When I help instead of thanking me he think bad things instead

Philippines
April 8, 2013 8:43am CST
thanks That I am in a good mood and have complete sleep today and just went to church yesterday so I am calm and not angry.I was surprise when I used to help my uncle since I told him last time when I got NBI clearance as a requirement for getting a job that is was so fast now and can be scheduled through cellphone and input data through internet, compared to the traditional way where it will take a whole day to get it. then he approach me and told me to help him to get nbi clearance by a online.when as far as i remember I asked him if he can already get nbi clearance since he is just given a pardon for his temporary release in jail, and needed to report and he is under observation for 2 years. and he said ok. So I helped him and scheduled him. when He went there. he wasn't able to get it on that day since it result for 'HIT' so that means he will be back for 1 week for there is a problem with his name or there is case from a person with the same name as him.so of course that means IT is of course Him since he was not yet cleared.another problem is he use an alias in NBI. he used the fake name that he changed when he was in jailed so it might be trace in NBI. then when his wife came here today she told my uncle that it was 'PLANTED' or just a plan. see that? I didn't ask him to get NBI. he ask for help to me. and then they will think that this is my plan? if I have plans it is easy to say that he is using a fake name in NBI or the Court where he do report that he is only using an alias that why his cases was dismiss for the reason which I don't know why he was able to change his name when he was in jail? as i heard my mother told me he was cased before in his real name. maybe because his wife was using drugs too and a drug pusher as what my mother told me that's why she think of such silly things. Haven't she realize If i want them to be jail or do something bad to them. it is very easy to give a tip to police and let her be arrested for being a drug runner.But because I haven't see her in my naked eye,although we all knew that she is always under influence of drugs. but because i consider her daughters who depends on her. I wasn't able to do that.if that things happen I put everything to God to make a way to change her.and also my uncle. It was quit upset that they still think that we can do something bad against them. they do not see the kindness that we always show even in small things everyday to them.maybe because they are like that to us. for they are simple traitor to us. and we only found out when they already made it. and I Thank God that My FEAR on HIM keep me from revenging instead returning good things to those who have done to us.I really prayed that God will always give me patience to these people as what He want us to be. "If we do good things to those who are doing good things to us only. what reward shall we received in heaven?" Love your enemies. and do not repay evil to those who have done evil against us.. as what the bible says.
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• Philippines
23 Apr 13
How ungrateful they are, people who do bad things, always acts in defensive mode, they think that people will do the same thing to them. Now at least you know their attitude, you will be able to know how to handle them next time, people like them should be avoided, but its hard since they are your relatives. The best to do is to pray that someday they will be enlightened and refrain doing bad things.
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• Philippines
23 Apr 13
thanks for inspiring words honestly there are times that I really feel to give back their evilness. Only God's word keep me from doing that . I always remind myself about what said in the bible that do not repay evil to those who commit evilness.