The moment that you realized the worth of your EX to your life,
By Jandie
@tech40 (23121)
Philippines
April 8, 2013 5:30am CST
Hi guys, I have an ex girlfriend and it's almost 2years ago that we have break up, actually, it's almost 2 years but still I love her,
We have both new relationship, she has boyfriend and i have girlfriend, but still sometimes I miss my ex girlfriend, specially every time I realized her worth on my life, actually she change my whole life, she wake my dead mind, she's the reason why I think, I reach this place, because of her, I realized who I am, and what I can do and i can't she is my everything, I always think that. when there's time that we're both free.. i'm going to court her once again until she answer yes, but.. she said she's already happy and contented on what she have right now,
I don't know what I should do to accept the fact that everything or all memories with her are now gone, and can't bring back,
I really miss her, and I still love her,
My Mistakes is to have a girlfriend even if i'm ready,
But wait, I courted my girlfriend when i'm taking my OJT subject, on that time my feelings are seems gone to my ex, I don't even care about my ex all that time, on that time I feel inlove to the girl that im courting, and until she answered yes when I ask her if she can be my girlfriend,
After 2 month, I told to my girlfriend that I miss my ex girlfriend, and this time, 8 months of being with my girlfriend, I still miss my EX girlfriend,
I feel that I'm really worthless, and I'm still wishing that someday, me and my ex will be together again as before...
I'm so happy to see that my ex is happy and contented,
But i'm not happy to myself, cos i'm still looking for her,
Kill me please, ANYONE
I'm so happy to see that my ex is happy and contented,
But i'm not happy to myself, cos i'm still looking for her,
Kill me please, ANYONE1 person likes this
6 responses
@sanahaseeb (162)
• India
8 Apr 13
Hi tech. I can understand your situation, I was in this situation too. Time repairs everything. Don't expect her to come back. She has a boyfriend and is happy. She is not going to come back to you. You have to forget her. I know its really tough. But you have to do it. By the lapse of time, you will forget her. May be one day, you will think about her laugh, that she ever existed in your life.
Don't feel sad, instead value what you have now.
god bless.
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@xiaoqian19880825 (180)
•
8 Apr 13
Relationship could not be forced. Your EX has said that she's content now. But if you really love her, I SUPORT you to court her continuously, cos if you are with your present GF missing your EX, it's not fair for your GF. So pursue your love, all our life we have only one chance to get our real love. Good luck!
@jonastabuena (2307)
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
This is a hard situation, maybe you though that time your feelings about your ex was gone, but in reality it was only hidden inside your heart, and now you noticed it. Are you comparing with your present girl with your ex? if you doing this, then this is might be the cause why you feel this way now. Are you sure that your still in love with your ex or you are just missing her. Maybe what you feel is not really love you need soul searching for this situation.
Sometimes there are people who will become attached to us for some purpose, maybe the purpose of your ex in your life that time is to change you for better, so that next time were you able to know things specially when it comes to love. We can not really say that the person we really is the person that is meant to us. Sometimes it not, they become part of our life for some reason.
Know your self and your emotion, talk to your heart, i'm you can find answers.
@imaging_1 (64)
• United Kingdom
9 Apr 13
I would advise you to forget your ex, because she already has a boyfriend now, and from your words, she is happy and content. If you love her, please make her and bless her.
And before you act, maybe you should trying to take a objective look at yourself:All the feeling you have about your ex, is it love? or is it just dissatisfaction about your present girlfriend? May be you have compare your ex with your present one many times, and maybe every time,you found your ex is better, more you compare, more merits you find in your ex, and more love to your ex. Have you ever realized, this is unfair to your girlfriend? Love has no comparison,each girl has her own charms. Just think about why you fell in love with your present girlfriend, imaging the picture. There are must be some thing you love her. Yes, maybe you feel your love is faded, then you are right to tell her honest,and then both of you need to chase new love. But no matter how you feel you love your ex, you should respect her opinion. Love is about two, not one. If you really love your ex, please let it go, and bless her. And if she loves you too, she would eventually come to you. But now, please smile, and let time smooth your sadness, just look forward, and jump out of your emotion, you will find the world is so beautiful.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
9 Apr 13
try to figure it out. maybe you are just confuse or mix the feeling of pride to love. or the mere fact that you cannot accept that your ex is happy with her life without you. but if your feelings get back the way at first you felt with your ex and that there is no really chance to both of you, then what you will do is to move on and forget everything between you and her. concentrate with what you have now and try to focus or give the attention to your recent gf. do this not to take your girlfriend's feeling for granted or yet, break up with her not to be biased. made a decision now before its getting to late and to regret things again and again.
@pomwango (1353)
• Kenya
8 Apr 13
of course what you dont have anymore looks more valuable but at times after a break up we realise how good the person we had was because maybe our new relations are not working out well.take time to be sure its her as a person you need or she is just better than who you are dating then decide and since she just has a boyfriend and its not a marriage if you still feel she is the one go out till you get her back.
