Broken relationships

i remember how hard it is for me to cope up with my first heartbroken.. i cant sleep, i cant eat, there are times i just want to die because i cant handle anymore the sadness but of course its just in my head i never did anything to kill myself.. anyways i was totally devastated because it was a seven years relationship.. and it is a third party in my boyfriends part... what i did to overcome my sadness is i go out with my friends.. i keep myself busy with my work and buy everything i want and have some dates and eventually my heart heals..

hello joyalaugustine! welcome to mylot! it's impossible to forget about my first love and the pains of my very first break-up. no matter how long ago it happened i can still remember everything that happened and the pain is still real. the reason we broke-up was immaturity and it was not the right time to be that seriously in love with a man yet so the relationship had to end. i could never live my life as though it did not happen at all cause my very first boyfriend will forever be a special part of my life.

People are so unique and special in their own way that I don't forget any boyfriend of friends or special accoitances I met in my life time, it's nice to remember. I broke up because I was stupid but also too young, I thought that we can find someone that won't do those little things that is hurtful when in truth any couple will always have a thing or two they get into each other's nerves.

She was in my college i had huge crush on her at first so i started to help her in studies to be with her.She used to give maximum attention to me, used to hang out a lot with me.Soon out friendship turned into love.One of our mutual friend and my well wisher told me that she likes me but was totally confused as she wanted someone who can be controlled and adjusted according to her nature(i am still figuring out what she meant by that).He also told me that she could not say no to me directly as she wants to get transferred to a university in my town ,where the director is friend of my father,so that she might get some favors.Anyways i just confronted her on this,she accepted that mutual friend was correct and we never met since then.It didn't effect my life though i moved on quickly,yes i has some sleepless nights but i had a busy schedule then ,i had no choice but to push this bad experience back.Best wishes

We can move on no matter what we've hapened on us,but it's you to decide how your life will be and good luck to you.I know it takes time to forget things and start again.So good luck to you and life goes on.

hi, dear friend, I didn't go through the break up with my love. My current boyfriend is my first love, and I hope that he will be my last and be my husband. But my roommate in university has two experiences of this break-up thing. The first time her boy friend hid his infecting disease from her for three years and thanks to god she was immune to it because of vaccine given in her childhood. She could not accept the fact and finally chose to break. The second time her new boyfriend didn't let she eat drumsticks, so strange reason, she broke up again. After two love failure, she had a one-night stand with an armyman, a friend of the boy friend of her new roommate. So complicated, so fantastic. Before long they became lovers. I wish them happiness.

No there is absolutely no way that I would ever get back together with my first love. He was a crazy abusive a** and I do regret that I ever met or stayed with him for so long, yes it made me a stronger person but it also caused me so much long term emotional damage and so much pain, literal physical pain, being with him. If I saw him today I would kick him in the balls and my current boyfriend who is the most amazing man on earth, would punch that jerk in his face.

Relationships are really hard to begin with and the last thing you need is to be uncertain if you wanna stay in one ´cause when you feel that way chances are you don´t need it in your life, there´s nothing worst than feeling obligated to stay in a place you don´t want to....

Hi friend, it is really hard to forget our first love if it is deep and sincere. Not everyone get success in their love. Some people are in the situation to lose their first love for various reasons, but they always cherish the good moments of the past in their life. We must try our maximum to avoid unwanted fights and ego problem in a good relationship