Husband cheating or not

It does sound as if he is cheating but who knows. I would be upset just for the fact that he is gone for days and I only see him for his pit stops. You say that when he is home that he is texting the whole time. I think you two need some serious talking. Sounds as if communication between you is zero.

You definitely need to talk to him and confront him. This behavior is extremely suspicious and no matter what the reasons behind it, its extremely unfair to you. You deserve to know the truth, you deserve to be allowed into his car because you two are married, that means you are partners in life. Don't let him continue to treat you this way, you deserve better than that, and you deserve an explanation.

First off,find out the truth if he's really seeing someone out there.Check the conversations in his cellphone spy him if possible.If it's true then you know what you have to do.

Go out and have fun. The problem with this is the suspicion. Too many suspicions is not healthy. You will want to find out what he does and not just be brushed off. You should have the same freedoms. If you think he is cheating and it turns out to be true sooner or later you will have to accept it. What you do with the correct information is really up to you. I hope it works out for you.

I think, before taking any decision , you should talk to him.. That's the only solution.. god bless..

hi. welcome to mylot. i think you should confront your husband about his behavior. even if he is not cheating on you, his is being irresponsible. staying out for days just for the sake of having fun is not normal for married men, especially if you have children. if you don't have children, ask him to take you along the next time he goes out to have fun.

hi rujnningwater talk to him and really get down to the bones of the siuation as he is married he is not being very kind to a wife by going off for days on end. tell him to explain what he has been doing and be truthful about it or you will think he has been cheating and you will file for divorce at once.,

Hi running water: Although you are not giving us enough information I think that's enough to put a red flag. If your heart tells you something might be wrong you better don't leave things right. Try to look carefully and don't talk to him until you have big reasons to discuss. ALVARO

You should spy on him more. Ask friends about what he has been doing lately. Find out where he often goes.

I think you should understand him.Turst is very important for couples.maybe he just tired of work.or something can't speak to anyone.don't lie just don't want to hurt you.But in another word.couples need comunication.I think you should be good talk with your husband.Since decided to live together.you should confront the dribs and drabs in life.Just my opinion about this,Hope to have a little bit of help to you! thanks!

I thing the best thing for you to do is to talk to your husband and ask him to spend some time with you. Tell him that you need him and try make love.

Hi. i think u should communicate with husband patiently and see what happened to him. If he doesn't want to do that and appears unpatiently, then i kind of think you may be right.