My Husband

Thank you I just fell so alone lately looking out the window eating my dinner all alone and the only time we eat together is when his brother or company is here!! It makes me cry and I am old now and I feel so stupid when I do that? But Thanks and hope you are having a good day!! We have been together since 2003!!

I sometimes just leave him alone but I can not help missing him

I have been married for 19 years. And all those years, my husband finds more time with his friends than me. I am done with all the crying. If that is what he wants to do, I just let him be. But he should not blame me if something bad happens. I am too tired to argue.

Could you set up a event like a barbecue or something? Have some time with him and talk to him about the sleeping in separate rooms. See why this is happening, tell him you don't like it and see if he will change it to make you happy.

Sounds really good! Thanks I will give that a try soon.

His job is not close at all and he is just that way and always has been a workaholic and won't slow down until he gets home and even then sometimes not!! If the weather is nice he will find something to do outside or in the garage and I don;t mind that but the sleeping in another room I am beginning to not like!!

He says he can not sleep with me because I move around too much he he he l.o.l. I said what you mean? He said you move around like one of those chickens in the Mexican restaraunt on the roaster he he he l.o.l. But I told him I remember one night you told me to be still and you were the one moving around!! And told me if you can't sleep go in the other room But I was just trying to get comfortable!! He was moving more than me. But thanks for the advice I will try this maybe it will work? I will let you know. Thanks again and have a good night

My husband snores so so loud!!

ahaha its good you have another extra room, well i move a lot too when i sleep luckily my husband is a heavy sleeper,and when hes very tired a few seconds afterhe lay down and you can start to hear him snoring that fast.ahaha

He said because I move around too much when I sleep but I have always done that and I hope things will change soon. Thanks and hope you are having a great day.

I hope so too.

I too hope things will change soon. It sounds odd that he wants to sleep separate and he says it's because you move around too much but you have always done that. I hope that he is being honest with you and isn't hiding anything.

I really hope so he is still not home from work well never mind he just got here but thanks for the response and I will ghet back with you soon.

Take care dear, hang in there. As you know mexican men can be real hard headed sometimes. But they have big hearts...

He finally got home and I have to admit I am not the best cook so I had cooked tacos and beans last night and he was home late and he said he would help me fix it today so he did and I told him I will be outside and he asked me if i was hungry and I said yes and I told him I would do it because I know you work hard and he said no I got this and I asked him if he wanted to eat outside with me he said no I want to be here inside watching t.v. of course the Spanish soccer game!!! S o i sat outside with my plate and my drink wasn't a coca cola either!! You know what I mean? And he came outside with me and said I don't want you outside for long!1 I said why? He said are you crazy? I said yes!!! l.o.l. I said I am not scared of ugs!! He said I am talking about people you need to come in! I said I ain't scared of them either!!! l.o.l.

I agree and sounds like a good ideal thanks!!

He won't sleep with me because I move around too much but I heave to get comfortable before I actually sleep, I just don't understand when he gets home from work he goes straight to the back room and wants me to bring his dinner and coffee in there which I don't mind but the door is shut because he doesn't want the cats in there, Well I will have like 3 plates in my hands after cooking and I have to try and find a way to open the d... door!!! He used to stay in the living room and eat with me and watch t.v. with me but not anymore that was when my daughter was here but she has been gone since last Summer so that is why I am confused here? He is not a morning person at all and I work at home now because of that and we can not be in the same car for a long period of time!I need to start my job here at 7 a.m. just as if I were at the office but lately I can't seem to get up until later and I know if I were to get up earlier it would pay off for me!! But I try. Then when I get up I have to do so many things for him, make his coffee, make his lunch, take the car out of the garage run to the store put gas in this and that I don't mind but you have to think when I am calling from home the people I call are in different states and they are on a different time zone than me and the later it gets the harder it gets. I am scared of what might happen between us and I am going to be left here alone!!!