I try to remember is this one: "Remember to forgive. People rarely intend to hurt you and if they do intend to hurt you they need forgiveness even more".
It is true that we can't change other people, but we can change ourselves and we can change the way that we interpret other people's actions. My own mother is also a very kind person and she usually sees the best in everyone even people who treat her in bad way. I try to do the same thing, but it can be a challenge sometimes. One of my favourite sentences that I try to remember is this one: "Remember to forgive. People rarely intend to hurt you and if they do intend to hurt you they need forgiveness even more".1 person likes this
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
8 Apr 13
that is really great sentence which you have mentioned here, thank you so much for sharing it here with us.. and God bless you.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
21 Apr 13
Hello extreme,
Wow what a great Mom you have got. She is very wise too. She knows how to handle most people by the sound of it without losing her temper or getting flustered and frustrated.
She is right that the ones who retaliate into fighting with one another just do not know how to cope with most situations its a question of them learning how to and applying to their daily lives.
So very lucky to have such a wonderful Mom.
Well I have tried my best which is obviously not the best to handle those unkind and rude people the best way I could and can and will.
Some people are harder to forgive than others it all depends but if one carries dislike or hatred for those people for a long time in their heart they are the only ones that will suffer in the finish.
xxx
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@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
Lack of education is indeed the cause of rudeness and unkindness. Education refines character, supposedly. But since the home is our first school, we had our first lessons in life at home, we are shaped by how our parents brought us up in the home. If there is so much rudeness at home, then the person will grow up to be rude. You see the reflection of the upbringing of the person in his dealings with others.
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
9 Apr 13
yes, our home is the first and basement of shaping our behaves.
@jadoixa (1166)
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
wow, your mother is one of a kind woman and person. not too many people can have that kind of character. you are fortunate and lucky to have a mother like that. i myself cannot be like that, whenever someone would talk bad and abusive or hurtful towards me, i always would like to defend myself and fight back, i hate rude and mean people. i think they don't deserve to be treated good back. i would like to be able teach someone a lesson, because if you keep on tolerating them, they will come to abuse you too much because they think they can just do that to you. i think she is a strong woman because of her virtue of kindness. that is a rare character to possess and have. rude people are definitely the ones who are weak and miserable people.
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@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
9 Apr 13
thank you so much, I do not know how my mother can be like that and how easily she forgive others.. I am not like her, I would say always to my mom that I behave as same as how others behave to me, if they respect me I will respect them and if they come rude to me, I give them just 3 times forgiveness chances and after that I would behave to them like how they behave with me...
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
8 Apr 13
I'm afraid I disagree with mothers all being great as someone above has said. Some are not. I have not had the opportunity to live with such a mother, and now therefore my brother takes after her alot at times. I have seen all of my family members become angry at something or another. It is almost unnatural to not become angry at something eventually. But if the anger is taken too far then that is the problem.
I admire your mother for the words of wisdom she has had within her, someone must have taught her to be that way or otherwise she taught herself. You were so lucky to have her. God Bless.
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@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
9 Apr 13
thank you, yes I am lucky to have that kind mother, I think my mom born just like that and in that way...
@inopiratum_a_medio12 (877)
•
9 Apr 13
your very lucky to have a mom like that and her words inspired me I agree with her that the only person you can change is yourself above all nothing at all I can see her humility, generosity of love and so loving and understanding as normal reaction to any kind of experience of rudeness initial reaction is to be rude also or fight back no person wants to cheated or deceive. She's really a real beauty
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
9 Apr 13
thank you for your nice comment, I wish if I could be like my mom but whatever I try I can not be like her.
@yengnimcdo (217)
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
you know all moms ard kind especially to their son or daughter. its in nature. my mom also the best for me. imagine me and my sis has our own children but our mom still wants us to live with her even she pays all the expenses in our house.
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@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
9 Apr 13
mothers are like that, for a mother, even if her children are adult, for here they are still like a kid , mother loves her children in that way..
@aconno (20)
• Canada
9 Apr 13
wow, this reminds me of my mom, always good natured and kind even when faced with racism,hate and all sorts of things, she always spoke about how kindness is king. however i am just like you i have anger management issues.I always try to act like my mom does, but sometimes its so hard and i try to always forgive and be kind to bad people because my mother always did the same.
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
9 Apr 13
sometimes I used to get angry on my mom why she can forgive her enemy easily and used to tell her it is not good to be that much kind , at least to have some attitude for those bad ones..? but she born like that, just to be kind and smile and love all....
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
9 Apr 13
I think your mother is one of the best mother in the world. I think your mother is right when she said that we cannot change people and can only change ourselves. To error is human and to forgive is divine.
@extremefun4fun (2908)
• India
9 Apr 13
I think God has made my mother in that way only, kindness and easily to forgive others, she is so kind and nice with those who all time hurt her.. but what changes came? just she became old and suffer a lot in the way of kindness in her life? sometimes I think if my mother at least and at least if once, only once, could shout, or could make herself angry, maybe she could live in better situation... my mother used to say,,, they are just young, they do not understand, they will come to know what mom says, when mom has become a powder under soil... I just wish if my mom once could give me slap maybe today I was not here..
@yengnimcdo (217)
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
you know all moms ard kind especially to their son or daughter. its in nature. my mom also the best for me. imagine me and my sis has our own children but our mom still wants us to live with her even she pays all the expenses in our house.
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