I'm cheating on my boyfriend with these 2 guys

@Aja103654 (5646)
Philippines
April 8, 2013 5:05am CST
Yes, I am spending a lot of my hours with these two guys recently. They help take my mind away from the loneliness I feel without my boyfriend around. -sigh- Here's a picture of them http://setossweethome.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/star-project-park-date.png http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m86uq0dcTj1r1rn8qo1_400.jpg Hahhahahah! Fooled you all! Yeah, they are not real guys. They are guys from an otome game(maiden game) I am currently playing online. They don't exist!!! Do you find it weird for a girl to like having virtual boyfriends??
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12 responses
@allknowing (136397)
• India
8 Apr 13
If you are good at fantasizing then it matters little whether the man in your life is real or virtual. So beware!
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
Well, to make use of my fantasies I turn them into stories which I publish on fan fiction dot net. I don't feel real love for my virtual boyfriends, they do keep me happy, I love them pretty much the way I love my pet goldfish.
@allknowing (136397)
• India
9 Apr 13
That's great Aja. Keep loving your virtual boy friends as you would your pet goldfish! What do you feed them with?!
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
The game is set in real time, so I have to feed them every few hours. But I don't bother with that so much haha!! I do feed them virtual food which can cost from 20,000 to 100,000 virtual money!!!
@cttolledo (5454)
• Legaspi, Philippines
9 Apr 13
Weird LOL! Actually be careful still although they are not existing.. they could be the reason of your misunderstanding with your boyfriend.. because you might hooked to that game and may affect you time that supposed to be spending it with your boyfriend...My boyfriend is hooked with NBA games online..he usually spent most of his time on that game during weekends, sometimes He forgot to pay attention as to what time already so I have to remind him everytime when we have schedule of going out..
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
LOL, don't worry, I'm not twelve anymore (though I act like one sometimes) Thank you for reminding me though. ^_^ oH MY, your boyfriend does seem addicted to games. You should teach him a lesson. That's a different story from mine, since I played the games because my boyfriend is not around to begin with and I am a video gamer even before me and my boyfriend got together. Also, my boyfriend is a video maniac too, but he's retired for now. XD nah, these virtual boyfriends of mine, I treat them more like a pet than a boyfriend really. Although they have bad personalities, they can't seem to much my annoying boyfriend.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
Well, you can't expect him to be perfect. Just make sure that it's not getting in the way of your relationship. Also, try playing with him, you might enjoy the game too.
@cttolledo (5454)
• Legaspi, Philippines
9 Apr 13
I don't know how to teach him a lesson.. He really loves playing basketball online and in real court..Actually, he's okey so far to me, he's there everytime I need him but I felt jealous when he spent so much of his time with this game, and sometimes forgot the time.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
10 Apr 13
Hi! There is nothing wrong in indulging with two virtual boy friends. As long as it makes you happy and cheerful, you could continue to enjoy with them. But your should remember they are virtual of fictional, such boy friends won't exist in real life.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
11 Apr 13
Yes. Don't worry I am not that obsessed with them.(which reminds me, I have to feed them) I love them like I love my pet goldfish. I love my boyfriend more than I want to admit even though he is an idiot haha!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
Weird? Hmmmm... a bit. But I am sure you also have crushes on some of the local actors as well, right?
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
Local actors?? Pwee. I don't even know their names. But I do like Johnny depp.(handsome, talented, witty, awesome, hot) It's a shame his like twice my age. Argh! Lord, why????
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
i do not have boyfriends too in the virtual world, but talked few minutes ago with my ex and crush. i guess, there is nothing wrong with it. it is just a conversation and i know my limits when to keep on going or talking or when to stop. so for you, it is just alright - we need to have an outlet before we going insane by ourselves :)
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
LOL, yeah, we need an outlet. It's good that you know your limits. it's not a good idea to get too close to an ex, unless he is a guy who is really worth it.
@yugocean (9963)
• India
12 Apr 13
First I was surprised to read the title, I was thinking how a girl like you with strong womanhood can involve herself in cheating? Now when I read the post and those two guys they are, it is pooh, you really made a last laugh. Weired for what? This is just game and not really boyfriends, you can change your game, and these two will think you cheated on them (fooled them if they 'think')
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
13 Apr 13
Haha! You give me too much credit yugo! yeah, I meant that title to fool a lot of people. It's not actual cheating since it is a game, and I don't love them like a boyfriend but rather like a pet. I feed them and take care of them, then make them happy. One of the best things of the game is that they don't mind me two timing. It's like the guy is completely unaware of the other.
@yugocean (9963)
• India
13 Apr 13
I didn't played video games since long and I should start now with few for my free time in office, but I am not much with games to download in mobile.
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
i love online game, as a matter of fact i spent half of my salary buying game cards, it is possible to fall in love in virtual the fact that they are played by real person, i have a friend that falls in love with her buddy in the online game, and in real they become boyfriend and girlfriend, and now they got married and live a happy life, and still they have time to play online games.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
Wow! Such a modern love story. I hear this happens a lot to online gamers! ^_^ I know, online games are addicting!! This online game is not interactive though. So there is no other real person in the game other than me.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
Oh, I also have crushes and other guys in my life (lols) I love listening to Andrea Bocelli and watching Nicolas Cage's movies (hehehe) These are the two men/guys I love a lot
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
Wow! LOL! It is natural to have crushes I think but still we have only one true love. My family loves to listen to Bocelli. His voice is really good. Cage's movies are great. he's a very talented actor, I don't see many actors who can play a good guy and a bad guy so well.
@grvdubey11 (1879)
• India
8 Apr 13
You can do anything in virtual world ,that is why its called virtual.Its just like being in a dream,you see totem in my display picture is still running.I hope you enjoyed the game, best wishes.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
I think the virtual world is rather limited, but otome games do enable us to cheat without conscience. I enjoyed the game. I'll play later after mylotting.
8 Apr 13
I can understand you very much. Without boyfriend beside, it's easy to feel boring and lonely for us girls. To be honest, though it's ambarrassing, sometimes I even has the absurd idea to watch a . Sigh. But now I can solve the problem in another way, reading books or playing badminton. In a word, do something interesting and meaningful to disttract your miss for your dear boyfriend.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
Xiao, what are you watching? Yeah, I do a lot of different things to keep my mind away from missing my now useless boyfriend. I play with my pet goldfish and play video games and spend time here in mylot. Thank you for your response. ^_^
• India
8 Apr 13
I do not think if being gf and bf requires loyalty.. a boy can have many gf and a girl can have many bf, but if between those you love a one that much that you want to marry, then it is good to be loyal with him or her just after marriage.. I do not think it is any problem before marriage while of being gf and bf to make yourself in limitation....
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
LOL, I find your avatar strangely cute. It's like its telling me to stop whatever naughty thing I am doing. Anyway, back to the topic. It is extremely important to be loyal even in the bf and gf stage. this is somewhat of a simulation to married life and getting to know someone who could possibly our marriage partner. However, it is true that it's much easier to break commitments that is not bound by marriage. Still, it should not be tolerated. I'm not cheating on any real guy. It's just a game where I can date guys which are animated.
• United States
8 Apr 13
I'm sure you fooled a lot of people with that post ! Fooled me. It's unique you have such a gaming hobby. It is weird to like having virtual boyfriends. Nothing wrong with weird though. As long as it's all for fun.
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
Haha! Gotcha! I hear in Japan and Korea, this type of games are famous with the young ladies there. And lately, with english translations to the game, ladies from all over the world have slowly discovered these type of games and are currently playing it. I even hear some of them actually studied japanese and korean just so they can understand the game which has not been translated to english yet. Now that's what I call passion! Thank you for responding!