anyone tired of being in a relationship now?
By cylle_06
@cylle_06 (233)
Philippines
April 10, 2013 12:15pm CST
when we are single for a long time, we tend to miss those times where we cuddle, kiss, hug, or hold hands with someone. like life is so lonely without it. and if we are in a relationship, we suddenly miss being single. we get bored. we get tired of girlfriends/boyfriends who always checks if we're home, who always calls, who always interrupts us. to the point that they don't even realize that they are so annoying.
what can you say about this?
8 responses
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
11 Apr 13
Well that happened to me when I didn't love the guy anymore. But I think we must get married as late as possible, like really enjoy our lives at the 20s, that's what I did because as a teenager I worked with many married women that complained about marrying too soon or having very few boyfriends, they all adviced me to date and have lots of fun first. Now that I found the guy (got married only very recently which by standard is veeery late) I'm happy and wouldn't get out from this relationship for the world. Now even if we are angry at each other, still don't want even to leave home. Now I really enjoy being in a relationship.
@cylle_06 (233)
• Philippines
12 Apr 13
that's so good to hear. your husband is so luck to have you. in your case, you have enough of those teenage moments and the time had come where you realized that you're ready to settle down. you really made the right decision. i wish you and your husband all the best.
@ShivenderRajput1 (110)
• India
11 Apr 13
evry coin has two sides. Relation aint any exception. Some relationships last life long and by looking at them one can say that yes its better to be commited rather than being single. On the other hand there are instances where relationships just end the happiness of people.. such cases examplify the benefits of being single. Just to round up it can be said that it solely depends on individuals what they want in their life and how they work out their way through ..
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
10 Apr 13
Personally, I have never been a fan of being single. I know some people enjoy being alone, but I never did. I am married now and I love being a wife and a mother. When they are even out somewhere, I always feel like part of me is missing...
@RandomnessPrincessx3 (280)
• United States
10 Apr 13
I've been single for well over a year now, and i relate to missing the cute things in a relationship, but there is too much im accomplishing without a relationship, like setting my career and such. So i know i'm not ready for a relationship yet. When i am, i hope i don't feel annoyed by everything that comes with a relationship.
@cylle_06 (233)
• Philippines
11 Apr 13
well, that's our common fear. in getting into a relationship, we always doubt the "work it out" thing. But my best advice is to pray for your relationship. that includes your partner and you and the people around you that may be a factor of hardships.
@adonymousme (10)
• Philippines
13 Apr 13
that really depends on how you see yourself in a situation, may it be single or in a relationship with someone. If you really value the person, you won't get bored no matter how annoying it gets. Or when you are single and cannot stop comparing yourself from other people you see being happy sharing their lives with someone else, that's when you get to miss the companionship. You can always be happy being single and also not miserable while committed, it's just a case of how you enjoy what you have.
@ShivenderRajput1 (110)
• India
11 Apr 13
evry coin has two sides. Relation aint any exception. Some relationships last life long and by looking at them one can say that yes its better to be commited rather than being single. On the other hand there are instances where relationships just end the happiness of people.. such cases examplify the benefits of being single. Just to round up it can be said that it solely depends on individuals what they want in their life and how they work out their way through..
