Courting: what is the truth?

@gelomon (286)
Philippines
April 11, 2013 4:34am CST
As a teenager, we all know that this is our life. :) and about courting i do want to clarify what really the truth about courting. I have courted some girls and have some girlfriend these past years and i do want to ask which really do best the old way of courting or the modern way? Many says that the old way is out of time but i do want to do that now when i will court. What can you say about that? Thanks for those who will help.. Have a good day :)
4 responses
• Philippines
11 Apr 13
You need no help your problem is yourself you don't have control, your problem is courting then how can it be a problem for you when in fact you already confessed that you already courted several girls, you made us laugh. With your story your already an expert.
@gelomon (286)
• Philippines
12 Apr 13
haha! You made of laugh too. Expert? Hell no! Truth to be told i am not. :) i just want to ask what really is more romantic the old or the modern way, because many told me that the old way was too corny. And that discourages me :)
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
11 Apr 13
I think to define what man can or cannot do and women is to be closed minded. I surely prefer being courted, but just that this is my type of dating, I find it exciting this way and not because women can't, I think is nice a woman court if she's the hunter type and I don't find man that were courted weak, more and more we realize that both sexes can do the same thing, we just had been educated in a certain way for many centuries.
@gelomon (286)
• Philippines
12 Apr 13
oh im not taking bout that the girls will court us men, i was talking about the way we court women, i just think that many say that the old way was too corny to be used now a days :(
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
19 Aug 15
I'm not an expert on 'specific cultures' methods and policies on dating and marriage,' but I think the general idea you're trying to convey (first to the person, then to their friends and family) is "I'm a good person for you/your-friend/your-relative to spend her life with."
• Philippines
11 Apr 13
as a girl ofcourse i wanted to be courted in the old way. being courted on a modern way makes me feel an easy to get person thats why i loved to be courted in an old way, and you know what its more romantic
@gelomon (286)
• Philippines
12 Apr 13
thanks for the advice, next time i will court a girl, ill be on the old way to be the way i really wanted :) i would ticke that as advice :) have a great day!