my brain is empty to start my own discussion but i want to response on yours
By missjahn
@missjahn (4574)
Philippines
April 9, 2013 10:20pm CST
its been a couple of days since i am not making my own discussion to start with. maybe because my brain is empty and i have nothing more important to say. i am still active and participating to anyone's discussion.
what happened to me? before, i am one of the starters to any discussion herein and enjoy doing it. i mean, it is not a great deal; i guess i am now much aware that our opinions are needed as we participate to some member's discussion. because before, i am not so much enticed to reply to any comments or to any posted discussions. that is why, i am brainstorming to formulate a good topic on my own as for my participation contribution here.
but see, even my brain is empty - i am still about to make a post out from its emptiness. i have nothing to say yet here this post of mine for us to feast with 
if been lucky enough to be related with you all. it is because, our boredom, loneliness, happiness, emptiness and etc. ness form or words help us or motivate us to write or to create a story out of it. i have lots of things to say but on the other hand, long discussions drag us to boredom and out of interest to reply. till here and then.
focus here if you do not feel like reading 
---- are you this kind of initiator of the topic or just love to participate to any discussions made by other members here? or when do you think it is good for you to post your own discussions? what kind of topics do you like the most to post hereunto? share, share, share! thanks guys!
but see, even my brain is empty - i am still about to make a post out from its emptiness. i have nothing to say yet here this post of mine for us to feast with if been lucky enough to be related with you all. it is because, our boredom, loneliness, happiness, emptiness and etc. ness form or words help us or motivate us to write or to create a story out of it. i have lots of things to say but on the other hand, long discussions drag us to boredom and out of interest to reply. till here and then.
focus here if you do not feel like reading ---- are you this kind of initiator of the topic or just love to participate to any discussions made by other members here? or when do you think it is good for you to post your own discussions? what kind of topics do you like the most to post hereunto? share, share, share! thanks guys!5 people like this
13 responses
@emily7339 (1337)
• Malaysia
10 Apr 13
I would go all out to respond to any topic which is familiar to me 
. At the same time, if there is any inspiration of posting a discussion, I would do so 
. If otherwise, it will be just fine for me to concentrate on responding and comments 
.
. At the same time, if there is any inspiration of posting a discussion, I would do so . If otherwise, it will be just fine for me to concentrate on responding and comments .1 person likes this
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Apr 13
i agree with you ems. it is hard to reply to a topic which we cannot relate. and sometimes if we do understand it but still we go as we reply to it, it will bring us to a mess. so we must be careful. we are not force to reply more if we do not understand the gist of the story. thanks for the reply comment :)
@XtremeGaming (742)
• South Africa
10 Apr 13
I like to keep up to date with anything easy for me to discuss
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
15 Apr 13
Many times I come here, and have no thoughts on a new discussion I would like to start here, or am so busy playing catch up, I do not have the time to even consider doing this. But anytime I can be here, and come up with a new thought and discussion is fine. But I find the more I start the more I have to keep up with here, and since my time is limited I have to always do the Best I can.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
15 Apr 13
good for you that you manage your time to come here to participate even with your hectic schedule. sometimes, i came here with lots of ideas in mind. at least a good title to start with my mind and i will elaborate it here. not to forget it, i had to save it in the drafts of my cellphone. but as of now, i do not want to to do that, that was why i do not have much entry here to start with in here. i have few but most of the time, i just make reply comments with our colleagues in mylot. i do not want to think what good topic should i start here.
@flagella08 (5065)
• Philippines
12 Apr 13
hahhaa. i love this post! i too experienced that many times. I have no idea what kind of being it takes to exercise this power, but I've seen it take place enough in my own life to know that in my case, I'm doing something that I need to stop doing, for at least a little while, because there is nothing else running on my mind.lol Perhaps I am attempting to explain something to someone and they would be damaged by the revelation of what I wanted to say. hahhah
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
13 Apr 13
and as i read in your reply comment mam ivs, i do not know what to response on this. hahah! and the truth is it is really hard to earn money through here. you need a healthy, creative, brilliant ideas and etc (what am i talking now - haha)to participate in mylot. even mylot is a friendly community, we must not take it for granted and that we must give our very best to make this site a healthy and progressive one, at least through this, we can pay its kindness it offers to us. thanks for joining here ;) love it :) mwah
@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
10 Apr 13
I prefer to respond to other discussions, as when I go to start my own discussions, I seem to have a hard time figuring out what topic I want to use. It is so frustrating to have a blacnk mind especially when I need my mind to be refreshed to be able to start any discussions. To me, it is much easier to respond to others, as i don't have to come up with a topic of my own. I know that might sound lazy, but it really isn't. I would rather poost responses to other discussions, and have something to say, that start a discusion, where i don't have anything to say. Take care, and have a good day.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
11 Apr 13
and you know what too, even when i am in the midst of writing my own discussionm there are times that my mind gone blank. and i need to think over and over again what term should i use to be appropriate with the expression that i want to express. i guess, it happened to me because i am not a native speaker of english language. i need to think of a good term to use to complete the thought of the sentence to make the gist fit and right.
i am lazy sometimes as well. but i tried harder to overcome this shortcoming. so thanks for responding here. take care too, God bless :)
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
10 Apr 13
Well, I must say that actually, the last time there was a shortage of your topics. Something quite unusual in that time I used to read about a dozen per day.
But do not worry too much if at the time you have no idea what to write! It sooner or later you will be the inspiration!
I personally (as well as yourself can see) I do not write hardly discussions, but I will only comment on a certain number per day.
Then also I should say: My brain is empty as well!
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
11 Apr 13
haha! just an expression to say brain is empty
should say, that i am not in the mood or doing this for purpose. i do not want to think harder what kind of topic should i post to share herewith. yah, i do not worry so much. i enjoy choosing and participating to any discussions made by our friends and members here as of now. so i go with the flow for the moment. i guess when i have lots of topics in mind, without any second thought, i will enjoy posting it as well :)
should say, that i am not in the mood or doing this for purpose. i do not want to think harder what kind of topic should i post to share herewith. yah, i do not worry so much. i enjoy choosing and participating to any discussions made by our friends and members here as of now. so i go with the flow for the moment. i guess when i have lots of topics in mind, without any second thought, i will enjoy posting it as well :)
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
11 Apr 13
hello svj
i agree with you, sometimes there are factors that will affect our participation in mylot. i experienced the same way as well for about three months i guess. it is because, whether we like it or not, there are things that will consume our time much more importantly rather doing the less much important to consider. mylot is good for understanding busy members, yeah! so let us chill and enjoy this opportunity :) thanks
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
10 Apr 13
hi I like to respond to others a lot but will make a discussion now and then.I usual make discussions about something in my own life so it will not be a repeat of someone else's.
And then I will always comment back on all responses I get too.Not to do so is to be really rude to the people who responded to me with heir time 
and efforts.
and efforts. @missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Apr 13
hello 
like you madam, i strive harder as i can to reply to the reply comments of the members here. this is a sign of gratitude for joining in the thread. and this one shows that i am happy to have them in the discussion i started. and yes, i only reply to any discussions which i can relate and understand to avoid messes. i love discussions to start with the story of myself, love life, experiences, foods, favorites and such. so thanks madam
like you madam, i strive harder as i can to reply to the reply comments of the members here. this is a sign of gratitude for joining in the thread. and this one shows that i am happy to have them in the discussion i started. and yes, i only reply to any discussions which i can relate and understand to avoid messes. i love discussions to start with the story of myself, love life, experiences, foods, favorites and such. so thanks madam
@marguicha (222855)
• Chile
15 Apr 13
I don`t often start a topic myself although I wouldn`t say that my brain is empty. But when I start something, I often ask myself whether there will be anyone interested in what I`m saying. Sometimes it much depends on how many friends or interests you have. I remember that when I started here, I made two posts that did not recieve any responses. One was about cacti, one of my favorite plants, and the other about earthquakes. I would think that some people would be interested in that. But then I did not have friends. No one read them
. But when I start something, I often ask myself whether there will be anyone interested in what I`m saying. Sometimes it much depends on how many friends or interests you have. I remember that when I started here, I made two posts that did not recieve any responses. One was about cacti, one of my favorite plants, and the other about earthquakes. I would think that some people would be interested in that. But then I did not have friends. No one read them
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
10 Apr 13
I still mostly participate with other discussions. I only feel like posting if I really have something that I want to share.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
11 Apr 13
and that what i am doing recently, i do not have a good topic to start with. so that is why, i participate by doing reply comments to our friends discussions in here. it was fun, same as i am just doing my own. it is because, the discussion i responded was of my interest, of course. so it feels the same no matter what kind of participation you are excelling in mylot :) thanks
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
10 Apr 13
If I don't have a discussion in my mind then I just respond to others discussions. Some days a lot happens and I have a lot to say, other days I have absolutely nothing so I just respond to other people's discussions... All depends on the day with me. =)
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
11 Apr 13
:) oh yeah... truly, there are times that we have lots of ideas in minds to post and as well as the days that our mind has nothing to say about and share to our friends herewith. even genuine or professional writers need inspiration to keep on writing and they feel boredom as well. what about us, we just love to share what we have and for a reason, that is why we stick in here for fun or for earning purposes :) thanks :)
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
10 Apr 13
There are times when I cannot start a discussion because it's either I am busy with my other jobs or I just can't think of any good topic to start with. There are also times that even I have something to write but because having to reply to those responses to my own discussion make most of my time, I have to set aside a time for making responses to other discussions as well.
During those times, I would take time to visit my friends profiles and discussions that they started which I might have missed out during the time that I was busy. I also make time for other discussions on my interest and sometimes I devote time for completing task.
Have a wonderful day!
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
11 Apr 13
there are really times that we are not in the mood to make our discussion and also like what you mentioned in your reply, sometimes our activities assumed our time not to participate in mylot. but i must say too, since we love this community and we are having fun in here, we keep on coming back even with our busy schedules. yeah, like anyone else, we can choose what kind of activity we would like to do in here, if we do not like posting our own topic then we can choose which to topic to respond. which way, it brought us the benefits we want why we are here, doing our part :)
happy and earning and also learning
thanks aries :)
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Apr 13
as of now, i am like that. maybe i do not have interesting topic to post upon. and yes, we should be resourceful because many members here could possibly read your discussion. at least, through this - we can give good information to our buddies in this site and maybe they can use it in actual life situation. thanks for coming here :)
@sanahaseeb (162)
• India
10 Apr 13
lolz.. even my brain is empty today and I am commenting on others posts... :P
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
11 Apr 13
:) i guess so, our brains are not totally empty because we can still interact and could decide what to do and make plans how to participate here in mylot. well, each one of us has different likes or interests to make a topic out with. that is the art here, mylot is not a strict site where everyone is welcome to do their part without so much inhibition. we must just abide with the rules and guidelines to stay cool :) and i hope you'll do good in here. enjoy:)
