another conversation with my ex

When I read the discussion, the first thing that popped in my head was "There are guys that should have their tubes tied so they'd stop making babies". I mean, it's screaming "irresponsible" all over. hehe.. I'm sorry for sounding rude. But I guess there are those who are just like dogs who can't stop themselves from pro-creating. Anyway, back to your concern. You should be the mature one here because he obviously isn't. So I guess it's just friendship there, but I do hope that when he comes knocking on your door you won't open it wide and expect him to change. I guess I just don't like complications in my life already. I'm tired of all the drama and that sort of person is just a "complication" hehe.. Have a great mylot experience ahead!

Nothing's impossible..and who knows..maybe there is a yellowbrick road that will lead you both back together.Don't be afraid to get on it if there is one ;) .. I would say take it day by day :0

Nothing's impossible..and who knows..maybe there is a yellowbrick road that will lead you both back together.Don't be afraid to get on it if there is one ;) .. I would say take it day by day

Thanks for sharing, your son's father is not your husband? I am confused.

Yeah it sounds like he's got to get himself together before he starts having relationships. He already has two children and that is a lot of responsibility. If you have any interest in getting back with him you should first talk with her and see if the relationship has really ended like he said.

I'd test him and say fine if you two aren't together anymore it's cool that I come over then. Just to see the response.

Randomprinesss There was I am sure a reason for your ex and that is probablye the girl friend he now had a bbby with. No I wou d not get back with him anm I wo uld not even be friends with him except just to allow him to visit his son perhaps.Why do you think that the reason you did make him your ex has now miraculously vanished and e will be different? I would not fall fo r hisf crap myself. You deserve better than that.

Well well well....I just hoped that it is what your heart and brain says...that no matter how bad he was...still, he is the father of your child and that a different kind of bonding of yours happened before. It is already up to you if you will light up the candle that brings the two of you closer with each other.

Sorry but sounds like same game, different day. Not trying to be mean but I have a hard time trusting guys like the one your describing. It sounds like he is a jerk and a player. I would not have the time for that mess in my life. Not when I know there are guys out there that are actually decent... I think if you are friends with him, it will bring up old feelings on your part again and you will fall for his game all over again. People can change, but they have to PROVE that to me before I would ever give them the time of day again. Even as friends. Let's face it, even with being friends you should have trust in the person, if you cannot trust them there is no kind of relationship at all. I wish you the best with whatever you decide! Just be careful with who you give your heart to, some people really don't deserve it.

I have an ex as well. The father of my son. He never calls or texts me. Im glad for that. Take care there.

two kids with different moms... he doesn't have a good track record. for the sake of your son, if you can be friends, fine. i'm just wondering why all this talk about his present GF? he doesn't need to justify himself. BEWARE!!! i think he's trying to win you back.

Think before you act. Think carefully. It is only you who controls your future. If you want him back, just give the man another chance? Or just the other way around, it's your choice. Think of the possibilities of what might happen when you choose your decisions.

In my opinion, it would be better if you'll just ignore your ex husband. He already made you stupid for one time and I don't think it's good if you would be nice to him still. I mean you don't need to deprive him from his right being the father of your son but this does not mean that because he's already done with his mistress he can just be with you anytime he wants, Once is enough my dear. Don't make yourself pity again. This wouldn't help you. It would be better that you just spend all your time to your child. He needs your attention twice than the usual because of your family status. It's very hard to grow up without a father.

For me, it's never a good idea to even consider being friends with an ex. It's never going to be natural nor back to normal. At the end of the day, you may just get hurt again. An ex is an ex for a certain reason. It's always best to leave the past behind and move on to find your true happiness elsewhere.

I think most probably you need to give time for yourself and try to come into decisions. I think most probably you should try to find the truth and then make a decision and do what you feel is right.

i guess since you have a child together it's good to have a friendship. as long as it stays that way. remember the reasons of why you two broke up.

its like a walk in the memory lane and you are discussing to her about your memories and also past happenings.It is awesome

they love to lie just to get what they want, I have somehow same scenario as yours and its really damn bad, good thing you have decided not to get back on him I find him immature for such actions