What is Unconditional Love? Can we attain it?

I don't see things the same way as that narrator says. I kind if think she is out of touch with her own humanity. Yes I believe we humans can have unconditional love. My love is unconditional for my daughter. There is nothing that could make me not love her. It wouldn't be for selfish reasons that I live her. I love her for her, and that she is part of me. I had a husband; my love for him was unconditional until he made it clear he didn't want to be married to me. I put up with a lot from him because I loved him in spite of how he behaved. In the end I just accepted reality. In the video it said the man who pays for his wife's life saving cancer treatment is selfish that he is doing it only for himself. Maybe he isn't ready to lose her yet, but maybe she isn't ready to die yet either. Maybe she still WANTS to live. It can be unselfish love to try to save her or let her go. It just depends on what the dying person wants.

unconditional love can be found with only one person that is with your mother. only mother shows unconditional love towards her children. no one else can show such a kind of unconditional love like a mother shows to her child. i love my mother very much.

I don't really think there is true unconditional love in human beings. I think that we are all basically selfish beings when we get past the altruism and the bravado. Although I'm not sure I agree with all of the video, I agree with that basic thought. There is only One who is capable of true unconditional love.

Unconditional love does not exist. Unconditional love would mean that we can do anything we like and get away with it. Such love is harmful. In human life, there are many occasions on which punishment is needed. Punishment is actually the good soil on which good crops are reaped.

Wow! There is SO Much missing from that lady's view. It is sad. Clearly, she has experienced very little love herself. Love isn't always selfish.

My mother-in-law had that kind of love for my daughters.

I think many folks aim for unconditional love, and hopefully we can accomplish it.. Of course we cannot accomplish it always.. We all likely have those we like more than others.. people we are like minded with for instance. That's kind of natural. The key I think is to not get carried away with that. After all, even criminals like those like their self! And of course the Creator has unconditional love.. and He sees all things concerning every person, and group. We make judgment according to what we see, which is usually outward, but the Creator knows all from the inside and from each one's true motives. It may be difficult, but I think the more we hang out with God, the more things like unconditional love will start to rub off onto us!

Unconditional Love is seldom found in Humans, but always with God. God's love is unconditional in that it is Absolute. God loves 'Absolutely.' Absolute love demands absolutely Nothing in return. Christianity does not teach absolute love because it could not collect money if it embraced this concept! Because God's love is Absolute, all human(so-called)sin, is forgiven even before it can be committed!

To me, I don't think any one of us can exactly say if our love for any one, including our flesh and blood could be deemed unconditional because there's always that self factor. Surely, we can always flip a new page for an errant party but again we cannot tell if there are conditions attached. We can only answer this ourselves and to ourselves. However, I believe in doing what should be done and right whatever it takes first. Don't care what others say or may see or may not see. The important thing is making the difference in that moment, don't care if it is selfish or foolish no one is unimportant or more important than another. I'd let the One upstairs decide and judge if what I've done is unconditional or conditional, right or wrong, selfish or unselfish, stupid or clever.